How to strike up a conversation with girls in a bar?

In gay bars, almost everyone is looking at others with their eyes, hoping to find their "dishes". So, communicate with "Zhang San", "Li Si" and "Wang Wu" with your eyes and establish contact! This is the simplest part, and the difficulty lies in who takes the brave step first, winking at each other first and releasing the signal!

But don't worry, I want to get down to business right away, because there are many sexy and handsome people in the bar. However, if you are all speculators, don't hesitate to waste your time.

Moderate drinking

About drinking in a bar. Don't be one of the following two people.

The first type: people who go to bars and order only one carbonated drink. Then stay awake and patrol around, which will leave a very boring impression.

The second type: people who go to bars to get drunk. This will make people avoid it, and it is not suitable for chatting up friends.

However, if the purpose of going to a bar is to indulge for one night, you can certainly indulge yourself.

Generally speaking, moderate drinking can make people slightly drunk, relax, and get close to and contact others more easily.

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Don't be afraid, speak bravely.

In this era, people are more and more afraid to chat with strangers, which is one of the reasons why dating software is so popular. In a bar, since everyone is here, you should have the courage to talk to others. You will have unexpected results. You talk about everything, and you find each other's characteristics and even similarities in the conversation. All these make making friends natural!

Communicate bravely, because the worst result you can get is that the other person is not interested in your topic.

Don't haggle over every ounce at this time. Thank you. Next.

In short, communication is the key between people!

Self-confidence is your killer.

Dating software makes many things superficial. If you don't have a strong figure, handsome appearance and impressive data, you will be ignored.

Although this often happens in reality, in the real scene of hitting on people in bars, you will have more opportunities to show your personal charm and let people find your bright spot. Self-confidence plays an important role in real dating. Shyness can sometimes make people feel cute, but that's all. If you can't even look at each other, you won't succeed to a large extent. Don't be at a disadvantage in love until you start to feel it. The charm of personal confidence can be far more attractive than simple appearance (although appearance also needs a lot of effort to maintain).

Finally, remember the classic sentence of Lu Paul, "If you can't love yourself, how can you love others?"