Girls take the initiative to chat with you at night, but they can't reply to your message in time. What kind of mentality is this?

If there is such a situation: girls take the initiative to chat with you at night, but they can't reply to your message in time. Cheng Xiao really wants to say hehe here. Because of this situation, Cheng Xiao himself has met such a girl before. I still feel a little uncomfortable when I think about it.

According to my previous experience and later experience, tell me that such a girl takes the initiative to chat with you at night, but she can't reply to your message in time. There are the following situation analysis:

1. She's just bored, killing time and just treating you as a chat object. Before, a girl sent me messages on WeChat from time to time at night, such as: Are you there? What are you doing, ..............................................................................................................................................? Then, she gave me a simple reply at noon the next day. I forgot, and I don't want to remember. In short, this is a very short answer. At first, I thought she might be sleepy at night and go to bed early, which was nothing. It should be better to find a better time and chat with her earlier in the future. But once and twice, again and again, it's the same. Then, I think people like her should have nothing to do at night. I visited the space, burst into a circle of friends, and burst into Weibo. I was tired of reading romantic novels and soap operas full of nonsense, so I wanted to find someone to chat with. If they are interested, they will talk. If they are not interested, they will be too lazy to talk to you. Then, gradually, I was too lazy to talk to her. I'm not as boring as she is.

She just regards you as her spare tire, just a spare tire, and there is no possibility of development. Slowly, I found that the information she sent me actually included: Dear friends of XX, you XX ... Wow! It turns out that she is just boring to pass the time, not interested in me, just lonely and bored all night, sending messages to her micro-friends, and then seeing if there are any interesting or interesting people to reply. If there are, she will reply seriously. If you don't reply, you will forget about it and even bother to reply to you. It's really a waste of expression and time and energy. Then, I don't want to be disturbed like this. Once, I asked her directly: What do you want? Is it interesting for me to always send messages and chat with me? Then, her reply was: no! Uh-huh, it doesn't matter. Let's get these things straight. I didn't think there was such a pure friendship between the opposite sex. In addition, you sent messages again and again, but you didn't reply in time. Why did you do that? ! Aren't you testing people's reactions? See how people answer, but they don't really like you. If you really like someone, you won't often fail to reply to messages in time. She really only regards you as a possible spare tire, remember: it is really just a spare tire, and there is no chance to become a regular spare tire, which is dispensable. What a waste of expression and youth!

Therefore, my suggestion is: If a girl often chats with you at night, but she often doesn't reply to your message in time, then you can ignore her directly! Life is short, we should do meaningful and loving things in precious time! Isn't it? Uh-huh ~