It's been a month since we broke up. We contacted him several times and told him on WeChat that we wanted to talk to him. We must not forget him. He didn't come back. Are we hopeless?

Breaking up is to end the pain, not to torture each other. If you often look back after separation and feel sad every day, then your departure is either hasty or ignorant. Some pains are prolonged by ourselves, because you live in regret and unwillingness.

Some separation is regrettable, perhaps because we didn't love each other well, didn't finish our words when we broke up, and then hated each other. Then pity the present. What is more important than life now? Even the best memories are gone. The real understanding is to hold hands. It's a pity that there is a little vicissitudes, and staying too much is the sorrow of our life.

Why do you want to separate? But this time, love left, and we didn't stay. Suffering only proves that we once loved so sincerely, not fragile or failed.

Don't blame yourself for not forgetting her (him). You should know that there are many people and things in a person's life that you can't forget, but you can give up, forever!

In fact, this is just a song in your life. . . Many times, you have to think freely and let go. You have to tell yourself that fate has run out. Many things are predestined, and you can't do whatever you want. After all, you are not a god, and you can't be a god. . . Since she doesn't love you, you should let her go and let yourself go. If you love her, you should respect her choice. . . To love yourself is to give your future self love and give your future self a chance. . . Many things are forced to be unhappy, unhappy. Maybe you feel good, but in fact, your heart is gone. Why deceive yourself? I used to haunt him like this. I think I tried to let him know that he would turn around, but it was useless. All I got was curse, heartache and despair. Finally, I lost the feeling of heartache and I figured it out. Find yourself stupid and headstrong. He is not my parents. How can he listen to me and satisfy me? . . Later, no matter who I met, I told myself that everything was doomed. . . So I hope you can love yourself, how to love others without loving yourself, and how to make others love you. . . I hope you don't torture yourself, let go and be happy every day. . . Men should learn to pick up and put down. . . Enjoy your own forest, don't hang there, it's not worth it, take your time. . .

If you want to save your love,

1. If the boy wants to get it back, then take your GF to a place where no one is there, and then kiss her. . . (Light rain hint: it's not rape, otherwise it's troublesome)

About a minute, ask her "Do you still love me"? Kiss her and say love.

You can send a message that I love you to your girlfriend every day.

You can buy a ring-like gift for GF, and make her think that you want to be with her, if you really think so.

4. Yes, follow the girl silently when she comes home.

You can often ask your girlfriend's friends about her.

6. Never make out with other women in front of GF, or things will be irreversible.

1 If a girl wants to recover, she can always care about him silently.

2. When you meet BF, try to pretend to be miserable and make him feel that you can't live without him.

3. You can buy some keychain mobile phone chains for boys to make him feel that you are always with him, even if you break up.

You can be very silent after leaving him.

When he needs help, you can help him without hesitation.

You can be his best friend first, then leave him and see if he still cares about you.

7. Girls can't have fun with other boys in front of their boyfriends, even if they are really just friends. If your boyfriend loves you, it will definitely hurt his self-esteem, and the second time is hopeless.

If you are not satisfied with the above methods,

Sometimes there is no feeling, even if it is reunited, the cracks will not be exactly the same. There are many people who break up, and temporary pain will make you know more. In fact, as a girl, you have worked very hard. What you have worked so hard is the indifference of your ex-boyfriend step by step. There is no need to push yourself into pain, and no one wants to come out.

On the contrary, you can make him feel life without you, because he doesn't care about life without you. Maybe he won't get used to it. If he doesn't care at all or life is better without you, why don't you let go? Anyway, don't make yourself too sad, let alone for someone who doesn't care about you.

Get to know more people around you, often go out for a trip with friends and get in touch with some other things. Maybe you will be suddenly enlightened and relieved.

He has a girlfriend, but I really want to get him back!

My ex-boyfriend and I have been in love for a year and a half. We always quarreled and broke up when we were in love, but we really broke up in 20 1 1 April. I was very determined at that time. When he called, I directly said it was impossible. But at that time, we agreed that if the other party didn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend after one year, we would continue to contact each other. In September, on my birthday, a suitor gave me 99 flowers. But in February of 20 1 1 year, I learned that he was in love, and I was very painful. 20 12 years 10 months I went to his place to look for him, and then I cried and asked him to come back to me. At that time, he said that he loved her, not me. If breaking up with that woman is unfair to her, she will say that I am too naive. Self-esteem broke out again, and then I sent a short message to one of my admirers. Unexpectedly, my admirer told me to go out, and then I left his residence. Because he said it was impossible, I accepted the pursuit of my admirer in despair.

Two months later, in March, I heard that he broke up, because I was talking to my admirer at that time and I didn't take any action. At the beginning of May, I really had no feelings for my admirer, so I broke up. Then after ten days, I heard that my ex-boyfriend was in love again and didn't talk to that woman for about a month. I really wanted to cry, so I called him and said I had something to find him and went to his place to find him. He said no fiercely, and then hung up. Then I called him again, hoping to get back together. He said he didn't love me, and it was impossible between us. I hung up the phone directly in an impatient tone, and soon he sent a text message saying, don't blame me for being rude, it's really meaningless.

Just a few days ago, I called one of his colleagues, who is also a friend of his, and told him that I really wanted to get back together with my ex-boyfriend and let him put in a good word for me in front of him. He agreed, and he told me that his ex-boyfriend is probably lonely now and always asks others to introduce him. Because of other people's jokes, his ex-boyfriend left with that woman, and now he has a better relationship with that woman, because he just fell in love, every day. But I can't. I know what is most needed now is waiting.

After all, I am blind in love, but I really want to get back together. I sent a text message to my ex-boyfriend yesterday, hoping he could think quietly for ten and a half days. Who is his favorite person in my heart? Does she want to know her because he is lonely or curious? Don't fall in love because of loneliness. I said that no matter whether the ending is good or bad, I don't regret it. At least I tried, but I hope he can calm down and think about it. Who is his favorite person? But he hasn't replied yet. I want to contact him, but I know I can't contact him at this time and leave him alone. I'm afraid to contact him later. His relationship with Peng Yu is getting better and better. I have no chance. What should I do now?

To tell you the truth, his forbearance and refusal got you deeper and deeper.

Suggestion: Give up.

Breaking up may hurt you, but it will make you grow up. Don't let yourself do this. Be strong through this failed love.

Hug. The road ahead is wider.

Your family doesn't want you to pay unilaterally. Wake up and stop talking.

I wish female compatriots equal love.

Little girl, if you want to save it, you have to think for yourself first. If you want, can you accept each other's shortcomings? After all, when two people are together, they don't appreciate each other's advantages but tolerate each other's shortcomings. If you can't tolerate each other's shortcomings, don't fix them. If you think you can accept his shortcomings, think about how you plan to change yours. For example, when something happens, you are anxious, narrow-minded, quarrelsome ... you can't be together if you can't change yourself. I suggest you think about how you plan to change yourself and take more detailed measures. Think about it, and then go to him.

He should still have feelings for you, but you have to say it to your face. You talk to him about your feelings for him, and then talk about how you look at your past problems. After that, you can talk about how you plan to change yourself. Be specific, let him believe you and let him give you a chance.

If you want to save it, you have to work hard and pay.

Once upon a time, there was a little boy with a bad temper. One day, his father gave him a big bag of nails and told him to hammer a nail in the backyard fence every time he lost his temper. On the first day, the little boy nailed 37 nails to the fence.

A few weeks later, because he learned to control his anger, the number of nails that the little boy nailed on the fence was gradually decreasing every day. He found it much easier to control his bad temper than to hammer a nail into the fence ...... Finally, the little boy became less angry.

He told his father about his change. His father also suggested, "If you can persist for a day without losing your temper, pull a nail from the fence." After a while, the little boy finally pulled out all the nails on the fence.

The father came to the fence and said to the boy, "Son, you did a good job. However, look at the small holes left by so many nails on the fence. The fence is not what it used to be. When you lose your temper with others, you will leave scars in their hearts. It's like stabbing a knife into a person's body and then pulling it out. No matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. Therefore, there is no difference between verbal injury and physical injury.