Why was my message withdrawn?

Anyway, what kind of psychology is it to send you a message, withdraw the message and pay attention to you? This is definitely not about your childhood. The elders will tell us a truth:

"There is no regret medicine to sell in this world."

If you do something wrong and say something wrong, you can't start over. You can only accept the fact.

But on WeChat, you can buy regret medicine. If you accidentally say something wrong, you can tap "Withdraw" and your words will disappear, just like you never said them.

Sometimes, people shrink back because they typed wrong words, and more often, they shrink back because they inadvertently said what they thought.

In fact, the news that a person quit hides his truth.

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Sometimes, I will withdraw my information because I dare not say I love you.

I once asked a few friends what it was like to withdraw the news.

The friend vaguely shared her experience of withdrawing news.

I once had a crush on a colleague in a company. They have a good relationship. They often go out to play together and talk late. They talk about everything. In the eyes of others, they are like lovers in love.

However, despite the close relationship between Meng Meng and his colleagues, they never took this step. How does the other person feel about himself? This question makes my heart beat drums.

One night, as usual, I said good night to my secret lover on WeChat, ready to have a rest. She lay in bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep. As soon as her brain was hot, she picked up her mobile phone and sent a message to the other party, "Do you know that I like you?"

Within two minutes, she withdrew the news. The next day, as if nothing happened.

Meng Meng said to me, "I really want to confess to him, but I'm afraid I can't even be friends after confession."

Many times, we withdraw a message, except for a few cases because of typos or the wrong person. More often, it's because we accidentally say what we really think.

When we reveal our true thoughts, we will feel uneasy, because we don't know how the other party will react, so we can't help but flinch.

I saw an action on the Internet, which resonated with many people. Open the phone, send a message to the other party, carefully write down what you want to say in the dialog box, but dare not send it out, only delete it word by word.

I think people who delete conversations feel the same way as people who withdraw messages.

Careful, especially tangled. I am afraid that the other party will see the news, but I am afraid that the other party will not see it.

For those who are in the state of "above friends and under lovers", the truth in their withdrawal messages is: I like you, but I dare not tell you.

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Sometimes, the news is withdrawn because you dare to be angry and dare not speak.

Writer Adaxi said: The social disaster of adults is to blurt out the truth.

Sometimes, telling the truth is a catharsis, but in the workplace and interpersonal communication, this catharsis may be a disaster. And withdrawal is the last remedy for these social disasters.

Two days ago, my colleague Pony let off steam once.

Ma Xiao is a contracted photographer for the company. His photography level and retouching technology are first-class, and he has won many weighty awards.

Last week, his boss took a job for him, with few requirements, that is, taking photos that satisfy customers and repairing the picture effect that customers are satisfied with.

I thought I could finish it soon, but I didn't expect it to drag on for a week.

In the process of cooperation, the customer's requirements are as changeable as the weather in June. Pony changed 10 times according to the requirements, and every time he negotiated with the customer, the customer would let him dry for a few hours before replying.

The last revision, the customer said, you'd better change back to the first edition.

Pony's mood suddenly broke out, and she sent a sentence to the customer on WeChat: "Is it interesting for you to change like this and not listen to my opinion?"

The moment it was sent out, the pony calmed down and withdrew the news. He knows not to offend customers.

Under the social rules of adults, you can't tell the truth casually, because your truth may make people unhappy, and it is more likely to implicate yourself.

Sometimes, when you communicate with others, maybe what he said makes you angry, maybe you don't quite agree with his point of view, but in order to maintain the relationship and not to make trouble for yourself, you can only keep calm and then take back your angry words.

If you find that your friend or colleague has withdrawn information from you, his true words may be: I have a problem with you, but I don't want to offend you.

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Sometimes, I take back my information because I'm afraid you're worried.

Fa Xiao once said that what WeChat hates most is the function of withdrawing messages.

I asked why, and she said, "I didn't even know my mother was ill because I withdrew the news."

One day, I was working overtime when my mother suddenly sent her a voice. Because of her busy work, she didn't check the news at once.

When I was busy, I found that my mother had withdrawn her voice. When she asked what happened, her mother said that she sent the wrong message, so she didn't take it to heart when she was young.

It was not until a month later that she was chatting among relatives, and a relative suddenly asked her, "How is your mother's illness?" I heard it's quite serious. Should it be all right? "

She was stunned. She doesn't know that her mother is ill!

She called her mother and asked her why she didn't tell her. My mother hesitated for a while and said, "I sent you a voice to say this before, but seeing that you are working so hard outside, I don't want you to worry about me, so I left." The doctor said nothing last week, and then I didn't tell you. "

After listening to this, I was so angry that tears were about to fall. I said loudly, "Why did you withdraw the news?" Don't tell me until something really happens! "

In our WeChat address book, there is such a person.

They won't bother you often, but they will always pay attention to any developments of you. They will always forward all kinds of health news to you in case you don't take care of yourself. When they know that you are in trouble, their nerves will be tightly affected. But they seldom tell you what happened to them, for fear that you might worry about them.

They are parents.

Parents in China often love their children deeply and forbear, hoping that their children will be filial and care for themselves, but they are afraid that their illness will drag them down.

They are willing to put one of their own.