My husband sent a text message with only 5 words in it, and then I found out that my aunt told my secret in public. What should I do?

01

My husband and I met at a party. At that time, I thought he was pretty good-looking, so I took the initiative to strike up a conversation. He is six years older than me, and I got along with him. When we were young, he was very good to me and pampered me like a princess. But I heard that he had talked to several people before, and I don’t know if any problems came to an end.

After I established a relationship with him, I naturally thought about marriage because of my age. The image of my mother-in-law was very fierce. I went to his house, but I didn’t expect that his parents were both. Very enthusiastic and open-minded, maybe because none of his previous girlfriends became successful, so his parents tried their best to be nice to me, hoping that we could settle down soon.

We registered our marriage six months after we were together. However, I gradually found that my husband was a little unwilling to make progress and settle for the status quo. Originally, we were both from rural areas and didn’t have much money. And he only kept a salary of more than 2,000 yuan and had no plans for the future. Although he was very kind to me, I couldn't help but complain to him because "poor and lowly couples are always miserable."

02

It didn’t take long for me to get pregnant and I couldn’t do my job anymore, so I quit my job and raised my baby at home. One day I came back to my parents' house to visit my parents. My husband said that he couldn't accompany me because he had not finished his work matters, so he asked me to go back to my parents' house by myself. I got angry and went home by myself. My mother said that she wanted to go out on the street. Look at the children's clothes and prepare things in advance for the child in my belly.

While walking on the street, my mother said she saw my husband. I said I didn’t believe it, but my mother pulled me to catch up and take a look. Sure enough, it was my husband with him in her arms. As a young woman, I was so angry that I cried, and my mother forced me to stop me from acting wildly on the street.

When I returned to my husband's house in the afternoon, my mother-in-law saw that I looked wrong and immediately asked me what was going on. I cried and told her what I saw on the street today, and she called my husband. He came back quickly, and my parents-in-law forced my husband to kneel down and apologize to me, and made him swear that he would never have an affair with another woman again. Even if this matter is over, I still have a knot in my heart, thinking about waiting until I give birth. No matter how good your child is, he will take revenge on you.

03

I was pregnant in October and gave birth to a boy successfully. My family was very happy and treated me better. When the child got older, my husband finally realized The cost of raising children is high, so I just want to go out to work and earn some money to support my family, and I have always been a leisurely housewife.

After my husband left, I met a very charming man on WeChat and went out with this man from time to time. I kept these things well hidden for fear of being discovered and causing gossip.

04

In a blink of an eye, my son is already in his third year of high school. After the college entrance examination, he got admitted to a very good university. The family wanted to get together at a restaurant to celebrate my son’s entrance into high school. Everyone at the dinner table We all drank too much, and I drank too much, so I went to the toilet. When I came back, I suddenly received a message from my husband. When I clicked on it, there were only five words on it: Let’s get divorced.

I rushed into the private room and found that everyone looked very bad. My mother said that my husband’s sister had told me what happened over the years, and also retrieved the records of me opening a hotel.

I have no room for excuse. I only know that my marriage is over...