Can you accept your boyfriend texting and chatting with his ex-girlfriend?

I absolutely cannot accept it. Since we are separated, we can no longer contact you. If you contact me when you have no partner, you will contact me. But if you still contact me after you have a new girlfriend, it would be too much. If I find out, I will beat him up and never talk to him again.

Although I can't accept it, there are many people who can accept it, unlike me who is really petty. Even if you think about it from an acceptable perspective now, it still needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. If he did this when he first met me, then I think he has not completely let go of the previous relationship. Don't tell me how to connect with friends only after he has truly let go. This sentence can be believed in TV dramas. Because they are all acting and are not suitable in life. The reality is that people like the new and hate the old. If you are still in contact, it means you are not tired of the old relationship. Or maybe you want to ride on two boats. If you are still like this after getting married, then you are about to cheat...

For people in the past, not everyone can let go of past relationships easily. After all, we have fallen in love and experienced many beautiful things. It is impossible to say that you have completely forgotten it, because even if the relationship is gone, everything you have experienced will not be erased, it will just become a part of your life and be kept in your heart. If you are still in contact, you are putting this experience into action, that is, you have not selectively let go. Such people are not suitable for starting new relationships. There are also people who are still friends after separation. I think it’s just nonsense, unless it never really started.

A male friend of mine is a divorced man in his thirties. After they divorced, his wife got together with his best friend. Although no one said it explicitly, we all knew in our hearts that we were together. He got divorced because of his buddy. Just last month, he contacted me and asked me if my ex-wife was getting married. Do you think I should go? I told him that he shouldn't, because he also has a partner, and it doesn't matter in the first place, so why should he go. Afterwards, I was thinking that he still couldn't let go of his ex-wife. Although there was no contact, the feelings were still there.

?There are many people who broke up and came back to you later. There are countless such situations. Some people come back because they haven’t found a new suitable person and want to see if they are good or not. Or just eat, it's better than going hungry. Some people are because the new ones are not as good as the old ones. Just like we are used to eating the dishes cooked by our mothers, we always feel that others are not as delicious as those cooked by our mothers. This is a habit. Before we completely lose the habit, we still linger on it, or I still want to pick up my old habits and don’t want to lose them. How terrible is this? Maybe he and his current girlfriend will go back after contacting each other. The premise is that the ex will still want him, but since the general contact must be similar to his idea.

Think about it, even if you still have feelings for the person who sorry for you, you can’t let go, let alone a boyfriend and girlfriend who broke up normally, so don’t tolerate your boyfriend contacting his ex, since it doesn’t matter anymore , then be more thorough, delete all contact information, remove your ex from your life, don’t hesitate, just do it. But remember, the prerequisite for doing this is that this man is good enough, or you love him enough, and you can accept it even if he is bad in every way. If not, then let nature take its course. Give yourself something to do.