Why do girls dislike the poor and love the rich?

Teacher Le Jia once posted a passage in If You Are the One, to the effect that when Teacher Le Jia first fell in love, there was a girl who loved him very much. At that time, Le Jia was poor, unruly, stubborn and stubborn. Angry, I felt that if you love me, you should prove it in any way. Finally one day, the girl finally ran away and really followed a rich man. So Le Jia felt that the girl was because she disliked poverty and loved wealth, so she really wanted to go. I struggled with the girl for a while. It was not until today, many years later, that Teacher Lejia himself had matured, had money and status, and could think about this past incident calmly, and finally admitted that the girl did not break up with him because she was poor.

When I was young, I often wanted to be able to drive a convertible and drive slowly on mountain roads full of fallen leaves with the people I like, but now I find that it is difficult. Because first of all, when I was driving a convertible car, there was no girl I liked next to me, and when there was a girl I liked, I was not driving a convertible car. When there was a convertible car and the girl I liked, I had to be stuck in a traffic jam. in town. Then as time passed, such impulses became less and less. Unlike when I was in school, I felt that I could give everything for a girl - yes, even my life.

I just think that everything has become a reality. Regardless of men and women, pure love may really only happen in school. I think that only in school can we not care about the transportation of a car. Bikes, and no bells. Only in high school and college, you may not care about whether your boyfriend is rich or poor, as long as you are good-looking and look good in front of your roommates in the dormitory. But when you get out of college, you will see that all your old bird friends are picked up by Mercedes-Benz. Or maybe the slightly attractive girlfriends in the office are picked up and dropped off by famous cars. The brands of the cars may be different, but the same thing is that the people in the cars are ugly. At this time, will you still feel sorry for your boyfriend who comes over in a Mercedes on a bicycle? Like before?

There is an article "Why didn't the girl who ate at the roadside stall with you accompany you to the end?" The article tells a story. The protagonists are Miss D and Mr. S, a pair of very ordinary young men and women. After graduation, they worked in the same office and later fell in love. It was a very common office romance. After a period of work, Mr. S proposed to go to another city to have a look. Miss D packed her luggage and left with him without saying a word. A few years later, the development of their city was not promising, so they both returned to their original city, and then they broke up. By chance, the author asked about the reason why the two broke up. Like most hard-working men, the male protagonist attributed the reason for the breakup to financial issues. When asking Miss D, Miss D said that when her family suffered a huge change, Mr. S acted more childishly and was not very supportive, leaving her to go home alone to solve the problem. Then, coupled with some things that happened later, Miss D began to make up her mind to leave. Miss D said that she... was really sad.

At the end of the story, old friends gathered together. Miss D was not there, and everyone asked Mr. S about the reason for their separation. Mr. S felt embarrassed when he was questioned, and once again gave a general answer, because of financial problems. At this point in the story, guess how the friends reacted?

After listening to Mr. S’s answer, the expected scene of everyone just giving a few words of comfort and forgetting it didn’t happen. Unexpectedly, the men and women at the table, old and young, all began to criticize Mr. S. The girls said that Ms. D was not that kind of person, and the boys said that it was definitely not about money. A big brother hit the nail on the head when he said, "I don't know the details of your relationship, but a girl gave you her best years, gave you everything, and went wandering with you. When you Even if you are poor, people will fall in love with you, and finally break up with you. If you still think it is because of financial problems, then there is something wrong with you! (Look, there are still such a group of lovely people in this world)< /p>

It is true that some girls would rather cry while sitting in a BMW, but there are still many girls who are willing to laugh with you on the back seat of a bicycle. Just like Miss D in the article, she followed Mr. S around the world when she was about 23 years old, wandering in foreign lands, renting a small dilapidated house to live in. When Mr. S occasionally lost his job, he still made money to support the family without hesitation. When they broke up, they went through four or five years. Years, she is almost thirty. She didn't leave just to sit in the BMW and cry.

There are many boys like Mr. S around me.

When a girl is unreasonably criticized by her boss in the company and needs comfort, when she is hesitant about her career choice and needs advice, when she drags her tired body home after a hard day, when When a girl sends you a text message saying she has a cold or is sick. What are some of my male friends doing? They will only console him by saying, oh, it’s a small thing, be good, just be a little more cheerful, and then continue to concentrate on watching his Premier League. I can only say that newcomers are all like this, and it’s normal to be a little tired. Just bear with it. Wife, the dish you made yesterday was delicious. Please make another one for me today. I will only tell her, listen to you, your choice must be right, then turn around and stare at the screen, concentrate on moving, and calmly finish the last hit. He can only say the golden universal sentence that has been tried and tested many times, baby, drink more hot water, and then shout at YY, increase the amount of treatment, and pay attention to T's skills.

And what are some so-called tall, handsome and rich guys doing? When a girl is exhausted after a hard day's work, they will say to her, "It's been a long day, let's go, let's go out to eat today and treat you well." . When a girl is hesitant about her career choice and needs advice, they will be able to listen to you calmly and give their own opinions gently and rationally, even if the girl may still have to make her own decision in the end. When a girl is unreasonably criticized by her boss and needs comfort, they will give her a warm embrace and a shoulder to lean on.