What should I do if my husband believes other bad people?

since the landlord has this question, it is certain that your husband listened to others' bad words about you, right? !

first, calm down. Calm is a woman's most advantageous partner, and it is also the most easily overlooked partner. A man who listens to slanderous stories will probably rob you of the truth and accuse you of what you hear from others that is not good for you. So first of all, don't rush to show your innocence. The angry man will only think that all your explanations at the moment are shattered glass. Therefore, the first thing to do is to calm down, not to explain too much, and to echo the man's words. One of the purposes is to calm the man down. When both sides are calm, pour him a glass of water, and then the two sides sit down and talk. Listen to where he heard the gossip, ask him what he thinks about it, and then tell him tepidly that all the gossip is purely false. Men usually listen to a calm woman's words, instead of believing in shouting and swearing. If the rumor is really out of thin air, the man can believe what you say. If it is true, it doesn't matter. Tell him what is at stake and the man will look at the problem from your standpoint. After all, it is husband and wife, and it is still effective to have a long talk.