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Reflections on the TV series Dare to Love.

Recently, I just watched a TV series "Dare to Love" and found it particularly realistic. Personally, I think this TV series is very good. What impressed me most was the dialogue between Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao at the Huangpu Bridge in the finale, and the background music of Forever Agreement, which sublimated the feelings of the whole story. Seeing this, I was particularly moved and deeply moved, and felt that I should write down my feelings.

Last night, my master Lu talked to me about the TV series Dare to Love on WeChat. She finally said she didn't understand, so I simply said a few words to her. Although she untied the knot, I still feel the need to write this, because this is the most realistic TV series I have ever seen, and it is also in the process of emotional return to reality.

In today's real society, it seems that the story that can make me imagine that I can have that kind of pure feelings will only happen in middle school, maybe even earlier. As an experienced person, don't laugh at me, because I really see through a lot, so after watching the TV series Dare to Love, there are not so many complaints and sighs. Although the two protagonists are not together, just like the song "Promise Forever", they have agreed in their hearts for a lifetime. The word "lifetime" is easy to write, but it can be a fact between two people, and it is the kind of fact that they have love. How hard it is. How many lovers will still be separated after marriage? I think the word "lifetime" must not be easily spoken, because then you must be responsible for your life, unless the other party doesn't let you.

Having said so much about reality, we might as well return to the TV series itself. Luo Yonghao represents most struggling young men with ability, personality, temper and no family foundation. My teacher said that men are weak, so I answered her. Luo Yonghao was capable at the beginning of the TV series, which doomed him to succeed in the end. When Lei Lei asked Luo Yonghao to design a case, Lei Lei won the second place, which was the best foreshadowing. Male weakness refers to Luo Yonghao's family background and his own economic base. In the later development of the plot, Lei Lei had a smooth sailing in the company, and in turn, Luo Yonghao failed to start a business. This forms a sharp contrast, showing the heroine's strength in her career, but her love for Luo Yonghao is so persistent. Despite her mother's opposition, Lei Lei was so determined. In the play, Lei Lei's mother played a key role. Why is it that every time my mother talks to Luo Yonghao or makes a phone call, no matter what way, it will be realized in the relationship between Luo and Lei? Because Luo Yonghao's heart is kind, she is also kind to love, that is, she can't give Lei Lei such a good life now, but she still hopes that Lei Lei will have a good life. On the one hand, it is the love of these eight years. This love lock has firmly locked the hearts of two people, and it is no longer a fact that can be separated. But on the one hand, Luo is a man. He has to face the fact that when Luo Yonghao and her classmates were having a drink on the rooftop, they wanted to protect her for life when they were at school, not because the ball hit, but at that most beautiful time, two people started their love, which is what I said above. It seems that such a love story can only happen in middle school.

I remember I fell in love in middle school. Maybe it wasn't love, but at that time I really lived in a fairy tale, fantasizing that I was Prince Charming, surrounded by a beautiful princess. Now that I think about it, it's really good to remember it. At that time, I also wanted an agreed forever, but my memory seems to be fixed in that middle school forever, the simple era of blue school uniforms and white cloth shoes, just like the song "Agreed Forever". I still remember the scene of sending her a classmate record that summer, which was particularly relieved. After that, I played the guitar again. The short experience can't explain anything, only that my Lei Lei must be on my future path.

Then let's talk about Lei Lei. In this TV series, I believe that not only I, but many boys will like a girl like Lei Lei, not her beauty, not her ability, but her persistent love for Luo Yonghao. It is said that it is difficult to stick to a love, but if you get happiness, the ending is beautiful, but in Dare to Love, Lei Lei is really too difficult. For the sake of love, family support, career separation, and at the same time taking care of work and long-distance love, every time I heard what Lei Lei's mother said in Luo Yonghao, I backed out. Lei Lei was particularly sad and tired. That's it. This reminds me of what my buddy said when he talked to me about this TV series. From the perspective of Lei Lei's mother, who wouldn't want her daughter to find better conditions? I think it's especially right. No parents are bad to their children. But when my mother called me at night, she said she couldn't push her daughter like that. After eight years of love, she agreed. I always thought my mother was a very rational person, but this time I also think what my mother said is right. Everything is for the good of the children.

We must return to reality for a while. There is nothing wrong with Lei Lei's mother. She is very kind to her children. Lei Lei is not wrong. She persisted in her relationship for eight years and firmly believed that being with the person she loved was happiness. Luo Yonghao is not wrong. He loves Lei Lei, but he can't face Lei Lei's mother. The contrast between his own business failure and Lei Lei's career success made the man lose confidence. Really, I have a deep understanding of this. Maybe someone will see this and say, Luo Yonghao? Why would I give up Lei Lei because of a Wang Qiwen? This is also my master's biggest knot. I just explained it briefly yesterday, and I want to write out my understanding here.

First of all, I think it's better to say that two people are strong women and weak men. I remember that when dealing with some things in Luo Yonghao's family, Lei Lei stepped forward, which highlighted Luo Yonghao's immaturity in these things and also highlighted the theme of loving. Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao have been in love for eight years, but they still dare to love in the face of so many opposing voices, which shows that young people should bravely pursue their love, which is a positive value. If you go back to real life, you can have feelings for eight years, and you can still love each other desperately in the face of so many objections. It must be true love, the kind of love that gives your heart to the other person for a lifetime. Let's predict that Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao will be together in reality. According to the development of reality, their lives will be very good, because both of them are not selfish, but think of each other.

When the teacher said that I was rational and emotional in reality, I admitted that I had always been a particularly emotional person. When I faced a relationship, I really gave my heart. I feel great. Just like what Teacher Liu said about me, I was particularly moved and benefited a lot. I know that all experiences are roads, leaving only footprints. Maybe I will be rational and emotional in the future. I don't know, but I am kind, but please don't take my kindness as your pretend capital.

Let's go on to say whether Luo Yonghao is wrong or not. I don't think he is wrong. Really, Lei Lei's mother stopped him again that day. He drank a lot. I'm a boy, too. I can especially understand the pressure he was under at that time, which really made a man collapse instantly. If it were me, it would be particularly uncomfortable. When Luo Yonghao met this Wang Qiwen that my master couldn't understand, he took her as his beloved Lei Lei in his mind. In fact, after I first saw Luo Yonghao help Wang Qiwen beat away her "boyfriend" in her hometown, I felt that this woman would be inextricably linked with Luo Yonghao in the future plot development. I didn't read the story introduction, but based on my own feelings, people who often read love novels and mystery novels may laugh at me and say it's nothing, so I read it. I admit, I just saw here and didn't feel anything. I just want to keep these feelings in mind.

Then the next question is coming. Wang Qiwen has a child named Luo Yonghao. In my opinion, Luo Yonghao should be responsible for Wang Qiwen at that time. As a man, a kind person, should bear. Some people say that it is wrong for Luo Yonghao to give up his eight-year love with Lei Lei. So, can he let Wang Qiwen leave alone and stay with Lei Lei? This is obviously impossible. I remember that Luo Yonghao and Zhou Xin explained it when they were eating in a restaurant at last, and when Lei Lei and Zhou Xin ate together, they also explained Lei Lei's understanding of Luo Yonghao. In Luo Yonghao's heart, that heart full of love has been completely given to Lei Lei. We can't say that he doesn't love Wang Qiwen, but that he is a kind and responsible person. My master said how they could be so hasty and tangled together. No, I didn't. I really think that people who love each other must be together, and such a love ending is perfect. But after I thoroughly watched the ending, I understood that true love is not necessarily two people together, but two people's hearts together, which is really hard to get. How many lovers can do it in reality? In a word, I don't think there is anything wrong with Luo Yonghao. Really, he is responsible for Wang Qiwen. For Lei Lei's mother, I hope she can meet a better condition than she did then. After all, I don't want Lei Lei to fall out with her mother completely. This is also a responsibility to parents. For his favorite Lei Lei, perhaps all his love has been devoted to this life.

There are many characters in the play, who are also supporting roles in the main line of their two protagonists' love stories, and also highlight the theme of daring to love with a certain emotional tone. Let's talk about Zhou Xin and Tang Guo first. These two people are the most realistic and dare to love. As bamboo shoots said, Zhou Xin looks like a flower on the surface, but inside he is a very pure person. Of course, he and Tang Guo shared the same interests, found each other's good, and then divorced immediately, and finally got together with feelings. This is the kind of two people who fall in love at first sight and dare to love and hate. The whole process makes me feel that these two people are particularly suitable for each other. And Zhou Xin's affection for bamboo shoots has long stayed at that time when they were separated, and then helping bamboo shoots is also a special friendship, and they dare to love it. In the character Qin, it shows that everyone with feelings will have their own stories and unique experiences. Maybe I have been hurt in these experiences, or maybe I have realized some truth in these experiences. Qin and both dare to love. They had some contradictions in the face of property justice, and Sun Chun came out to work. Later, when they faced difficulties together, their hands were clenched. Seeing this reminds me that in reality, such a girl is too rare, and if I were Qin in reality, I was most afraid of meeting someone like my ex-wife again. In reality, which girl doesn't want to have a stable home? Since you can give love, you must dare to love. Finally, we saw two people laughing so sweetly together. If we want to love, we must love and dare to love!

Feng Jiaren, this is a person who makes me feel most magical, first of all, his magical hearing, and secondly, his magical family background. I really think he dares to love. We all saw his kindness to Lei Lei, but he never said it. I remember what the teacher said to me yesterday. Lei Lei might as well be with Feng Jiaren. This is what I told her. Feng Jiaren's love for Lei Lei lies deep in his heart. He thinks that Lei Lei is the best girl in the world and helps Lei Lei as much as he can. Because he knew that Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao were in love, and they didn't want to destroy it themselves or let others destroy it. There are such people in real life, but there are too few. I think he is the most manly one in this TV series. If he dares to love with his heart, I believe he will be happy, too! Happiness doesn't have to be owned, and this sentence also applies to Song Xian. At first, I hated him very much. Later, when I saw him holding Lei Lei so affectionately, I felt that he was also a man, a man who dared to love. Maybe, as Lei Lei and Song Xian said, if I knew you before I met Luo Yonghao, I would fall in love with you. Song Xian, whose eyes were red, thought this sentence was enough. It is also a kind of dare to love. As we all know, such a successful person is not a lack of people around him, but a lack of someone he can really pay for and put aside others to appreciate. That man is Lei Lei. Song is a person who dares to love first, and this kind of love has another feature called not having it.

Yes, this kind of love is too difficult. In real life, there are too many misses and too many disappointments, which are beyond our control. The only explanation is time. Some people say that Luo Yonghao will forget Lei Lei, but I say never. His company name gives a great feature to the play, called Hao Lei. His feelings have locked the hearts of two people together in other ways. I was particularly touched when I saw the last episode. What two people said by the Huangpu River and the memories they remembered really made people feel that although the ending was not two people together, there was no regret, really. Promise forever. After a long time no see, I'm still blessing you. Don't be sad. This led to the beginning that both of them lost their jobs and watched the riverside scenery together, and Luo Yonghao said to Lei Lei, "Lei Lei, I just want to sing it to you alone. I want to give you a happier life with my hands. I really don't want you to be wronged outside. I just want you to live like a child in the world I created for you, where there are no bosses, no employees, only me. How touching. Time passed, and two people stood by the bridge tacitly. It was here that Lei Lei remembered the "Forever Agreement" sung by Luo Songyong Hao. I think this is enough, it is another kind of perfection.

The TV series is over, but my heart can't be calm for a long time. I don't know what I missed. Anyway, I'm lamenting that my experience seems to be like a character in a TV series. It's over, but it's still beautiful. I shouldn't complain, because the agreement is forever, and the future is long time no see, not just the lyrics. It will really happen in your real life. We can't resist We can't escape it. Everything needs to be faced bravely. Brave love. That morning, the sun shone on my window. I seem to have seen the green shoots on my future road. I want to speed up the pace, dare to love and cherish.

Text/July