How to write a letter to an ex-boyfriend?

After a couple breaks up, it is impossible for all their feelings to be broken. Both sides will still have concerns and misses. How to write a letter to an ex-boyfriend? Next, let's take a look at a letter to my ex-boyfriend for your reference.

A letter to an ex-boyfriend

xxx:

It's good to see the letter, because I always feel that there is no good farewell, so I always feel that there is still a lot to say, so I thought of writing this letter to you. I know it is hypocritical to write such a letter to you after more than three months, and I also know that it will only make you dislike me even more. But I still can't help myself. There's something I really want to say to you, just to let you know.

First of all, I want to say thank you. I haven't had time to say thank you for your meticulous care and help for more than two years. Thank you for spending two wonderful years and rarely quarreling, because you always have a way to make me angry with you; Thank you for giving me many surprises and touches in the past two years. Because of you, I have one less regret in my college life. Because of you, I received the first bouquet of roses in my life, experienced the first hand-holding with the opposite sex, and experienced the first hug and kiss; Because of you, I feel that I have found a sense of belonging; Because of you, I realized many shortcomings and deficiencies in myself and made myself better ... I should thank you for everything.

Secondly, I want to say sorry to you. In the past two years, as a girlfriend, I have not been considerate enough for you. I'm sorry, many times I always think of myself first, and I don't take care of your feelings from your position. I'm sorry for you, a male chauvinist and stubborn man, because considering my feelings, you have made many changes for me and wronged you; You always say that I am not serious about anything, and I will lose you sooner or later. I was willful and said, unless you run away, how can you lose it? I'm sorry, my carelessness really lost you. How sad and disappointed you are to break up with me! pity ...

Finally, I want to say goodbye to you formally. I want to say that this first love that belongs to us is wonderful, and I am grateful to have it. In fact, our emotional intelligence is not high, and we are in love for the first time. When we encounter problems, we are helpless, and then the problems pile up. We are getting farther and farther away. In fact, you can sit down and talk about everything, and nothing can't be solved. I know you're into it. If I hadn't disappointed you, you wouldn't have broken up.

You once told me that you felt sorry for me, but it was really unnecessary. I have never resented you. Thank you very much for giving me an unforgettable college love.

xxx

Xx year xx month xx day

A letter to an ex-boyfriend

Mr. Du:

This year is the fourth year that we broke up and the eighth year that we have known each other. I'm writing this letter to you because I know that you have already got your certificate and will get married this year, probably in early May, so I want to tell you that I have accumulated things for eight years before that. It should be the last time. It is said that before your wedding, you will be someone else's husband from now on, and my personality will not bother you. After breaking up, I seldom talk, so I will get it off my chest once and make the last point clear, and then I can be a passerby completely calmly.

First of all, I feel sorry for you. I admit our four-year relationship, and I owe you too much. I'm not ashamed, but proud of the love you gave me. I slept with your best friend and finally broke up because of separation. I really have no confidence to go on. These are all true. You haven't said a word of blame from beginning to end, but I can imagine your sadness. But I thought at that time, since we can't get married, it seems that you can't let go of your feelings for four years. I might as well make you hate me earlier. You hate me, so you can live a better life, so I tell you me and your best friend. I tell you personally, from the day we started to get along, I knew we wouldn't go to the end. This is my most cruel and effective method. I succeeded, you completely disappeared from my life, holding a grudge, but I am not happy.

God is absolutely fair. I don't care if you are a good person. As long as you do something wrong, it will definitely make you pay double the price. I got what I deserved. I learned to smoke after breaking up with you; I began to sleep with men I knew or didn't know to kill loneliness; I learned to wear high heels; I started drinking all night. Until last year, I was seriously ill, and the doctor couldn't explain why the disease suddenly came to me. I know this is the price of profligacy. When I want to have a good relationship, I find a boyfriend with a bad record, just because I have money. When I saw through all this, I left my last bit of youth and a lot of money there and ran away without wiping a tear. I dare not complain. I interpret all these years' experiences into two words: retribution.

I hope you have a good life. I hope you can be happy all your life, really. I didn't know you were the best person for me until there was no other love to compare. I always thought that love should be like this. It is natural for every man to be kind to women. I think whenever you love someone, you should do so. I will always remember when we were poor students, because I said I wanted an iPod to listen to music, and you ate instant noodles silently for a month and a half, and put the latest machine in my hand on my birthday. I still remember that every summer and winter vacation, you came to see me with gifts; I still remember my feet hurt when I was shopping, and you walked all the way behind my back. Looking back now, I am happy, and that happiness is given by you. I want to thank you, but I also know that you were kind to me, not to make me thank you.

I remember when I was a sophomore, my mother took me to the hospital because of the irregular cycle. The intern told me that I was pregnant. My mother was angry, and I was scared and called you. You said: Don't worry, I'll tell my parents now. I won't let you have an abortion. I will marry you. Later, when the blood test and urine test came down, the doctor said that everything was normal, but it was a false alarm. I sent you a message and you told me that you were happy and sad at the moment. I am happy because I have nothing to do, and I am sad because you think you can marry me.

You are a good man, so I bless you. I envy your wife. She may not have much money after marriage, she may not be a well-off lady in the future, and she may not be the most dazzling one in the crowd, but at this age, I still know that the most important thing for a woman is not how much money her husband earns, how awesome her career is, and how big a house she lives in. Marrying a reliable person and being able to live a stable life is the greatest luck. At least when you want to cry, someone can watch it. That's enough.

When I was cheated by a man, when everything went wrong, when I couldn't hear the truth, I always thought, what if it was you? What if we are still together? What if I'm still your girlfriend? What if you were by my side? I'm sure you won't do that. You will spoil me in your way, and you will treat me well in your particularly stupid way. However, in 20 13 years, I told my lover from 2005 to 2009 in the same way: I understand you eight years ago. What's the use?

The purpose of writing this letter is not to make you turn around. You don't need to go back for an ex-girlfriend who betrayed you, and I don't want you to go back. I just want to say, a lot of things, I just fully understand now. I didn't like your honesty at that time, but later I learned that it was practical. I was bored at that time. I am uncompromising at home. I always thought that men should be domineering. I learned later that you were being nice to me. At that time, I hated that you didn't earn as much as me every month. Later, I learned that you got everything on your own, not with your father's help. Your name is awesome. Yes, I know everything now. I think you are the most reliable person in the world. I know you are the best person in the world. I know I understand you, but it's too late

If I were still in the same city with you, I should ask you out at this moment, in the evening, on the noisy wine table, among countless cups for a change, and after a few lines of tears, finish the above words. These old stories still have to be told face to face, which is a bit of beer. Now the two cities can only tell you so affectedly. I hope I'm not disturbing you.

I remember watching "33 days of lovelorn love" on Singles' Day two years ago, and the propaganda film intercepted what all kinds of lovelorn people wanted to say to their predecessors. A girl said this: "I hope that every year in the future, there will be a girl who really understands you and loves you?" Then I choked to death. My tears immediately fell down. Yes, I made you fall in love, but I tasted it myself, didn't I? Now, when I wander around and earn a lot of money but can't find someone who really loves me, when I can't find a home in a strange city, you marry a girl who really loves you in a small town, and it's beautiful. It's not much happiness, but you've managed it with your heart. This is the best reward for those who give. I don't think I need to bless you. I wish you a girl who loves you in the future. I know it will.

Now I suddenly feel that I may have really loved you, otherwise why can I think of you every time I am sad?

Okay, let's not talk about it. It's melodramatic if you say it. Happy wedding!

If you like, I will always be your good partner.

Cheer up, good night!

xxx

Xx year xx month xx day

A letter to my boyfriend

Dear:

Words are magical things. Please read it carefully with a calm mind.

I looked up at the sky before typing. When I saw its color clearly, my tears fell down. It contains too many grievances. ...

I think of your face and the bits and pieces of life with you. I love you very much. As long as you ask, I can give you anything you want. But it still can't change our destiny. Because the difference in our consciousness is far beyond my imagination, I thought that as long as we have love and get along slowly for a long time, we will completely accept each other. But how can a bottle full of water hold another solute?

A deep breath of tobacco will make me dizzy for a while. My lungs are very sensitive. Equally fragile, my heart has finished smoking this cigarette, and I am slowly sorting out my clues. As long as you still love me at this moment and you are willing to change your temper, I won't leave you. I will put the packed clothes back, I will give myself confidence, and we will keep going. ...

Of the two of us, I can only be the rational one. Although I am not big, I also hope to have a shoulder to lean on, and my man can be more mature than me.

I only ask you one thing, please remember, ok?

Before you do anything, please think about what will happen to me if you do.

Only by doing this can feelings become marriage, because marriage belongs to two people, and we can't just care about our emotions.

Looking up at the window for the second time, the soft sunshine came in. Sprinkle it on your quilt.

When you took it out to sleep alone yesterday, I don't know if you ever thought that this woman around you would be sad.

When you left home without saying a word yesterday, I don't know if you ever thought about what would happen to me.

These two days, when you don't want to say a word to me, I don't know if you have ever thought about my mood.

Today, when you heard me crying on the phone, I don't know if you felt a little sorry for me, even for a moment.

Today, after listening to the phone, you still insisted on leaving. I don't know, at that time, did you ever think about what it would be like for me to wait for you at home?

Today, when you answered my phone in the car, I was still actively communicating with you, no matter what you did before. You just died because of the three words "you are selfish". At that time, I don't know if you ever thought ... I would cry when I heard a busy signal.

When you turned off your phone today, I wonder if you thought of me. I remember I've been calling you, and all I hear is how I feel when the subscriber you dialed is turned off.

You don't have to answer these questions. Now I know you didn't. I am very sad, very sad. ...

Feelings are two people's business. I know you're angry, and you can't care so much. But if I want to be like you, How can we solve the contradiction between us and get along better?

I just hope you really read every word carefully and think about what I said.

I went out because I knew you would be unhappy to see me.

If you figure it out, just call me. My phone, you will always be connected. Because I love you.

xxx

Xx year xx month xx day