Get back what your ex-girlfriend didn't do.

First, I have been pestering each other since I broke up. After breaking up, many friends' first reaction is to make it right. At this time, they tend to be anxious. When their minds are hot, they will constantly apologize to each other, admit their mistakes, and even bombard them with text messages and telephone calls, so that the other party can feel their sincerity and return to their side. But in fact, it often backfires. The other person will not come back to you, but will keep pulling away from you. Why is this happening? It is because after breaking up, the other party already thinks you are disgusted. At this time, you continue to pester. Can the other person not feel that you are annoyed? The other person will only be more disgusted with you and want to escape from this relationship. Second, continue to please each other after breaking up. After apologizing for their mistakes, many friends often take some flattering actions, such as sending flowers to each other, buying gifts for each other and doing some romantic things for each other. In short, various methods of flattery emerge one after another, but the results are often unsatisfactory, and in some cases may even have the opposite effect. This happens because when you break up, the other person's trust in you has dropped to freezing point, and even it is not too much to completely deny you. When you do these flattering things at this time, the other party will only think that you are hypocritical, and the other party will think, "If you can do these things, why didn't you do them before?" The other person will only think that you are only doing this to save it. Once I come back to you, I will eventually break up. Third, after breaking up, it's not their fault to try to convince each other. In the process of recovery, some friends have been trying to prove that breaking up is not entirely their own fault, or that there are not many mistakes. But is this really the case? When two people get along, if something goes wrong, both sides are responsible. You can't put the blame on each other just because of your "victim complex". What you have done will only make your contradiction grow bigger and bigger until it is irreparable. What you shouldn't do when you break up with your ex-girlfriend II. First, build trust. Breaking up means that the trust between the two sides has collapsed. Therefore, it is particularly important to rebuild trust if you want to save your girlfriend. After all, feelings should be honest with each other. If you make her feel that you are trying to make up with her, you will never be together. So before making up, do more things to build trust, such as silently helping her behind her back. This will get twice the result with half the effort when you really make up with her. Second, language skills When people communicate with each other, they need to pay attention to speaking skills, not to mention that it is difficult to communicate, and they also need to pay attention to the proportion of language. But it is difficult for many men to talk at this time, so there are so many women who leave with lifelong regrets. In fact, women want men to ask for help, so as long as you pay attention to enough discretion and don't be too masculine, I believe she will sit down and talk with you. Third, make practical actions. There is such a saying in life: "All talk and no practice". Therefore, while paying attention to language skills, we must pay practical actions at the same time, so as to greatly increase the success rate of saving our girlfriend. You should know that women actually like romance, so you can create some romantic surprises for her. At this time, coupled with your language appeal, I think your woman will definitely not refuse you if she still loves you. Fourth, send some news. In fact, there is a little trick to save your ex-girlfriend, which is to send some messages to make her think that you are still obsessed with her. As long as you hint at her from time to time and make her feel that you are reluctant to part with her, I think she is likely to turn back. After all, a man who is so devoted to himself is not easy to find. As long as there is no big contradiction between you, women will forgive you. Especially when she knows that you are so well-intentioned, she will definitely cherish this relationship more. V. Overcoming objective reasons Some couples break up for seemingly unreasonable reasons. In fact, it is more because of environmental factors such as inadaptability or different places. For these reasons, your woman began to feel insecure, and your relationship naturally collapsed. So if you want to make up with her, you must overcome these objective factors and don't let them interfere with your feelings. Although these encounters are inevitable, you can minimize the influence of these factors and make your woman feel safe. 6. Confess something to her. Many couples break up because of their bad feelings. For example, they began to do things that they didn't tell each other, which made one party suspicious and ended in discord. Therefore, in a relationship, we must learn to be honest with each other. Many times, what you think will make the other person angry will not actually make the other person angry. On the contrary, if you don't hide it from each other and let her find out for herself, things will get worse. Therefore, men should never think that everything can be concealed, and sometimes confession may be a "good medicine" for the continuation of feelings.