My boyfriend is very controlling and often relies on my mobile phone. How can I refuse him?

Let me talk about my experience first. In my memory, I once peeked at my lover's mobile phone. Ten years ago, my lover and I had a song. A young man comes to sing at two o'clock every three days. After singing, he often chats with my wife. I see my wife is very happy with him. After a long time, I am very unhappy. I'm afraid of losing my lover. I want to know what happened. I stole my lover's cell phone while he was sleeping. In fact, there are some normal greetings in WeChat, and there is nothing ambiguous. I felt very guilty afterwards. Later, I had a deep talk with my lover, and my wife said it was to attract customers and chat normally. I feel sorry for my trivial feelings. It can be seen from this incident that peeking at a woman's mobile phone first loves her girlfriend and is afraid of losing her girlfriend. Secondly, I am not confident.

According to the above analysis, girlfriends should do this:

First, seriously reflect on whether you have mastered the discretion when making male friends. Treat boyfriends and male friends correctly, and you can't confuse the two things. So that her boyfriend can daydream.

The second boyfriend always peeks at your mobile phone, which shows that he doesn't respect you, doesn't trust you, is possessive and doesn't give you free living space. This is twisted love. If you are ordinary friends, explain to your boyfriend, then you will not get along and will bring pain to both sides. The pain will be more serious after marriage.

In short, it is wrong to peek at the phone. If a big man has something to say, he should put it on the table. He shouldn't be narrow-minded and do things that steal chickens and dogs. If you love her, you should reserve enough private space for her. Distance produces beauty, otherwise it will annoy your girlfriend and look down on you, which will not solve the problem at all. Women should be more reserved and establish a correct view of love and friendship, otherwise people will misunderstand, miss fate and lose love.

This is a habit, not good. Many people have a little desire to know other people's privacy, but they should be self-disciplined, can talk frankly, don't look at each other's mobile phones and trust each other. If you can't feel trust without looking at their mobile phones, think about it. Can you see the other person's mobile phone and get into other people's hearts to check? Therefore, trust is very important.