The 6 types of parents in the "parent group" make teachers upset and difficult to talk about, but many people are rushing to do it

I don’t know when the children went to school from a "free range" state to a "captive" state.

How do you say this? In the past, when we were in school, parents would leave their children to the teachers and contact them basically once a semester, which was during the parent-teacher meeting.

Nowadays, when children go to school, there are many school activities, and parents often need to participate. What's more important is that not only do we meet more offline, we meet online every day.

Contemporary parents have one child, two mobile phones, three software, and four parent groups.

If there is a second child, multiply it by two.

Parents with children must have experienced the torture of online teaching and aerial classes in primary and secondary schools and even kindergartens in 2020.

Parents group! Many parents are frightened by this news.

Parents group! How many parents are outraged.

Last year’s “parents withdrawal incident” put teachers at the forefront of the limelight. Is the teacher at fault? That's really wrong.

Teachers should not push the task of correcting homework to parents. It is really not good for teachers to shirk responsibility and trouble parents in this way.

But for the parent group, teachers are actually unwilling. Not to mention the increased workload, the parents in the group are also extremely difficult to manage.

1. A group of parents with multiple members

Logically speaking, the rules of the parent group are that one person can only enter one parent. So how many children are there in a class, the number of people in the group should be just the number of students plus the number of teachers. However, how many parent groups have twice the number of students in their classes?

This is because many parents, for the sake of a child, would send parents, grandparents, grandparents, etc. into the class group.

This situation is most common in kindergartens. Parents are particularly concerned about their children's activities in kindergarten, and adults feel that they can chime in and understand a little bit about kindergarten education.

2. Parents who love to send spam messages

The original intention of establishing the parent group is to create an online tool for home-school education and build a bridge of communication between home and school.

Therefore, the purpose of the parent group is only one, for the learning and growth of the children. Therefore, there should be only one thing that teachers and parents discuss in the parent group, which is study and life.

Parents who like to send spam messages are either difficult for teachers to talk to, or their words are useless. What canvassing, bargaining, chicken soup, advertising. Post everything to the group, especially the elderly people who join the group.

It’s not good to give advice on children’s education and criticize teachers’ teaching. This is not good, it’s really not good.

3. Parents who are willing to show off and "show off"

Only those who love to work hard will win, and those who love to show off will be beautiful. It's beautiful, but it's also really annoying.

It is not only the class teacher who is annoyed, but also other parents in the group. Everyone’s own children are the best, and no matter how good “other people’s children” are, they belong to other people’s families. Even if everyone praises you, it's all polite.

It’s okay to show off your own children, but it’s intolerable to show off yourself through a group of parents.

People who love "showing off" will always find various opportunities and channels to show off.

But in the group, after all, the identity is the parent, and such showy behavior cannot establish correct values ????for the children.

It was hard and inconvenient for the teacher to say anything when he saw it, so as not to get angry and be accused of jealousy.

4. Parents who use a "magnifying glass" to see

Teachers in the parent group not only send notices, but also occasionally send photos of their children in school or kindergarten.

Sometimes the person who posted it did not mean it, but the person who saw it did it intentionally. Especially in kindergarten, parents can interpret an ordinary photo of a child in many ways, which makes kindergarten teachers feel aggrieved.

For example, when children are in class, parents ask in the group, “Why can’t I see my child?”

Another example is when children are having outdoor activities, and parents ask, “How do my children see it?” "Aren't you happy?"

Please let the teacher go, otherwise the teacher really won't even want to post a photo in the group.

5. Self-centered parents

This type of parent is the same whether they are in the group or outside the group. The emotional kindergarten and school were opened just for their family!

Make all the decisions in the group and make the teacher obey his orders.

It's a pity that at most kindergartens are afraid of her, but in elementary school not many people are used to her.

6. Parents who love to flatter the teacher

Do you flatter the teacher or not? It doesn't hurt to follow up with a sentence or two to show respect and understanding.

But if the parents in the group all day long are not only flattering, but also flattering, everyone will be disgusted to see them.

Have you ever seen flatterers who think of different tricks? The flatterers who write poems and lyrics are totally beyond your imagination, and there is nothing they can’t flatter.

The purpose of flattering parents is also very obvious. Everyone knows it, and it is just for the sake of their children. But does flattering the teacher really work? Not necessarily, and don’t think of teachers so narrowly.

It’s not easy for parents. They are busy with their own work at work and busy with their children’s studies after get off work.

During the day, I watch the work group on my mobile phone, and at night, I watch the parent group on my mobile phone.

It is not easy for children to learn and it is not easy for parents to cooperate.

Parents have to join the parent group, parents have to read messages in the group, and parents have to reply to teacher notifications.

In the parent group, parents should not be annoying parents. If parents do the following, they will be relaxed and the teachers will be relaxed as well.

First of all, abide by the group rules. Whether it is the number of people joining the group or changing the name of the note, you must obey and respect the arrangements and regulations of the class teacher.

Secondly, after seeing the group messages, parents should try their best to reply and answer questions in a timely manner. If they have doubts, they should privately chat with the teacher instead of questioning the teacher in the group, or follow the trend of the teacher and discuss the teacher.

Finally, actively cooperate with the teacher’s work, do a good job in home-school education, and believe that the school believes that the teacher believes in the children!

Parent groups are a product of the development of the times. They will not disappear or be banned until more advanced, faster, more convenient and cheaper home-school communication tools emerge.

Parents need to adapt. If they have dissatisfaction or complaints, teachers will be somewhat understanding. After all, teachers and we are also annoying parents!

Parents are not willing to use it, and teachers are even less willing to use it, but we have to use it.

Therefore, we can only seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and use parent groups correctly and rationally, so that children can ultimately benefit, grow, learn and progress healthily!

I am Luanluan, a kindergarten teacher dedicated to helping more mothers!