Ode to Joy 2 has a friend who supports you no matter what decision you make.

Ode to Joy 2 continues to dominate the screen.

Five beautiful women, ups and downs of feelings, friendship is getting warmer and warmer.

Send charcoal in the snow, heal the wounds of the soul, accompany each other, strive to grow up and become good friends.

In episode 38, Qiu Yingying was discharged from the hospital, returned to the 22nd floor and said to his sisters:

"I like Qin Ying. I want to be with him. I want to live according to my own wishes. Even if I fail in the future, I have no regrets. "

I forgave him easily. Are you particularly annoyed and angry with me?

Sisters, without blaming him, gave encouragement and support.

Bottom line: No matter what decision you make, I will always support you.

Be polite, maintain, respect, understand and support friends around you in your own way.

Let me know that there is a friend who will always support you no matter what decision you make.

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Seeing this reminds me of a Korean drama "The Best Romance 3" I watched before.

This is also a story about the competition, friendship, friendship and love between four professional women.

Shen, the 33-year-old head of the department, is a workaholic. He has exercised a steel body. She was nicknamed "Crustacean Girl" and her epitaph was "Everyone except me". At first, she was indifferent to her friends. Later, she fell in love with her lover and got along with her friends. She learned tolerance and acceptance.

Li Minting, a 36-year-old player, doesn't believe in love and doesn't want to get married. Her parents died and she has no brothers or sisters. After a one-night stand with Professor Li who also didn't want to get married, she got pregnant.

They worked together for 9 years and developed from colleagues to friends.

Li Minting knew she was pregnant, panicked and scared.

If you don't want this child, you may not get pregnant again;

If a single mother wants children, she is in a difficult position. If she asks for leave without marriage, the company may not accept it.

When I told Shen the news at the first time, Shen immediately took a clear attitude:

"Don't tell me this is your own business, I can't help you." Looking at Shen who fled quickly, he burst into tears.

After years of work and life, Shen has become critical, sensitive and indifferent to reality.

After returning home, Shen told Ai En, who loved him deeply, "She told me what it meant, what I could do, let her be born, or let her do it, and how I should be responsible in the future."

Allen, who came back from America, told her, "Did she say you were in charge? She just wants you to listen. She wants you to stay with her. You just need to hear her out, stay with her and say to her: No matter what decision you make, I will cheer for you. "

And let her send text messages to friends to encourage and support each other.

In fact, many times, when a friend encounters difficulties and helplessness, he just wants someone to accompany her, listen to her and give her encouragement and support.

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When Li Minting told him that he was pregnant again, he was scared, and he wanted to resign before he got pregnant.

But she loves this job very much and is afraid of going to work and facing everyone's doubts about getting pregnant before marriage. Can she hold on?

Remembering what Aiien said, Shen changed his attitude and said, "If you want to have children, don't quit your job. I will fight with you and deal with those who talk about you behind your back. "

Give comfort not only in words, but also in action.

Her words gave Li Minting great comfort, and finally she decided to have a child.

One day, Li Minting told her that when she received the message, they were good friends in her heart.

They supported each other, accompanied each other, gained love and got promotion.

This incident taught Shen how to get along with people around him.

In real life, often at such times, some friends will choose to escape, and some will participate in and judge their friends' choices under the banner of "I am worried about you" and "I will give you advice and I will be good for you".

However, the real decision is made by a thousand times more customers than you think.

All you have to do is refuel, and don't give any advice.

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Through film and television dramas, I learned to stay with my friend when she is in trouble and say to her: No matter what decision you make, I will cheer for you.

The year after watching this TV series, my best friend Xia resigned from the company because she had been in the system, the working environment was relatively depressed, she couldn't see the future, and she was always unhappy at work.

After making this decision, discuss it with us. I said to her: As long as you think clearly, I will support you no matter what decision you make.

In our underdeveloped plateau city, this incident has attracted the attention of a group of people. Many people are worried. What can a woman in her thirties do without a job?

Someone told me that you and she are good friends, please advise her. Because I am her friend, I must respect her choice and support her decision.

She later told me that I had the idea of resigning from last year, and I thought about it for a long time until I finally decided. Many people were asked in the middle, and most of their answers were: Why? Not going? Can't leave!

Only you tell me that no matter what decision you make, I will support you. Thank you.

The reaction of my friends was beyond my expectation. Until now, every time I drink, I will mention this matter, saying that her support and companionship helped her find something she liked.

There is a saying: If you are not me, how do you know that I am in pain?

Many things have nothing to do with right or wrong, and even a good friend has no right to tell others what to do, even in the name of caring.

This incident made me understand that many times we ask others for advice, often in order to seek a kind of affirmation, a kind of comfort, and a kind of strength that makes us go forward regardless of everything.

At this time. We also want to hear friends say, I support you and cheer for you.

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It is this trust, companionship and support that enabled Qiu Yingying to gain love and friendship.

After listening to everyone's words, Qiu Yingying said with tears of excitement, "I chose this road. I thought you wouldn't agree or hate me. I didn't expect that you were so kind to me that you supported all my decisions. You are my family and I love you. "

Let's see that the tolerance, support and encouragement between friends and the things we have experienced together in life have become catalysts for friendship and warm memories of each other.

Friends are indispensable roles in life.

Friendship is one of the most important feelings in life.

Psychologists have counted that people can make about 5.8 friends in this life.

Rare and precious. Absolutely worth cherishing.

A famous person once said: What a person needs to establish contact with another person is to let the real "me" and the real "you" see each other in real situations.

In this process, there is no judgment, no definition, no accusation, no evasive questions, no arrogance, and consistent communication.

In this kind of communication, you, me and the situation will get due attention and respect, emotions will flow and love will be free.

This kind of communication applies to any kind of relationship as well as friendship.

As the ancients said, a friend of a gentleman is as light as water.

Friends should pay attention to the ways and means of getting along with each other, and the friendship of adults should be based on mutual independence.

Need a moderate scale, not forced, not sticky, not greasy, not indifferent, not involved.

High-quality friends respect each other and allow each other to make different voices.

True friendship is that even if two people go in opposite directions, they always support each other side by side.

Listen and accompany when necessary;

When you make a decision, I will say to you: No matter what decision you make, I will support you.