What should excellent primary school parents say when they take the stage to receive the prize?

Dear teachers and parents,

Hello everyone! I am Li Hongbo's mother, and I am very grateful to Hongqi Primary School for giving our parents such a platform for mutual communication, so that I can discuss the education of children with you here. In the education of children, I believe that the parents here are more experienced than me, and I am trying to be a qualified mother through continuous learning and exploration. Here, I will briefly talk about my views and experiences on this topic. If there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct me.

"Looking forward to the success of children and daughters" is the common wish of parents. Every parent wants to train their children to be useful to the country and society in the future. Primary school teachers play an important role in education. They have nurtured every child's innocent heart with selfless AIDS and taught them a lot of knowledge and skills. The growth of children is inseparable from the hard work of teachers. My son often says to me at home, "Mom, I like our teacher and I am very happy at school". Here, on behalf of all the parents present, please allow me to thank Mr. Li, Mr. Xiong and all the hard-working gardeners for their meticulous care for the children, and sincerely say to the teachers, "Teacher, you have worked hard. "

Family is the second class for children. In the process of educating children, we have an important experience: learn to respect children. To sum up, it is mainly reflected in the following four aspects:

First, respect children's interests. As parents, we all want our children to be proficient in chess and calligraphy. In my opinion, we must understand children's hobbies and respect their interests. Only when children are willing to learn what they like can they learn well. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive. We enrolled him in Taekwondo classes according to his own wishes. Seeing that children still want to learn saxophone, I went to communicate with the teacher. The teacher said to me, "children can take part in some other extracurricular activities besides reading." But you can't study too hard. When the children are older, if you still like saxophone, it's not too late to learn it again. "I go home to do ideological work for my children. Later, the child agreed to my suggestion and didn't learn saxophone. In addition, after work, we will take some time to accompany our children, do homework, read books and participate in various parent-child activities with them. Now, the children have learned to play China chess, checkers and so on. Whenever he hits us, not to mention how happy he is. In this way, the child's thinking has also been extended and his self-confidence will be improved. With self-confidence, he will work harder to do everything well.

The second is to respect children's demands. As parents, we should communicate with our children more, make friends with them, and grow up with them while educating them. In particular, learn to be a loyal listener to children. Due to busy work, some parents are often reluctant to calm down and listen to their children's voices. In fact, being a child's audience is a great respect for children, a great encouragement to children, and the greatest reward for children's trust! Usually Li Hongbo likes to tell us what he has seen and heard, and we will listen carefully every time. Every day, we will take some time to chat with him, even if it is only for a few minutes, and ask him about his school today, do you understand what the teacher said, do you raise your hand to speak in class, do you mingle with your classmates, etc ... In addition, we will try our best to meet the reasonable demands of our children, which also shows a respect for them. Explain the reasons for unreasonable demands that cannot be met and do ideological work. In this way, over time, children have invisibly enhanced their ability to communicate with others, and their courage has become greater, and they have become good friends with us.

The third is to respect children's habits. Children are a mirror of parents. When a child behaves well, we often say: This child has a good family education. Family education represents parents' attitude towards their children, and it also allows us to see the true side of parents from their words and deeds. As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers and the first and most powerful shapers of personality growth. Parents should pay attention to their personal words and deeds and give their children a good demonstration and guidance. Li Hongbo likes me to recite the text with him when he comes home, so that he can recite it quickly and accurately. But also can grasp the content of his study in time, which also plays a very good role in urging him.

The fourth is to respect the temperament of children. When children's temperament is unstable, parents should be more tolerant and respectful. We know that praise can make people work miracles, and too much criticism will lead children to blame themselves. If the child has made progress, encourage and praise him in time to make him feel a sense of accomplishment and urge him to make persistent efforts; If your child goes backwards, don't be discouraged. Never scold him to his face, let alone compare your child with other children, which will dampen his enthusiasm and self-esteem.

As the saying goes, scientific love lies in mentality. Adjust the mentality and teach children to learn to speak and walk. When a child falls down or hasn't learned to speak, do we hit or scold the child? We can definitely say no, but more is encouragement and support. Whenever the child makes progress, I will be his cheerleader; Whenever a child has a problem, I will be his gas station.

No one is perfect, and every child has shortcomings. I tell my children that everyone has advantages and disadvantages. When others compare their own advantages with your shortcomings, don't be sad, don't be discouraged and ignore them. We should learn to make up for our own shortcomings with the advantages of others, so that you can make continuous progress. I remember when I was in kindergarten, the introverted children tried their best to tell stories to the school radio station on behalf of the class. Every year, the performance of the performance on the stage on June 1st has been unanimously recognized by teachers and parents. At the graduation ceremony, I also served as the host.

Of course, there are still some shortcomings in our family education; The child still has many shortcomings and needs our help to correct them. I hope to have more opportunities to discuss with you in the future.

Friends, children are our hope and the future of our motherland. Please trust our children and respect our children, because they are the best. Today, they may still be just small flowers growing in greenhouses; Tomorrow, they will grow into towering trees!

Thank you!