Old people should have their own lives.

Sister Ren always likes to talk about her mother. The old lady is not in charge, the old lady is playful, the old lady is different from other people's mothers, and the old lady is selfish. The old lady only cares about enjoying herself. Whenever talking about her mother, Ren Jie, 50, keeps shaking her head.

Ren Jie's mother is 75 years old, and her hair is black and shiny. It seems that she often dyes her hair, but in fact she has no white hair. A small curl of hair is curled in a circle and stands delicately on the head, meticulous.

Round face, a little square chin, swollen eyes, short stature, typical defecation. The body is straight, but the sleeves and pants always feel a little short.

The old lady has a bad temper and never shows mercy when she speaks. On that day, she played cards with a group of small players, and everyone argued endlessly about playing cards. The old lady stood up at once. You cheated at cards. Believe it or not, I lifted the table, and everyone was afraid to make any more noise.

The old lady has a strong personality and is very capable. At that time, Ren Jie's father was working in other places, and the old lady had to take care of three children and had to farm. According to the old lady herself, she didn't even get enough sleep at that time. Get up at 4 o'clock every morning, make a good meal, and do farm work first. There is work in other people's homes. She is a woman, and she does it slowly.

The child is a little older, and she is not willing to let the child help in the fields. I am bent on not delaying my child's study. I am a mother, just like an old hen protecting a flock of chickens and protecting my children.

Elementary school, junior high school and senior high school, until the children joined the work, the old lady finally sent the children out of the house. At this time, the place where the old lady lived was turned into an industrial park by the government, and all the staff moved. The old lady also received a pension, and her dream of shopping and playing mahjong is about to begin.

The old lady's ideal has not been realized yet. Sister Ren gave birth to a child in this year. The old lady had already passed away, so she had to send her son back to her mother's house to be taken care of by her mother. The old lady took over the task of taking care of her grandson. Ren Dajie and his wife are busy with their work, so they only have holidays to see their son. The little grandson is thin and often ill. The old lady holds the little grandson all night and walks back and forth. Until now, Sister Ren has been saying that the 27-year-old son is better to his grandmother than to her mother.

Finally, the grandson was sent to kindergarten, and Ren Jie's younger brother's son was born again. As soon as he was discharged from the hospital, his son and daughter-in-law sent the child directly to the old lady. The old lady happily embraced her grandson, but she didn't. There must be something wrong with the daughter-in-law, and the old lady went on to take care of her grandson.

Daughter-in-law has no milk, and grandson has been following grandma since birth. The old lady has been busy taking care of her grandson from morning till night. Rice paste is the most troublesome thing every morning. Soak rice, shovels and peanuts in water the night before, and get up early the next morning and put them in the nest. You must cook them and cool them before your grandson wakes up. Diapers and meals every day keep the old lady busy.

After hard work day after day, I finally sent my grandson to kindergarten. The old lady's favorite little daughter divorced again and went back to her mother's house with her daughter under one year old. After the unit was laid off, the younger daughter went to Guangdong to work, and the younger granddaughter was left to the old lady. This support is 20 years. In the past 20 years, the old lady has been worried about everything about her granddaughter.

Finally, all the children grew up, while Ren Jie's father was paralyzed, and Lazar ate and drank in bed. All three children have their own jobs, and the old lady begins to take care of her wife again. Daily daily washing is unbearable for the old lady. Although I occasionally complain in front of the children, most of the time, the old lady is still serving. Two years later, the old man left peacefully.

The old lady can finally rest. In her later years, she began to believe in Buddhism, and the Buddhist scriptures never left her hand. She lives alone and has time to play cards with the elderly in the community.

One day, because the light in front of the house was broken, the old lady accidentally bumped her face against the door frame, and her face was swollen black and blue. In order not to worry the children, the old lady called her granddaughter first: Don't come back recently, I'm too busy to take care of you. Granddaughter was not at ease and came back to see the old lady's injury. The old lady resolutely refused to tell her daughter and son.

Transfusion, cooking and self-care, her children didn't know about it until they were better. When everyone criticized her, she said, you are all busy, and it's not a big deal. I can handle it myself. what do you have to do？

Last year, Ren Jie gave birth to a grandson. Because she is doing business, she really wants her mother to help her and help her take care of her great-grandson. The old lady is determined not to come. I never lived my life. My days are numbered. I don't want to be so tired. I want to live the life I want. I want to see the outside world.

The old lady joined a local tour group of old urchins, all elderly people, who travel abroad every month. Sister Ren is unhappy. When it comes to her mother, she is full of discontent. I'll persuade her that the old lady has worked hard in her life and should have a rest. At this age, she's not sick and hasn't given you any trouble. You should be satisfied.

Parents in the world are always paying for their children, and when children take this payment for granted. When you turn a blind eye, living your own life is the last freedom that the old man gives himself.