Tips for Starting Class One in Autumn in Kunming Medical University Kindergarten (Wuyueyuan)

Dear parents and friends,

Hello! I am very happy to be a family, and I am honored to make progr

Tips for Starting Class One in Autumn in Kunming Medical University Kindergarten (Wuyueyuan)

Dear parents and friends,

Hello! I am very happy to be a family, and I am honored to make progress and study together in the future. In a blink of an eye, in mid-August, in less than half a month, the kindergarten school season will be ushered in. Another group of lovely people will walk into a brand-new big group with their attachment to their parents and curiosity about the new environment. This will be a big challenge for the children who go to kindergarten for the first time, and it will also bring different levels of anxiety and tension to the parents of newborn babies. Don't worry, let this "warm reminder" give everyone a reassurance. Please make the following full preparations before school starts. I believe that babies will definitely take the first step in life in the best state!

Children around 2-3 years old will find a close caregiver almost every 15 minutes. This is the instinct of all mammals, including human beings: after being separated from their mothers for a certain time and space, they need to return to their mothers and feel safe.

When Bao Xiao went to kindergarten, the habit of returning to the arms of relatives at any time suddenly became a new state of not seeing his family for one day. Such a big change will cause great psychological pressure, and separation will cause anxiety. So separation anxiety is normal and common.

This kind of anxiety not only appears in Bao Xiao, Bao Xiao and his parents may cause anxiety, and most Bao Xiao people will get used to it gradually. Anxiety is contagious. If parents are too worried in front of Bao Xiao, Bao Xiao may find it more difficult to feel relaxed, which is why parents are advised to relax before dealing with it.

Some possible manifestations of separation anxiety:

1, afraid of strangers

Unwilling to associate with teachers and strange children, avoiding groups, shrinking in corners, or clinging to only one teacher.

2. Strong resistance

It is manifested as crying, hitting people, biting people, throwing things, etc.

3. Refuse to eat or drink.

Some parents usually use inappropriate reinforcement at home, so that Bao Xiao can't eat strangers' food casually. After these Bao Xiao came to the garden, they often refused to eat or drink.

Step 4 "lie"

For example, go home and tell your parents that "the teacher (child) hit me", "there are no toys" and "I won't eat".

5, staged physical sensitivity

Because of the new environment, Bao Xiao's mood fluctuates greatly, he cries and is nervous, and his body consumes a lot of energy, which leads to metabolic disorder, which in turn causes his body to be sensitive, and he is prone to get sick at a certain stage.

6. Wet pants and bed

Because it takes some time for teachers to master Bao Xiao's habits, Bao Xiao, who has weak self-care ability, may wet his pants when he comes to a new environment, as long as his parents bring more sets of change clothes.

1, psychological preparation

(1) Provide Xiao Baoduo with time and opportunities to interact with others independently;

(2) Always talking about kindergarten with Bao Xiao. For example, I am going to kindergarten soon. You can make more good friends, play games with good friends, and learn many skills with teachers and children. Mom and dad believe that you can be the best baby. )

Step 2 prepare for life

(1) will eat with a spoon;

(2) Let Bao Xiao know his clothes, shoes, socks and other supplies;

(3) toilet training for Bao Xiao in advance;

(4) Teach Bao Xiao to make reasonable demands on adults: if he wants to drink water, urinate, etc. Instead of crying;

(5) Please prepare two sets of replacement clothes and trousers for Bao Xiao (it is best to mark them or write their names) and take them to the kindergarten in a schoolbag, so that the teacher can change them in time after Bao Xiao gets dirty.

3. Adjust the schedule

(1) Change Bao Xiao's random life at home? Try to adjust Bao Xiao's schedule to suit the kindergarten. Get into the habit of going to bed early, getting up early and taking a nap on time. (Note: The detailed schedule of work and rest will be sent to big friends privately later. )

(2) According to the children's physical and mental development, the school schedule is as follows.

? The admission time in the morning is from 7: 45 to 8: 40.

? After school in the afternoon is 17:30 (Friday 17:00).

1, Bao Xiao wants to drink water and pee.

When I first entered the park, the teacher would remind me from time to time.

After a period of time, after the routine is stable, there are fixed times for drinking water and going to the toilet, but if necessary, children can still go at will.

For the younger Bao Xiao, when drinking water and going to the toilet, the teacher will help him until Bao Xiao can finish it independently.

2, nap problem

(Choose a bed, change the environment, don't sleep honestly)

Instead of forcing Bao Xiaowu, who just entered the park, the teacher induced Bao Xiaowu to sleep step by step. For example, he first agreed with Bao Xiao's request to "wait for his mother", let him sit quietly by the bed, and then advised him to sleep when Bao Xiao was sleepy.

3. Dietary problems

When eating, the teacher will take special care of the new Bao Xiao and teach them to eat with a spoon. For the weak, the teacher will also feed them.

In order to arouse Bao Xiao's appetite, all the meals in the kindergarten are delicious. When serving, take a small amount for many times as the principle.

4. What should I do if I have a dispute with my child in kindergarten?

It is normal for children to have disputes (including quarrels and even fights).

According to the requirements of the station, the teacher will use his own professional experience to ensure that every small treasure is within his own field of vision. In case of a dispute, he will avoid physical conflict at the first time.

After the physical conflict stops, the teacher will resolve the dispute and guide the children to communicate correctly, so that parents can rest assured as much as possible.

1. Emotional control of parents

First of all, parents should adjust their mentality and trust Bao Xiao to the teacher. I believe the teacher has a way to solve the problem in Bao Xiao, so parents can rest assured, and so can Bao Xiao. Cooperate with the kindergarten in time to do a good job of entering the park in Bao Xiao, and help Bao Xiao integrate into the collective life of the kindergarten smoothly.

2. Say goodbye to Bao Xiao happily.

Parents should leave as soon as possible after sending Bao Xiao to the park and handing him over to the teacher.

Never hear Bao Xiao cry, never look back at Bao Xiao, and never even take Bao Xiao home.

Otherwise, Bao Xiao had this "experience" and would only cry more when he entered the park the next day.

3. Don't deny Bao Xiao's anxiety.

Avoid criticizing or denying children's separation difficulties.

For example, avoid saying angry words such as "You are useless" and "I don't want a child like you".

4. Insist on sending Bao Xiao to the park

Bao Xiao needs a process of adapting to the new environment. He should keep trust in the profession of teacher and not be "soft-hearted". As long as Bao Xiao is not ill, he must be sent to the garden. Never fish for three days or dry the net for two days. On the contrary, it will prolong the anxiety period of Bao Xiao's admission to the park, which is not good for Bao Xiao's health.

Parents shouldn't let Bao Xiao go to kindergarten just because he is crying.

The next day to the fourth day is usually when Bao Xiao cries the most. Once parents give Bao Xiao to the teacher, they should leave in time.

Step 5 enter the park neatly

Please cut Bao Xiao's nails the day before you enter the park. For the sake of safety, please don't wear any pendants for Bao Xiao? Don't let Bao Xiao bring valuables, jewels and dangerous goods. (Small particles, glass beads, etc. ? )

6. Is it everyone's responsibility to prevent and control the epidemic?

Protect yourself and don't go to high-risk areas. Wear a mask when going out and wash your hands frequently! Report Bao Xiao's temperature truthfully every day, and record it carefully. Please strictly abide by the requirements of epidemic prevention and control, and actively cooperate with kindergartens to ensure the health and safety of Bao Xiao? .

(1)5 photos of Zhang Xiaobao (1 inch standard photos)

(2) Sweat towels (at least two for each child, and children with severe sweating can bring more)

(3) Spare a close-fitting garment, underwear, trousers and socks (at least one set).

(4) A pair of white shoes that can move easily on both sides (try not to tie soft soles)

(5) Bedding: Please contact me when it is delivered to the kindergarten gate at 8: 00 am-17: 00 am on August 28th and 29th. The teacher of our class will come to the gate and take it to the garden for disinfection and finishing. (Parents who need to buy Xue Ping insurance can buy their own bedding when they send them to the park (voluntarily buy Xue Ping insurance))

Note: Please write (paste) Bao Xiao's name in advance for Bao Xiao's personal belongings.

Bao Xiao entered the park at the wrong peak, and entered the park at 7: 45-8: 40 am on September 1 Wednesday.

Freshmen will enter the park from 7: 45 am to 8: 40 am on Thursday, September 2 (our small class will enter the park on September 2).

The secret of parents' treatment of separation anxiety;

Say to yourself "The teacher takes care of the baby professionally"!

Read it a few times more and your heart will calm down.

Parents should start from themselves first, and overcoming anxiety is the right way.

Let's not peek at the door after Bao Xiao enters the park.

We give Bao Xiao all the education and expectations,

Is to cultivate Bao Xiao to be more independent,

Learn to let go, Bao Xiao can grow better!

Let's work together to create a beautiful home for the growth of Bao Xiao and escort them!

I believe that with the joint efforts of you and me, our little babies will thrive and look forward to their healthy, happy and smooth entry into the park as scheduled. Looking forward to meeting you!