What does it mean that the blind date doesn't return the message?

Before no one likes us actively, don't forget to like yourself enough. Confident people all have different dazzling lights!

In the face of parents' forced marriage, they have to choose blind date, but many people will encounter such a situation after blind date, and take the initiative to send WeChat to ta, but the other party does not reply. Let's explore each other's hearts together.

Not returning the message is actually a refusal!

First of all, if the other party is interesting, even if ta is busy and inconvenient, I will try to reply as soon as possible. After all, it doesn't want to cause misunderstanding. Ta didn't reply to the message, but she has made it clear that she doesn't like it enough.

Secondly, many people habitually take an evasive attitude when facing problems, perhaps because of their personality, and always feel that this will make everyone comfortable. I don't like to refuse directly, I always feel embarrassed, and the most important thing is that refusing you will also make ta uncomfortable, so ta will choose to avoid the question and not return the message, and then wait for you to give up voluntarily. To put it bluntly, it is waiting for you to wear off your patience and initial goodwill towards ta!

Finally, I suggest you face this situation and treat it with a normal heart! Ta solves this problem in this way, although it does not respect us enough, but it also avoids embarrassment. If we really wait for ta to list a bunch of reasons why we don't like us on WeChat or on the phone, this kind of direct attack is even more unacceptable! The loss in my heart is on the one hand, and the most important thing is that it has hit my enthusiasm and confidence. If you meet someone you like again, you will have a psychological shadow that you dare not take the initiative. You are always worried that you will fail again!

The most important thing about feelings is two of a kind, without any reluctance! Don't despair if the other party shows such a cold attitude! Remember, in feelings, we don't have to wait for others to choose us. Each of us has the ability to choose others!

Before no one likes us actively, don't forget to like yourself enough. Confident people all have different dazzling lights!

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