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When can't a woman spend the night at her parents' house?

These are all feudal superstitions. My daughter was brought up in her mother's parents. It doesn't matter when we are at her mother's house. There is no ominous sign at all. This is just a feudal superstition. The daughter is also a child born to her parents, so she can stay at home any day.

Twenty-three can't be at home?

The traditional family structure in China holds that when a woman marries, she immediately becomes a full member of the man's family. Instead, the former family has become a "relative" relationship. For example, when a woman surnamed Li marries the Zhang family, she is called "Zhang Lishi", which means. The original surname "Li" became a vice surname. When a woman officially becomes a member of a man's family, it is impossible to go to a "relative's" house too casually, let alone a family reunion on New Year's Eve or New Year's Eve. In feudal society, married women often went back to their parents' homes and were scolded not only by their in-laws, but also by their parents' families. I have to be told by people around me to eat inside and choose outside.

If a married daughter goes back to visit her family in her early years, it will bring her mother-in-law's fortune and destroy the feng shui of understanding. Moreover, it is very unlucky for a married woman to go back to her mother's house on the day of her off-year and predict that she will get married or remarry soon.

However, according to the modern concept, the social atmosphere is not as good as before, and it is ok to go back to your mother's house on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month.

I can't go back to my mother's house for a day.

It is not appropriate to go back to your mother's house on the day of sacrifice.

In Henan area, because women don't sacrifice stoves, there is also a custom that they should not go back to their parents' home on the day of sacrifice. Generally speaking, the bride should not stay at her parents' home for too long. First, it is about the mistakes of the husband's family. Second, it is a mistake to her parents' family. The married daughter is a guest, and it is inevitable to take it seriously.

Avoid the first day of the first month.

The first day of the first month is the first day of the new year, which is the first day of the new year. New Year's Day is a holiday for family reunion. According to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the New Year's Day. If you go back to your mother's house on New Year's Day, your husband's family will not be able to reunite.

In addition, beginning of spring should not go back to her parents' home, because "spring" is bigger than "year", otherwise she will be poor.