What does it mean if a girl doesn’t reply to text messages? Is it still necessary to continue posting~?

If a girl doesn’t reply to the message, most brothers will definitely panic. He will wonder if he did something wrong or if the girl doesn’t like me. At this time, he will often do one thing. A very stupid thing is to chase after the messages, one after another, trying to figure it out.

For example, why don’t you reply to my message?

What about people?

Hey, are you busy?

Did I say something wrong?

When you say these words to a girl, what do you think the girl will think? If you have some female friends around you, you might as well ask them. If you don’t have female friends around you, don’t worry. Brother Nanfang has asked them for you, and these are the most common answers.

1: I will think you are very annoying

2: I will think you are a very uncharming person

3: You will want to be with such a person chat.

So once you do this kind of thing, you will lose more points, and girls will be even less willing to chat with you next time. What's more, some brothers, when girls don't reply to him, they make phone calls, which is what we commonly call a life-threatening chain. This situation must be eliminated.

When some brothers encounter this situation, they will fall into deep self-blame and wonder if some of the topics I just talked about were too boring, so the girls didn’t reply, so they started again. Topics, and even find some funny jokes to send to girls, trying to rekindle girls' interest in you in this way.

But often what you do still greatly exposes your sense of need and your lack of confidence. If you put her in a position where you want to kneel and lick her, then your psychology Although girls can read these subtle changes through their mobile phones, they can basically understand them, so naturally girls will still ignore you.

Today Brother Nanfang will help you analyze why girls don’t reply to our messages. It’s nothing more than these situations.

1: Either you didn’t see it or you said you were busy with other things

In this case, the girl may still reply to your message after she sees it or says she is finished. But some brothers were too eager and messed up the matter.

2: The topic you are talking about has just ended

The end of the topic is actually a very normal thing. Don’t feel like you can’t stop and are evil just because the topic is over. . The topic is over today. You can reopen it another day, or you can continue the conversation.

There are also some brothers who are a real topic killer. No matter what topic they talk about, as soon as he replies, the entire chat atmosphere instantly turns cold, and the other party has no way to pick up the topic. They were all devoured by him.

As for how to find topics, brothers who don’t know what to do can add a wave of WeChat.

3: Just not interested in you personally

If you are not interested in you personally, it is not necessarily a problem with your chatting. It is most likely due to your own construction and your early attraction. There are also some presentations in the circle of friends that do not meet one of his basic standards. In this case, the harder you try to chat with a girl, the more disgusted the girl will become.

You can imagine, if Sister Feng came to chat with you, would you be very interested in chatting with her? I think the answer for most brothers is definitely no. In fact, Sister Feng is quite talented, very eloquent, and can write some good articles. Even so, the brothers still showed no interest in her.

No matter what possibility you encounter, you must remember that when a girl does not reply to our message, do not rush to send the message, but wait and see what happens. The girl may be late. He will reply to you soon, and may even explain to you why he didn't reply to you just now. This is a good sign.

If she neither replies to you nor explains, it doesn’t matter. Just put it aside and reopen the topic after a few days. Of course, during this process, you can use Your circle of friends should show all aspects of you and give you a sense of presence.

Of course, you can also pay attention to the dynamics of her circle of friends. In this case, you can listen to the comments in the circle of friends and chat for a while. If there is some back and forth, you can then chat with the girl privately through the small window. By doing this, you can restrain your sense of need to the greatest extent, and girls will not have the feelings we mentioned at the beginning.

Whatever you do, you must pay attention to a method, and the same is true for chatting. Be careful not to be impatient. This is the correct way to deal with problems. When you encounter problems, master the correct rhythm, use the correct methods, and as long as you don't do anything whimsical, the results will still satisfy you.