My husband receives a phone call or text message from a woman every birthday.

First of all, you should ask yourself whether you love your husband or care about him.

If the answer is yes, then you should learn to hide your dissatisfaction, influence a woman with her unique gentleness, and completely conquer her thoughts and feelings. Men are not like women. Once they fall in love, it is difficult to erase each other from their memories. What about SMS communication, besides satisfying his and his ex-girlfriend's regrets? Men may be more vain emotionally than women. What if someone confides in him? The man you conquered will always be your prisoner, right?

You hide the fact that he was married, which only shows that you want each other too much. You don't want your parents to stop your marriage for this reason. This is not a favor you give each other, but a little skill you try to get them. I know that love is selfish, and it is not easy for you to calm down, but you should learn to let go slowly and give each other a space. The more generous you are, the more guilty you feel, right?

How about being a smart and lovely little woman?

Supplementary answer: You accepted it before you got married. Why can't you let go after getting married? Again: Ask yourself whether you love him or care about him? If the answer is yes, don't dig up old scores again. Men may be afraid to come near you because of this. Be a lovely and clever little woman, and don't give your lover to each other!