What should I do if I find an ambiguous message in my boyfriend's mobile phone?

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Should I check my boyfriend's cell phone? I think this is a problem that most girls are struggling with, because the fuse of many couples' final breakup is that girls check their boyfriends' mobile phones, then find out the problem, and finally they break up with each other.

However, few girls can really resist not looking at each other's mobile phones. It may be because boys don't feel safe enough, or it may be because women are suspicious. In fact, from the moment you look at the other person's mobile phone, you almost know that the problem must be in your heart, so as Holmes, you don't let go of any clues, WeChat chat records, friends who have commented, and people who have been praised by your boyfriend.

Even if nothing is found in the end, you may think that he deleted all the records. However, usually, you will find something that makes you unhappy more or less. So, what should I do once I find ambiguous information in my boyfriend's mobile phone?

The following are the emotional test questions tailored for you by our professional emotional tutor, as well as the professional analysis of each option, so that you will no longer be at a loss when you encounter such problems.

Today, I turned over my boyfriend's mobile phone and found that he was having an affair with other girls on WeChat, but his words were not very explicit. What should I do?

A asked him directly about their relationship.

B increase the number of times you check your boyfriend's mobile phone.

C calmly asked him, is this person your colleague?

D must ask him to delete this girl and cut off contact.

E means that she has encountered a similar situation.

But resolutely draw a line with each other.

F is also ambiguous with male colleagues on WeChat.

Make him jealous on purpose.

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Option description:

A

The only way you can get the real answer is that they don't have any questions. If they have questions, then they will give you the wrong answer. So you will get the same answer anyway.

B

If you don't mind changing your phone, it's not a problem to look at the phone itself. But if you look at his mobile phone with the attitude that you must find something wrong, you will definitely find evidence that makes you unhappy. This will also increase your doubts and sour your feelings.

C

If you two are in good health and have a high degree of trust, you can ask directly and give him a chance to explain, and see if he responds calmly, whether he has a guilty conscience to avoid or becomes angry from embarrassment. However, if you have judged from the chat records that they do have problems, it is better to skip this step. Because when you ask, you have put yourself in the open, but your boyfriend and the other party are kept in the dark, which may lose some initiative for you, which is unfavorable.

D

This kind of behavior is the most irrational, because no matter whether your boyfriend has something to hide from you, your behavior will disgust him and make your situation worse.

E

Tell the other person that you have met someone you are having an affair with. Not only did you refuse on the spot, but you also sent a photo of your love with your boyfriend in a circle of friends. This will not only enhance your value in his heart, but also arouse his guilt and consciously limit his behavior.

F

First of all, you think you can control ambiguity, but in fact, emotion is the most difficult to control and will bring you a lot of trouble. After being discovered by your husband, you can get a nerve effect by stimulating him, which just shows that he doesn't want you to cheat, and it doesn't necessarily prevent him from cheating. Instead, it may be because of your behavior that he bites back.

PS: Of course, if you can find something better,

Take this opportunity to replace him! hahahaha

The result of rampaging in love is likely to be black and blue, and when you master the method of love, it is easier to get happiness.

At the same time, having high emotional intelligence can also make you confidently face all potential crises in your relationship and quietly make him more loyal to you!