You can't wake up someone who is pretending to sleep, nor can you move someone who doesn't love you.

The classic quote "You can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep"

1. Moderate pain makes people chatter endlessly, while too much suffering makes people suffer silently. The so-called poetry of silence, or poetic silence, does not mean that it contains only the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers, and the absence of blood, tears, suffering and despair, but it is precisely the sorrow of holding back tears and having nothing, the stumbles of the road back home through mountains and ridges, it is Know where it comes from and know where it will end. ----Zhou Lian

2. Establishing a relationship with a culture, a city, a person, a dog, a book, a piece of music... requires a unique sense of reality and history. Karma. It is this special memory that cannot be quantified or restored that makes us who we are and allows us to understand the good that only we can understand. ----Zhou Lian

3. The logic of "no" and "so what" seems profound, but if you think about it carefully, it is full of loopholes. Who said there is no difference between fifty steps and one hundred steps? "Tomatoes are fruits" and "tomatoes are benches" are both wrong, but they are more than fifty steps away from each other. Similarly, liberalism is an ideology, and fascism is also an ideology. They are both ideologies. Of course, there are differences between them. I don’t know whether Mencius’s principles of intolerance have convinced the emperors of the past dynasties. What I know is that the kind and honest Chinese people have always had the deepest “intolerance” to sympathize with their rulers. ----Zhou Lian

4. At first glance, it looked like a heart-stopping loneliness. ----Zhou Lian

5. You can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep, unless the person pretending to sleep decides to wake up. ----Zhou Lian

6. Chen Jiaying calls understanding based on mathematical language "technical understanding". Technical understanding describes the measurable dimensions of things, which helps us understand the precise nature of nature. structures and mechanisms, but it does not replace common sense understanding because it "does not touch many everyday facts." In contrast, although natural language can only perform short-range reasoning, it is always located in the form of life. Natural understanding inherently contains immediacy, which is a kind of "understanding" and "sensation" that is integrated with the surrounding things, including spiritual insight, perceptual sympathy and historical empathy----Zhou Lian

7. Changing the way you look at things is the key to understanding. ----Zhou Lian

8. When a person is walking on the road, if he wants to suddenly recall something, he will mechanically put down his steps; if he wants to forget the bad luck just now, he will speed up the pace unconsciously. Kundera boiled it down to an "existential mathematical equation": the degree of slowness is directly proportional to the intensity of memory, and the degree of speed is directly proportional to the intensity of forgetting. Various principles can be deduced from this equation: Our era is obsessed with forgotten desires, it is obsessed with the devil of speed. ----Zhou Lian

9. It turns out that there is another explanation for Sanguang in Chinese history: Fan Zhongyan criticized the government and advocated dying in peace and living in silence. He was demoted three times in his life. It was my first time to see me off, and my friends said it was a wonderful trip. The second time, my friends said, this trip is also glorious, and the last time, they said, this trip is even more glorious. He smiled and replied, "Zhongyan has three lights in front and back." ----Zhou Lian

10. What I most want to read is to express profound thoughts in popular language. What I don’t like to read the most is to use profound language to express simple and vulgar thoughts. In fact, how many people are complacent because they have achieved the latter situation----Zhou Lian

11. The texture of existence does not depend on the accumulation of events. The richness of life actually lies in the internalized experience. recognition and understanding. ----Zhou Lian

12. Many times, we can indeed provide some plausible answers for each "why". If there are no objective standards, it is always easy to find an explanation.

To a certain extent, this is why speculative philosophy is so unpopular today - both left and right are the same, and good or bad can also become a theory, as long as it is logically consistent and intellectually enlightening , even if it is narrow-minded, it is also profound intolerance, even if it is absurd, it is also profoundly absurd. ----Zhou Lian

13. Have we consistently exercised the rights and obligations of a citizen in our daily lives, instead of accepting the situation with a good citizen mentality in normal life, and then falling out of control at the moment when we lose control of our emotions? Scolding the mother in the name of the imaginary mob. Between good people and the mob, we can have a better choice, which is to be a true citizen. ----Zhou Lian

14. Committing yourself to others too easily always makes people suspect that the previous struggle lacked sincerity. After handing it over and then resolutely passing it on as gospel to others, it is an unbearable ignorance, even if it is presented in the face of faith. ----Zhou Lian

15. I once had a puppy that would flop to the ground when it saw anyone, and then show its soft belly and invite to be stroked. This kind of absolute security that comes from being ignorant of the world is really envy-inducing. ----Zhou Lian Talking about silence, find someone who loves you and forget about someone you love.

1. You will lose all reason in front of a man you love, and bystanders will be confused by the authority.

2. Women must have their own career, otherwise no one can be trusted!

3. I have no backer! I myself am the mountain! Work hard to live a strong life!

4. No one can be relied on, not even the people you love the most may not be reliable. This world is very realistic, you are your own pillar, you are your backer

5. In this real society, no one can be relied on, you have to rely on yourself.

6. Women should understand that relying on mountains will fall, relying on water will flow, and relying on others is worse than relying on oneself. Every sentence makes sense.

7. Women must learn to be independent and must not rely too much on others.

8. Women can’t rely on anyone, they can only be strong and rely on themselves.

9. Thank you, I understand you, you have to take care of yourself, and I wish you happiness every day.

10. If time can flow by, I wish I didn’t know you, so I wouldn’t feel so distressed.

11. I will cherish those who love me, and I will give up those who don’t love me. I will give up the one I love and look back at the one who loves me.

12. I think this is the right thing to do. Find someone who loves you and forget someone you love. But the reality is that you have lost. How can you forget someone you really loved?

13. I hope that in the next life, we will not see, owe, or miss each other, and we will be able to live well and have no complaints.

14. The thunder tonight reminds me of what you said to me. You will definitely not scare me when it thunders and rains, but I think of you again tonight.

15. I also want to forget the person I love. It’s really tiring.

16. Love is mutual, otherwise, it is a burden. We have already passed the age of hearing about love, so how can we talk about love?

17. It’s hard to forget someone you love. It’s even harder to walk into the heart of someone who loves you. It’s hard to love someone.

18. Love is giving and pain. Being loved makes you happier. Cherish the people who love you well.

19. Why is it so difficult to love someone? It’s so uncomfortable. You must be with the one who loves you. Tell me about a person who truly loves you.

Many people have said they love you. How many people are there who can truly change and sacrifice for you? Maybe he cares for you in every possible way, but he will never change because of you. To me, a person who truly loves you can change for you, even be reborn, and can give you what he considers the most precious unconditionally, as long as There must be sacrifices in love, otherwise it would just be rational being together because they suit each other. Rational people have a rational view of love, while emotional people emphasize love.

For emotional people, the luckiest thing is that the person you truly love also truly loves you. Of course, the most important thing is that they are the right match! The plot of flying up a branch and becoming a phoenix only exists in TV dramas. Any relationship that loses its balance is not strong

A person who truly loves you will tell you

1. One Someone who truly loves you will not ask you to give up the whole world for him; and a person who can only be obtained after you give up the whole world is not a lover at all, that is a selfish requester.

2. If love does not fall into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long. True love means not being nervous. The person who truly loves you is the person you can see without washing your face, combing your hair, or putting on makeup.

3. Find someone who truly loves you, who will comfort you when you are in a bad mood, accompany you when you are sick, laugh with you when you are happy, and give you a shoulder when you are sad.

4. In the past, cars and horses were very slow, and letters were very slow. There was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. Nowadays, planes and high-speed trains can be taken three times a day; WeChat and emails can be answered at the speed of light. Loving one person at a time is called loyalty. A person who truly loves you will definitely remember what you said and the details that you care about. There may be many people who love you, but there are only a few people who have always loved you. I hope you won't lose her accidentally, okay?

5. If you want to find someone who truly loves you, don’t listen to what he says, but watch what he does. Don’t watch what he does in front of everyone, and It depends on what he did unintentionally, because life is lived, not spoken. Life is lived by two people behind closed doors, not acted out for everyone to see! Tu Lei

6. A person who truly loves you will take time for you no matter how busy he is. He will wipe his hands and reply to you when taking a shower, and he will not forget to unlock his phone when going to the toilet. He will not easily refuse to reply to your message, and he cannot bear to let you have random thoughts and suspicions.

7. No one is born to love. One person teaches another person and then uses what he learned from this person to love the next person. People who truly love you will urge you to become excellent instead of Your youth is wasted. Reality and ideals are thousands of miles apart. I am beyond my reach but I can't stop.

8. You have all the looks I like, and I love all the looks you have. A person who truly loves you will not find fault with you. He will indulge your habits and love everything about you. Happiness can come slowly, as long as it is true, and if we can be together in the end, it really doesn't matter if it is later!

9. People must sometimes know who you love most only when they are drunk; only when they are sick can they know who loves you most. People who truly love you will never leave you. Even if he has thousands of reasons to give up, he will always find one reason to persist. Sometimes, I think there will always be opportunities, but the opportunities that come are getting less and less. In fact, life is like subtraction. If you see one less thing, the scenery you miss, the people you miss, and the things you miss may be gone forever. Returned.

10. I hope you can meet someone who truly loves you, loves you, pampers you, laughs with you and makes trouble with you, knows the warmth and coldness, understands the joys and sorrows, and stays with you.

11. To judge whether a person loves you is not to show off how good the other person is to you at the beginning, but how long the person is willing to accompany you. The person who truly loves you, even if he has thousands of reasons to give up on you, will always find an excuse to stick to you, either by your side or in his heart. What is love? That’s from liking it to getting used to it, and then to deep affection. Being good to you is just an empty shell. It needs to be filled with consistent three views, similar souls and the same goal of struggle, so that love can last long. Pain is actually a kind of wealth. It allows you to learn to better grasp and cherish the right person.

12. The more you live, the more you know that a person who truly loves you will not paint you pictures of unrealistic futures every day, but will sincerely do a lot for you and take the initiative. I’ll do anything for you~ I’ve been busy working on my thesis these days, and I’ve been reluctant to write it. The day to hand in the first draft is getting closer and closer, and I’m about to burst with anxiety. Fortunately, my dear is here, and I have a solution. , it will be much easier later, I am really touched and grateful, super

13. The dream that started in 2002 is to own a Montblanc pen. After many years, my long-cherished wish will come true for you! Being lucky enough to be yours is actually my life! If you have someone who truly loves you in this life, what more can you ask for in this life! Love you!

14. Sometimes when you meet someone and think you are him, in fact he is just a passer-by in your life. All you have to do is let go and wait for the person who truly loves you to appear.

15. Having someone who understands you is the greatest happiness. This person may not be perfect, but he can understand you, he can get into the depths of your heart, and he can understand everything in your heart. The person who understands you best will always be by your side, silently protecting you, caring for you, and never letting you be wronged. People who really love you won't say many words to love you, but they will do many things to love you.

16. The person who truly loves you will never leave you. Even if a thousand arrows pierce his heart, even if he loses his face, even if he has thousands of reasons to leave, he will always find a way to persevere.

17. You have to remember, no matter what, don’t make peace. Because every time after reconciliation, there are constant quarrels, and he will still let you go on and say things that hurt your heart. How can a person who truly loves you make you sad again and again? The road is your own, go forward and find the person who is not willing to lose his temper with you, tell you to get out, or scold you even if you make him angry again.

18. It is really difficult for us to meet someone who truly loves you, so don’t let go of your partner’s hand easily. Sometimes if we persist, maybe we will gradually become more and more The better come. -----To myself

19. The person who truly loves you, even if there are thousands of reasons to give up on you, will always find an excuse to persist, either by your side or in his heart. .

20. People who really love you can’t tell the reason why they really love you. They only know that they don’t care about others. People who really love you always make you angry. You But you can't find out what he did wrong; the person who truly loves you will only cry in front of you alone; the person who truly loves you will give you a harsh slap when you forget to reply to his text message; the person who truly loves you will People rarely praise you in person, but in their hearts they are sure that you are the best.

21. Never give up on the person who truly loves you because of novelty. After two people have been together for a long time, they will become more and more familiar with each other. If you feel that there is no topic to talk about, when you quarrel You feel tired and don’t feel the same as before. Then another person appears and you chat with him very happily. You think you have met true love, but have you ever thought about it? Real love is true without topics. There are so many fresh topics only for strangers. In fact, we just want to find someone we can talk to, match our temperament, and feel comfortable together. After being apart for a long time, we miss it a little, and after being quiet for a long time, we want to make a scene, but again People who will give in immediately, love is like this, friendship is empathy, never give up on the person who has walked with you, cried, laughed and loved with you for many years just because of novelty and temporary enthusiasm.

22. Everyone has their own beauty, which makes us unique; sometimes even you will ignore it, but those who truly love you will definitely discover it. I rejected so much ambiguity just for an uncertain future for you. No one is hypocritical, no one is fickle, and no one belongs to anyone. Why should some people and some things be so important?

Twenty-three, you actually expect him to keep you, oh, don’t be stupid. Someone who truly loves you can't bear to let you be alone for so long. It’s been eight whole days. Let's call it a day. Let the memory stay in 20xx forever.

24. There is no way that his wife loves to eat and spoil his wife because of his strength. His wife is really married to love.

Even if you don't have much money or flowers, if you marry someone who truly loves you, you will be happy for the rest of your life. It is in sharp contrast to the news a few days ago that my boyfriend and I were thrown onto the highway with our luggage when we went home for the Chinese New Year!

25. Someone who truly loves you and cares about you will not care about how failed you are now, let alone how moneyless and powerless you are now. What he cares about is whether you have a firm belief, a persevering heart, and the courage to keep working hard and struggling.

26. A person who truly loves you doesn’t listen to what he says? Depends on what he did! Don't look at what he did in front of everyone? But look at what he did unintentionally!

27. When a boy is quarreling with a girl, the girl feels tired and doesn’t have the same feelings for him as before. At this time, someone appears who can talk to the girl very well, and the girl will think that When you meet the right person, the novelty can only be so much with strangers. Don't give up on the person who truly loves you just because of the temporary excitement and novelty. Before, boys were immature, chauvinistic, didn't know how to cherish, and didn't consider girls' feelings, but we went through youth together. Now the boy has woken up and matured, and he is very grateful for what happened this time, which makes the boy know how to cherish it more. Otherwise, I always think that I am doing the right thing.

28. People who really love you don’t have so many rules and regulations. Don’t be too nice to someone. Always remember that if a person eats too much, he will not be grateful, but will become anorexic.

29. A person who treats you well can tolerate your shortcomings. He knows what is good about you, and he understands that no one is perfect. Others only force you to be perfect in everything, but they understand that you also have your own shortcomings and weaknesses. The person who truly loves you is the person who sees your shortcomings but is still willing to go on with you.

Thirty. The person who truly loves you does not need you to love to a great extent, because he will definitely give you enough feedback to let you know that you are not the only one maintaining this relationship.

Thirty-one. I started reading "Sauvignon Blanc" last night and have just finished reading it now. I haven't read a romance story for a long time. After reading it, I feel depressed. I only have one feeling, the person who truly loves you. , will think about you for a long time, pave the way for you, and protect you, even if it means sacrificing yourself. Alas, is there such great love in real life? Probably, but I haven't seen it.

32. I hope that in the vast sea of ??people, there is someone who truly loves you, running through the crowded city and rushing towards you across mountains and rivers.

33. I really like what the writer Su Qin said: A person who loves you will always remember you in his heart; a person who loves you very much will pamper you everywhere. Only those who value you more than themselves will pamper you. A person who truly loves you will definitely treat you as a child, keep your good things in his heart, and worry that you can't take care of yourself. He will remember everything you like and care about for you, and what you can't see. Small details are also taken care of for you. People who love each other are suitable for romance together, and those who love you are suitable for growing old together, ***Mian

34. If you stick to someone because you care too much, if the other person also likes you, he will be considerate. You are insecure and if the other person doesn't like you, you will start to show impatience. A person who truly loves you, no matter how clingy you are, will always comfort you and never leave you, instead of always being annoyed by you and having a cold war with you.

35. A person who truly loves you will not make you feel embarrassed on any occasion. A person who really wants to spend money for you will not ask you if you want it, but will actively give it to you. It's all hidden in the eyes.