High emotional intelligence replies to the predecessor.

High emotional intelligence replies to the predecessor.

High emotional intelligence replies to the contact of seniors. People who fall in love have several predecessors and are particularly happy when they are together. Once we break up, we should let him go without clinging. Although I am an ex, I still can't let go sometimes. Attitude is very important to get in touch with your predecessor. Let's take a look at the high emotional intelligence contacts replying to their predecessors.

Contact 1 before high EQ reply.

First, never come back.

In fact, to tell the truth, Uncle Zhi can't help watching the dynamics of his predecessor's circle of friends and recalling the good memories between us, even though he is no longer single. Some time ago, she sent me a normal expression pack. I stared at the expression pack for a long time that night, but I still didn't reply anything, and finally I even deleted her. Under normal circumstances, the ex suddenly contacts you, and most girls with high emotional intelligence will not reply, because you know that no matter how reluctant you are, there will be no development between you. Since you can't get what you want, why not look for it?

Second, never to return.

As a predecessor, both boys and girls will not easily contact their predecessors. If they suddenly contact you, they are either affectionate or demanding. Because of their previous relationship, considering your previous relationship, he thinks you should restore him immediately, so that no matter what the purpose is, it will become easy. When the current teacher suddenly contacts you, most girls with high emotional intelligence will not answer for a second. This way is also the most Japanese. How much hope a person has, how much disappointment he will have. It is precisely this, whether he wants to get back together or has something to find you, he becomes very passive.

Third, high cold reaction.

Sometimes I don't understand those who break up with others on their own initiative. Their sense of superiority over others in their feelings makes it difficult for them to respect a person. If your predecessor is such a person, when he suddenly contacts you, he will show your high emotional intelligence with a cold reply. No matter what he is doing, it implies that he has an attitude that has nothing to do with himself. So even the thick-skinned people will understand. However, you can't imagine that there is a possibility of development between you. You know, as long as a relationship really breaks down, there will be problems no matter how to make up for it later.

Respond to the previous high emotional intelligence contact. Don't get too excited and enthusiastic.

The past has passed, and the past people are no longer important. Since you haven't come this far, it's inappropriate to represent you two. So when you treat your ex, you don't need to be too excited because he took the initiative to find you, let alone too enthusiastic about him. You are not in business, there is no need to be hospitable to everyone, let alone this person. No matter who broke up and who was sorry, it's over. There's no need to hate each other so much, and there's no need to be too enthusiastic.

Treat him like a stranger.

The most qualified attitude towards your predecessor is to treat him as a stranger. Two people may have loved each other before, or they may hate each other. Anyway, you didn't go to the end. Those things have passed. There is no need to mention them again. You can treat him as a stranger. There is no need to say hello even if we meet in the street. If you already have a partner at this time, then you should not talk to him more, so as not to make your boyfriend jealous.

Don't be soft-hearted for the time being

Some women are just soft-hearted and can't stand the pity of others. Most exes come to you to get back together with you. At this time, you should not be soft-hearted. Reconciliation will not make you happier, but will repeat the same mistakes and may be hurt again. So if your ex has this idea and keeps telling you sweet words, don't promise him easily.