What should I send to the counselor if I want to join the party?

Let me give you some advice. According to your tone, you are still a student. If you are a student, you'd better join the student union, so that you can get closer to the counselor. Secondly, it is easier to join the student union during the exam.

As for gifts, there are many aspects, such as your counselor's usual preferences and family preferences. If you want to send high-grade, send some collectibles, which are worth hundreds to thousands, depending on your situation. If you have children, you can see what children need. For example, if a child learns to draw, you can send a set of good drawing tools or something.

As for sending money, sending cigarettes and wine is a bit common. If your teacher is more cautious, sending money will be counterproductive.