What advantages do Scorpio boys like and what disadvantages do they hate about Aries girls?

Scorpio man loves a person's performance: (I think it is very useful)

First, the stage from acquaintance to confession: (pursuit stage)

First of all, the general rule: (it will happen, but it doesn't mean that it will all or definitely happen)

1. If Scorpio GG likes you, it will first attract your attention to him in the following ways:

1) will say something that "hurts" you, and the words in it will deliberately tease you or make you angry for fun.

2) Take the initiative to approach you and find an excuse to get along with you whenever something happens; Or meet you intentionally or unintentionally.

3) The silent scorpion will suddenly become eloquent and keep chatting with you (including QQ or SMS).

4) Always surprise you, make you moved in panic and attract you in love.

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2. When you show interest in him, Scorpio GG will associate with you with ignorance and make further exploration: (It will happen, but it doesn't mean.

Will all or will happen)

1) physical contact, often with you intentionally or unintentionally, such as touching your head, putting your shoulders on, and hugging your waist.

He will think: if you show resistance, he is hopeless.

2) He will secretly kiss you when you don't care, and he will think that when you show resistance, he is hopeless.

3) With his eyes, he will always look at you subconsciously; When I talk to you, my eyes will turn around on you or look at you affectionately.

4) Jealousy is the embodiment of hegemony. When you are close to others, Scorpio GG will think that you don't know the taste and are jealous frequently.

5) Take the initiative to care about everything about you, which is the rumored scorpion "fever".

6) You will be named "Hua Ming", and your name will be changed to honey, baby. ......

7) I will tell you his shortcomings and past, and see how much you accept his past.

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When his ambiguity makes him confident, he will confess to you after he catches it. Scorpio GG likes to express his love for you silently. male

It's rare to say the words "I love you" to your face! Scorpio likes each other and feels his love for you with all his heart. It will happen, but

Does not mean that it will all or certainly happen)

1) When Scorpio GG introduces you to relatives and friends, you should pay attention that this may be a way for him to express his love for you.

2) When Scorpio GG tells you his future plans, you should pay attention to it, which may be a way for him to express his love for you.

3) Scorpio GG's blog, when there is a blog or message expressing love for you in the space, you should pay attention to it. It may be that he is expressing love for you.

To some extent.

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Second, the substitution situation: (How to distinguish between ignorant behavior and the performance of true love? )

1. Some ambiguous behaviors that are difficult to distinguish: (It will happen, but it doesn't mean that it will all or definitely happen)

1) Scorpion GG asked you for an "X" or an excessive pro-re soon after their relationship.

2) Scorpio GG is hot and cold in the process of communication, sometimes caring, sometimes indifferent.

3) Scorpion GG refuses to say "love" or promise "love" to you after dating for a period of time.

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2. How to judge whether the X requirement of Scorpion GG represents love?

1) judge whether the x requirement of scorpion GG belongs to true love;

A, Generally speaking, if you have been in contact for a short time (you haven't understood each other's personality, personality and family background clearly ...), you will thrive.

Four times, it's usually not love.

B, generally speaking, if it is contact for a period of time (both sides already know each other's situation), occasionally when the situation is relatively strong, then

Usually, the scorpion GG has the temptation to lead to frivolous behavior or take X as the depth of love in the process of love.

2) requirements for the "X" of Scorpion GG or excessive pro-Re:

First of all: don't hesitate, but resolutely refuse; Love or not.

Second: Don't give him another chance, and don't give yourself any illusions.

Again: the way to refuse should be clear, but be careful not to hurt the scorpion's self-esteem. When we get to know each other, we get to know each other and be sure of each other.

Think about it after establishing a relationship. )

3. How to judge whether scorpions are hot or cold for love? (It will happen, but it doesn't mean that it will all or definitely happen)

1) Out-of-sync love can lead to boredom and indifference. C is for love, but I don't know how to love.

2) quarreling in the process of love hurts self-esteem and produces a feeling of exhaustion and indifference. -stands for love, but protects self-esteem.

3) I am too focused on things other than love to care about my feelings. -stands for love, which is unintentional indifference.

4) "Sex" occurs after a short relationship and then shows indifference. -not love, indifference is to get rid of your entanglement.

5) Indifferent to one's passionate pursuit. -it means that you don't love, that Scorpio GG just wants to be friends with you, and it is a kind refusal.

6) It's hot when we meet, but cold when we leave. -indicating that you don't love, indicating that Scorpio GG has not considered further development with you.

7) I am usually very concerned, but I am very indifferent when there are outsiders or when I am not together. -It's not love, it's ambiguity or

It's just the concern between colleagues and friends.

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4. Scorpion GG refuses to say "love" or promise "love" to you after dating for a period of time for the following reasons:

1) There are practical problems, and Scorpio GG is still considering hesitation. -Explain that Scorpion GG loves you, but there is no objective problem.

Within his control, he felt inferior and evaded, so he refused to respond whether he "loved".

2) I'm not sure about your love, and I'm not confident to express it. -Explain that Scorpio GG loves you, maybe your words and deeds have "distrust" or

"Swing"

3) See questions 2 1 and 45 in Scorpion GG 100 Why.

He lied about his real marital status. -Explain that Scorpio GG doesn't love you, and the purpose of initial communication is only for ambiguity.

5) What he likes is the feeling of ignorance. -Explain that Scorpio GG doesn't love you. From the degree of his heart, we can know that he just likes to have an affair with you.

This feeling.

Summarize the performance of Scorpio GG love in the pursuit stage. To sum up, Scorpio GG's love table in boyfriend and girlfriend stage.

Now:

Two. After confession or when the relationship is in a relatively stable stage: (boyfriend and girlfriend stage)

1. Some differences and reasons of love from the pursuit stage: (it will happen, but it doesn't mean it will all or definitely happen)

1. The heat will be obviously reduced; You should know that while "burning" yourself, you will also feel tired.

2. The phenomenon of "disappearance" will increase; Scorpion GG wants to have his own space even in front of his close lover.

3. More and more overbearing, the degree of mutual accommodation will decrease; Will be self-centered and let you turn around him; You know, that's just him. "

Balance the previous efforts.

More and more mysterious, unwilling to tell you what he really thinks. You know, mystery is the characteristic of Scorpio GG.

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2. Analysis of some phenomena that "love" often makes people feel "not love":

1. Phenomenon: Scorpion GG doesn't care about your affairs as much as he did when he pursued you, and he doesn't praise you as much.

Analysis: Scorpio GG hopes that his close lover can have an independent side, so that you can feel his coldness. The whole process of standing by is actually forcing you.

Progress; This is a sign of love, which just makes you misunderstand "no love". Less praise for you, that's because the requirements for you are getting higher and higher, hope.

I hope you are getting better and better; This is a sign of love, which just makes you misunderstand "no love".

2. Phenomenon: Scorpion GG said malicious words after quarreling with you.

Analysis: quarreling is the easiest way to hurt self-esteem. Scorpion GG has a strong self-esteem (actually very fragile), and he may get hurt if he is not careful.

His self-esteem; So put down the malicious words and protect your self-esteem; So put down the malicious words and hope to force you to submit; So put down the harsh words and express my disagreement with you.

Full; So put down the malicious words and release your stagnation. Many times it can be said that it is completely irrational and unconscious "no love", or

The speaker said it was "the more I love it, the more I hate it"!

3. Phenomenon: Scorpion GG becomes indifferent after quarreling with you.

Analysis: In addition to swearing, Scorpion GG likes to have a cold war with each other. In fact, both rigidity and softness are easy to bend and work together.

4. Phenomenon: Scorpio GG treats family and friends better than you.

Analysis: Many MMs will find that their position in Scorpion GG's mind has declined after determining the relationship, and they feel very wronged. this is because

Scorpion GG thinks that you and he should be one, no longer separated from each other; You don't have what others have, but what you have-he, others must have it.

Less than. You don't exist in his mind because you are himself! He always wants to sacrifice himself.

In exchange for the affirmation of family or friends, it is reasonable for you to sacrifice with him, because you are himself!

5. Phenomenon: Have you always really loved me because of you? Wait for a kind of question and avoid answering it.

Analysis: It may be because Scorpio GG will not give MM a sense of security, so many MM always want to get love from Scorpio GG.

Commitment, looking for evidence of love to increase their sense of security; As everyone knows, it often hurts! You know, Scorpio should say ""

How difficult is the word "love"! Because Scorpio GG knows the responsibility and weight of the word "love", he feels the pressure to get the word "love" and avoids it.

Scorpio GG doesn't answer, knowing that he doesn't have the ability to make you the happiest person in the world, and taking escape can be said to be inferiority complex, or it can be

In other words, he is too demanding of himself and doesn't love you!

6. Phenomenon: Scorpio GG is becoming more and more mysterious and unwilling to reveal his inner thoughts.

Analysis: Scorpion GG is becoming more and more mysterious because he is afraid of your thinking, and he wants to bear the difficulties, pains and setbacks by himself. ......

I don't want you to worry too much. It's not that I don't love, but that I am willing to sacrifice for love! Sometimes Scorpio GG likes to surprise you and show your own.

Strength, not love, is to please you and give you a sense of security! Only in her eyes, she used the wrong method.

7. Phenomenon: Scorpion GG's sex gives you the feeling that he just "possesses".

Analysis: I don't need to tell you anything about the sex of Scorpio GG. The strong desire and demand for sex sometimes makes MM feel Scorpio.

He just wants to possess himself, not really love himself. It is normal to have this idea; In fact, from another perspective, it can be interpreted as

Scorpion GG hopes to express his love through his gender.

8. Phenomenon: He would rather ask his friends for help than you lend a helping hand.

Analysis: Scorpion GG mostly has male chauvinism, which makes him unable to put down his self-esteem in front of his lover, so he is unwilling to admit himself in front of the person he loves.

My ability is poor, so naturally I won't accept the help of my lover. Scorpion GG will not "unless absolutely necessary."

Harm the "interests" of people around you; In other words, you are actually the people around him-relatives! It's not that I don't trust you,

I don't love you, but he turned love into further affection!

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Three. Marriage stage: (including the stage of quasi-husband-wife relationship)

1. The expression of love at this stage is the most subtle and difficult to find. It requires you to explore and accumulate bit by bit, and you need to understand it more.

Understanding ... Many times, the trace of love in marriage-"treasure" should be found in "grass"-cold and overbearing.

On the surface: (it will happen, but it doesn't mean it will happen all or definitely)

1. Most Scorpio boys in marriage have male chauvinism, so he will change himself and obey you in pursuit of you; Once you get married,

After that, Scorpio boys may have to be themselves. The process of being yourself will conflict with you, quarrel, indifference, in fact, there are

Doesn't mean he doesn't love you, just wants to love you in his own way.

2. Most Scorpio boys want to have a stable "rear area" after marriage to provide him with the guarantee of career struggle. Therefore, the enthusiasm for the cause often

Will cause the neglect of the other party's emotional concern; The expansion of personal space alone creates obstacles to mutual communication. Unintentional negligence, unintentional negligence.

His indifference was not his intention. In fact, he just wants to use his success to "repay" your silent support and concern.

3. The love expression of Scorpio boys in marriage is no longer as romantic as before marriage, so intoxicating, yearning and moving; Often an expression of love.

The way is: use "material" to make up for "spiritual" care. In this way, the expression of love often makes the other person feel too direct and unpretentious.

What's more, it will hurt each other's self-esteem. In fact, it's not that he doesn't love you, but that he ignores the spiritual and emotional aspects of women.

Demand is stronger than material demand; In fact, it's not that he doesn't love you, but that Scorpio boys in marriage have become more realistic than you think.

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2. For some common problems and analysis: (It will happen, but it doesn't mean that it will all or definitely happen)

1. Question: You may find that you will never rank first in Scorpio's mind, and it is more likely that you are not even his good friend.

For example.

Answer: It's not that he doesn't love you, but that you are no longer among his friends. Perhaps, you will ask: since it is not a friend, then

It's a relative's, so why doesn't he put me first? ! That's because he mixed you up with him.

It's not that he doesn't love you, but he doesn't love himself. He hopes that you and he can have an unparalleled tacit understanding between husband and wife, and he pursues you.

Reach the realm of "the husband sings with the woman"-an idealized love. Tell a joke: his love is a bit "superb".

2. Question: Scorpio cheated. Since he doesn't love, why doesn't he admit it?

Answer:

(1) Reason:

1. It is understandable that you are unwilling to admit it. Who would be stupid enough to admit to having an affair with his wife and children? Unless he "

I really want to be separated from my wife!

2. So, why does Scorpion deny it? Because he knows that if he admits it, his wife may divorce him and the family will be separated.

Yes So it proves that he still has feelings for his wife and family. Behind "laziness" is to continue to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, which is still good for you.

Love.

(2) How to treat:

1. If there is real evidence, the scorpion husband can't deny it, and he doesn't need to admit it in front of you.

When you feel that your husband's affair has touched your "bottom line" and you feel that you must divorce, you can directly list the evidence you have.

Then go through the formalities.

When you feel that you can't let go of your feelings with your Scorpion husband, you just need to give him a hint that you know his affair and give him one.

A chance to correct yourself. Scorpio has a strong self-esteem. Give him some face. If he thinks family is important, he will be kind to you.

I appreciate everything I have done, and I will make it up to you.