My wife sends me messages every day saying that he loves me. Does he really love me?

What can he give you? Only illusory emotional comfort. Everything you can eat and live in needs to be provided by your husband. What does your lover need? What he needs is a woman, not his wife. What he needs is freshness and excitement. He wants to have a woman who doesn't belong to him. He doesn't need to take any responsibility for possessing this woman. Women can't make him take responsibility, and love contains heavy responsibilities. Don't be silly, just break it.