I keep in touch with my boyfriend almost all day. I have been texting good morning since morning, and I have been chatting intermittently until evening, and I have been on the phone for more than an h

I keep in touch with my boyfriend almost all day. I have been texting good morning since morning, and I have been chatting intermittently until evening, and I have been on the phone for more than an hour at night. first of all, let's not talk about giving or not giving points. When two people fall in love, it depends on who the problem is, which will make the problem so unpleasant. According to my understanding, both of you have problems in handling problems. With all due respect, love is a matter between two people. You say you are beautiful, so he must have made great efforts to chase you, and he loves you very much, which is why he works while studying and visits you every week as you said. You know he is good, but he is a little too good for you, which makes your sense of security unsatisfied and insecurity appears instead. So at this point, you should firmly believe that he is really good to you. But what I want to say is that you don't have to hold on to people if you are nice to them. Love is loose and tight, and he holds you too tightly, which makes both sides feel bad. Makes you feel insecure, and he feels tired.

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the solution to your problems. I think it should be from the following aspects: First, you subconsciously rely on him (whether you love me or not) because he is very kind to you. If you want to have a result with him, you should accept him ideologically. Second, you should let him get to know each other, give each other more personal space, and you can't lose your social skills because you are immersed in the world of two people. This will make him feel absolutely at ease with you ideologically, and you should also feel at ease with him. Third, give each other more personal space. The phone call is not about how much you talk, but about not being in place. Call every day if you have nothing to say. What's the point? Fourth, you should care about him from the action. Love is mutual. The reason why he feels tired is because his efforts can't get the reward you deserve, and what you want to give him in return is relative affirmation. Of course, I mean after he turns his concern for you into ordinary concern. On the other hand, you said you were the first love. Do you have any trauma in your previous emotional experience for not trusting him? I don't know that. On the other hand, since it's the first love, I want to tell you frankly, don't feel that you will devote yourself to him for a long time, which will never last. The sooner you have sex, the earlier you get it. I hope you and he won't get angry after seeing this pertinent remark.

well, to sum up, he shouldn't hold on too tightly, you shouldn't respond too little, you two shouldn't contact too much, and there is not enough exchange of ideas. Just correct it from these aspects. The key question is that you have to think: what do you really want? This is the most essential.

thank you. I hope my shallow opinions can help you.