My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for four months. Will the relationship be weak if you don't meet?

As long as two people love us to the end, why covet my Heron?

I have a friend whose father is in China and his mother is in Canada, so it's nothing. I am the same as my date. He is in Australia and I am in China. Three years without an accident, he only comes back once a year.

Okay, okay, okay, it's no use talking. . .

Running a relationship is tiring enough, what's more, two people are separated by Wan Li, which is still a state or an ocean. However, successful long-distance relationships do exist. First, we must communicate smoothly with each other to separate the two places. What I fear most is anger and misunderstanding. Long-term anger and misunderstanding will make two people indifferent to each other, and may also give the poacher an opportunity to make everything clear and talk about rationality after sensibility. Is a mistake a mistake? Of course, if no one really wants to bow their heads, please give priority to boys rather than women at this time. Angry, you say that he (she) has done something bad, and you don't like this way. I think if he realizes it, he will restrain himself next time, because this is what his woman needs. But if you say you have no confidence in the love between two people, or say "I don't care about you, and you don't care about me", "I don't know if I will like others", "Who do you think you are&; Shy; How did I find you like this? I think it's really too much. Once or twice, these words may still achieve the purpose of making you angry with your boyfriend; But you should know that even if a man is uncomfortable, even if he cries, it is the easiest for him to suppress his disappointment. When he turned this disappointment into despair, it was really a sentence whether to break up or not. Not his sudden, but his outburst. Therefore, I advise friends in long-distance relationships to know what angry words are and what words destroy confidence! If two people are aboveboard, it is best to always take the initiative to tell each other what they are doing and where they are. In this way, both sides have a bottom in their hearts, and they are relieved. And this has become a habit, and the possibility of being dug away will be greatly reduced. Confidante: Xiao Yuan is 23 years old, and my boyfriend and I are separated. We have known each other for three years, but we have only been friends for four months now. I used to think he was such a person. But now together, I find that he is also very naive. Unlike others, he will care about you and put in a good word for you, because he feels that no matter how good he says, he is not as good as doing it. Second, you should trust each other and believe that you can be together and separate the two places. You must let your faith and belief support you. Constant confusion and lack of confidence in the future will shake feelings. The quarrel caused by minor contradictions may also be the fuse of breaking up. Love means trust. After all, it is a strange place, and it is impossible to see every word and deed every day. The suspicion of ignorance will ruin the sweetness of two people. Think about the bottom line first, okay? To prevent yourself from being caught off guard when you encounter a mutation, things must always be done in a good direction, but you must also be prepared for it. Temporary separation will inevitably require two people to wait, but waiting is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you don't know what you are waiting for. This is the duty of faith and confidence: think of your woman from time to time, express this confidence and belief, and let her know that although you are not together now, you have been trying to achieve yourself; Strive for a happy life in the future. Only when two people firmly believe in their love can they talk about right and wrong. Therefore, at any time, no matter which one of the two people, we must understand this clearly. When you have no vision or even a wait-and-see attitude towards your love, you can only say that you are pathetic. Of course, if you still think so now, then don't continue reading my post. I despise people with this attitude. Third, keep in touch with each other in time through SMS, telephone and Internet. If you lose contact, you can't communicate in time, which will make the other party unfamiliar. The timely arrival of SMS, telephone and Internet will make you feel the feeling of your lover around you through virtual experience. Maintain a certain frequency of meeting, preferably once every few months. The pain of lovesickness also needs to be released, and the sweetness of a few days makes up for the lovesickness of the past few months. If you want to call her (or send a message), then call (send) and convey your thoughts in time, which will make your love sweeter; But remember: if she doesn't answer the phone (or hang up directly) or text messages don't return, you will definitely become anxious (even a little angry) at this moment, but don't dial (send) if you are anxious (angry). Do your thing with peace of mind (do your best). She will call you when she sees her mobile phone. But on the other hand, if your girlfriend calls you (or sends a message), no matter how inconvenient it is, as long as the phone is around, try to at least send her a message and don't worry her. Don't ask why, because we are men, because we love our girlfriends. It must be admitted that anyone who wants to make a phone call (send a text message) with his lover wants an immediate response; But in a long-distance relationship, you can't see each other, so you should replace this invisible obstacle with trust. You must get used to the idea that she won't return your calls. Confidante: Masako Age: 24. My boyfriend and I are also separated. The usual contact is qq, telephone, SMS. Many friends say they envy me, but nobody cares. Maybe! I'm afraid that two people will quarrel when they are together every day. Maybe it's normal that I haven't felt the crisis when I met him. But when he is not around, without his text messages and phone calls, his heart is always uneasy! The more you love each other, the more you care. In other words, insecurity and mutual trust are not contradictory. Contact more and find some activities to keep love fresh. Fourth, the separation of the two places is equally passionate. A brief meeting after separation between the two places will definitely make each other feel long. In addition, there are many new things that can also increase the quality of long-distance love. In your spare time, try your best to surprise your baby. This surprise is not all about money, because many people, like me, have richer hearts than money. For example, sending small cards online; It's nothing. Give her a romantic game to play ... and so on.