Take your girlfriend to test your boyfriend!

Is your boyfriend or husband loyal to you?

Will he cheat in the future?

Will he like anyone other than you?

Once a woman is in love, these questions will probably be thought about hundreds of times every day, but can yours stand the test? When men and women are together, can't they look at other women at any time?

She said that when she was shopping with her boyfriend the other day, she saw a girl's legs were long and straight, and she couldn't help but take another look, but she quickly took a look at her boyfriend and found that he was watching. When she looked at them, she nervously avoided sight. She started a series of attacks on her boyfriend, saying that she still looked in front of other girls, but she couldn't secretly look at other girls' legs! If you don't have a ghost in your heart, why should you avoid sight? Her boyfriend said there was nothing to see. Seeing someone doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He also raised his height to the point where he didn't understand why girls pursued these problems. Everyone has a love for beauty. When you see something beautiful, you will naturally stop for a moment. You can't walk without looking at people. ...

When my best friend complained to me about it, she said that she had made up her mind. She admitted that she made a mountain out of a molehill, but it wasn't her boyfriend's seemingly reasonable words that brainwashed her. That is, under certain conditions, the love between two people can't stand suspicion and distrust. Instead of cheating on her boyfriend when she can't see it, it's better to give him a hint and a look where she can see it. He said nothing, and neither did you. It's much better than picking this thing out and breaking it together.

Let's not talk about this best friend's vision, just talk about the way to deal with this matter. Her later ideas will reduce many contradictions in her relationship with two people. In this case, it is more respectful to give your boyfriend a warning than to make a scene. Such understanding and consideration will also make her boyfriend love her more and effectively avoid a quarrel. Even if some people think this idea is a little compromised, in love, both sides should learn to give in and respect, so giving in is not a good way!

Love needs wisdom. Speaking of trust, another colleague has encountered this kind of thing, but it should be handled more violently! This colleague Xiaowen has always been skeptical about her blind date. They did have love, but Xiaowen didn't have time to let it go. In order to test the blind date, she asked her beautiful girlfriend to test the boy, went out to eat and go shopping with her girlfriend, and even deliberately gave each other time alone at the dinner.

Similar to the role of Olivia in Ode to Joy, many people have tried to test a man in order to let their friends know him clearly, but the result will not be very good. Looking at a person's quality and test results clearly, the worst result is that three people go their separate ways. If they can stand the test, it will be embarrassing to mention them later. The best results can't achieve the purpose of verifying whether boys are loyal to you. Why bother?

But sometimes women are like this, and they can't help but want to highlight their sense of superiority by comparing with others, and even compare with people who are better than themselves, hoping that the result will be better. Some people say that this idea is naive, but we have to admit that it is human nature.

No comparison, no harm. It is a temptation that everyone can't refuse, but after mature thinking, you should be responsible for yourself, others, the object you want to test, and most pitifully, your best friend as a test.

Of course, as a result of Xiaowen's affair, her blind date really became interested in her best friend. However, Xiaowen's best friend has gradually drawn a line with these two people. From the perspective of her best friend, being used or testing a friend's boyfriend under known circumstances is also a test of her three views.

Therefore, in the matter of testing your boyfriend with your best friend, you can make no jokes. Things between two people are best solved. After all, nothing can't be solved at once! If so, twice!