Husband teaches children to start too hard, how to make him change?

A child is a child, and we need to educate him with our heart, not to make him change too hard. We can tell our husband that a child is a child because he doesn't understand. It wasn't you who did it that made him remember. Children are constantly growing and curious about the world, so they will forget the pain in some things. Therefore, in educating children, we should give priority to guidance.

Of course, let your husband know that it doesn't mean that if you put pressure on your child, he will remember it for a long time and he won't make such a mistake. Some children may make some mistakes, no matter how hard you attack them. Even if it is not this mistake today, another mistake may be made tomorrow, because children's growth is a process of making mistakes and trial and error. We should protect and care for this child. We can't hurt the child by doing it too hard. In that case, it's our fault.

At the same time, you should also know how to make your husband understand that teaching children should let him know what is wrong, not hit him. We must educate our children with a purpose. Our aim is to let children know what is wrong and change it. That's enough. Of course, there are many examples. Beating and scolding a child in real life can't make him change, it will only make him rebel, and he is no longer afraid of being beaten and scolded.

Finally, you should let your husband know that too heavy a hand may cause physical harm to the child, and then we have to take the child to treatment, which is not worth the candle. This reminds him not to be too heavy-handed when educating his children. Moreover, beating children is an illegal and criminal act, which is not allowed by this law. Let him understand that the education of children should be based on preaching and guidance, which is the most appropriate.