What if my wife keeps calling other men behind my back?

Hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you.

Your problem is that your wife contacted other men behind your back and sent text messages on the phone.

Then someone carefully read your detailed description of the problem. Your wife, there is no doubt that you must be unfaithful to this man. This is 100%!

Then it must be an affair, that is, 100%. Then the most important thing for you is that you should think about it now. What should you do? What about divorcing him? Or what should I do? Then it seems impossible for you to disconnect him. I can't help it unless you want to be with him and keep an eye on him.

So if you still want this woman, don't go out to work. When you go out to work, he must be at home, just for others. There is no doubt about it.

So personally, if such a woman still doesn't want it, don't. Forget it. This woman doesn't want him.

Once a woman has an affair, what should a man do with that kind of skin? He is hard to get rid of. It's hard to get rid of, okay?

So she wants him to change it. He can't change it. Remember, he can't change

These are personal answers to your questions. I hope I can help you and I hope you can adopt it. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, good luck and all the best.

Here are some common sense about feelings. I will give it to you. I hope you like it.

The relationship between emotion and value is subjective and objective, consciousness and existence, the latter is the basic problem of philosophy, so the relationship between value and emotion is also the basic problem of axiology and emotionalism. The relationship between value and emotion is dialectical unity, which is mainly manifested in four aspects.

First of all, emotion is based on value.

Emotion is people's subjective reflection of value. Although there will always be some deviations, even serious deviations and complete inversion in this kind of reflection, on the whole, the changes of emotion are always based on value, which are mainly manifested as follows: the basic state of emotion depends on the basic state of value, the overall scale of emotion depends on the overall scale of value, the scope of emotion depends on the scope of value, the mode of action of emotion depends on the mode of action of value, and the intensity and direction of emotion depend on the size of value. For businessmen, mutually beneficial economic exchanges are the objective basis for maintaining and developing mutual feelings. Without this reciprocity, the feelings between businessmen cannot last. For politicians, political mutual support and cooperation is the objective basis for maintaining and developing feelings. Without this kind of mutual assistance, the feelings between politicians can't last. For young men and women, mutual support and cooperation in work and life is the objective basis for maintaining and deepening love. Without such support and cooperation, the love between men and women cannot last. The friendship between friends mainly depends on their interests. Only by deepening the interest relationship between them can their friendship deepen. If there is a fundamental conflict of interest between them, their feelings will decay sooner or later and eventually become hatred.

Second, the emotional response to value.

Emotion is not completely passive to value, it can produce a certain degree of reaction, mainly as follows:

(1) Emotion can prevent, inhibit, induce, transfer, strengthen or induce people's need for a certain value to a certain extent, and they can choose their own living environment and development direction relatively independently. People sometimes consciously suppress their desire for a certain value. Over time, this lust may really basically disappear, and people's objective demand for this value has indeed changed or shifted. People are usually willing to take the initiative to help those who feel good subjectively, and take the initiative to establish mutually beneficial relations with them, while avoiding those who feel bad subjectively, and even intentionally interrupt the existing mutually beneficial relations; People who work or live in a certain place are unhappy, sometimes they will resign or move, and they can quickly adapt to the new life and working environment.

(2) Driven by emotion, people can react to things and add value to them. This is the fundamental difference between human beings and other animals. Of course, this kind of reaction can't be arbitrarily and infinitely imposed, but it can only be conditional and relatively limited, and it is subject to the decisive role of value on emotion as a whole. People's value creation activities driven by emotion must strictly follow the basic law of value and be carried out within its permitted scope.

Third, the relative independence of emotion.

People's emotions are generated and run in the brain, which is inevitably restricted and interfered by many factors inside the brain, thus deviating from the value it reflects to some extent. This deviation of emotions is the relative independence of emotions, which is mainly manifested in the following aspects:

1. Out of sync in time.

If the form of value changes, it will take some time for the corresponding new emotions to form and develop. In other words, the emergence, development and disappearance of new emotions can't keep up with the emergence, development and disappearance of new values, which needs to be delayed for a period of time. For example, when a stranger suddenly becomes your brother-in-law or brother-in-law, your good feeling for him usually won't be established immediately; People usually miss or miss their old friends who have left or died.

Step 2 measure differences

If the value changes, it is difficult to keep pace with the intensity of emotion. For example, some women don't hate their beloved man very much after being hurt or abandoned by him; On the contrary, some people get angry just because a few words are not speculative, and they will regret it afterwards.

3. Limitations of this approach

The changing way of value relationship is infinite, but the reflecting way of emotion is limited. People sometimes don't feel good about some complex and implied value relationships and their changes, showing a state of indifference. For example, when people are hurt by some toxic substances, they often don't feel it; People are sometimes kept in the dark when they are criticized; When the purchased goods are "gently" slaughtered by others, people may also thank him for his "preferential" price; When facing extinction, people may still be enjoying themselves.