My boyfriend ignored my messages and didn't reply.

If your boyfriend keeps having a cold war with you, you can choose to break the deadlock on your own initiative. There is no need to "he won't return our messages" and we won't return his messages. If two people stand firm in the cold war, then the war without smoke will not end, or it will end in another form, such as breaking up.

Only marriage and love need two people to run together. If one person has a stubborn temper, then the other person must make necessary concessions if he wants to maintain this relationship. Your boyfriend ignores you, which may be due to his personality, reluctance and stubbornness. Some people just want to save face and suffer. Although they ignore you and don't return your messages, it doesn't mean they don't care about you.

Take myself as an example. If you want to have a cold war with me, I may have a cold war with you to the end. I can't make peace unless you take the initiative. If another person is willing to compromise, or still loves you, choose to compromise. Then the relationship can continue. But if the other person doesn't feel the need to get along, and my temper is so stubborn, then this relationship is likely to come to an end.

With something, once you miss a certain point in time, it will become a fault. If you still want this relationship, I suggest you take the initiative. Willing to bow down in front of small things, not giving in in front of big things, principled, and accommodating their own principles for their loved ones.

Try to send him more messages and see if he can call you back. This is an effort, even if there is no result, there will not be so many regrets. Finally, I wish you a smooth relationship and a lifetime with the right person.