How to refuse a blind date without hurting each other?

If you don't know how to refuse, you will feel guilty if you refuse others. Then, try the following three more tactful ways to refuse:

1, the introducer refused.

The person who arranged the blind date is the host of this blind date activity, and any idea can be passed on through her (him). If you don't want to refuse the blind date in person, you can tell the introducer your thoughts and let the introducer politely refuse the other person.

2. Send a message to refuse.

If you have contact information, you may wish to express your attitude through SMS. Because you don't refuse in person, you can avoid a more embarrassing situation. When the other party asks the reason for the refusal, you can use the answer that the other party can't ask, such as: there is a favorite object, your future consideration is not in line with the present, or other practical reasons.

3. When dating, mention your ex.

Focus on the comprehensive conditions (moldability) of the predecessor, saying that there is a possibility of reunification, and let the other party decide for itself and retreat; It is undoubtedly a sensitive matter to take office in advance in front of the blind date, which will put both sides in an embarrassing situation. This requires adding appropriate reasons when mentioning your predecessor, thus sending a signal that you reject the other party. As long as you have a good proper limit, I believe the other party will understand.

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Reject each other's attention

1, don't accept gifts from each other casually.

When you are not sure whether the other person can go with you, don't accept gifts from blind date casually. If the other party's gift is simple and not too expensive, that's ok. If it's a little expensive, it's hard to avoid being a bit difficult. So, try to avoid accepting gifts from people you don't like.

2. Take care of the emotions of parents and relatives.

Parents and relatives have put a lot of thought into making this blind date go smoothly. Because it is not easy to have a suitable blind date, even if you want to refuse each other as soon as you meet, you should learn to look at the blind date occasion and take care of the emotions of both parents more or less.

3. Don't be ambiguous

I don't like each other when I'm dating, and I want to refuse each other, but I just said yes. Do not accept neutral words such as "maybe and general", because ambiguity is actually creating opportunities and hopes for each other. If you really want to refuse others, don't use these ambiguous words.