What should I do if my wife doesn't want to spend the New Year at the man's house in the first year of marriage?

In the first year of marriage, the woman must miss her parents very much and hope to spend the New Year with them. Since you don't mind, I suggest you go back to your mother's house to spend the New Year with her. In this case, your wife is very grateful to you. If you discuss anything with her in the future, I'm sure she will understand. And just married, if you do this, your parents-in-law also value you very much.

I can understand your parents' attitude. You must show your attitude between your daughter-in-law and your mother-in-law. You can't argue between them. How to explain it to your parents is up to you. If it is done, your parents will be happy and your wife will be happy. If you don't do it well, your parents will have a problem with your daughter-in-law

So, the problem is not your wife, but you have to calm your parents' emotions. I don't know if you agree with me. I wish you a happy life and hope to adopt.