Young people in their forties said no, they left. It's so sudden. How did they die so quickly?

My cousin died at the age of 40, leaving a 70-year-old aunt with abnormal brain, 10' s eldest daughter, 6-year-old second daughter and 3-year-old son.

My cousin has been away from us for five years, and my aunt is now living in a nursing home. Besides my cousin, my aunt has a son and a daughter, but my cousin is the most filial son.

Cousin ranked second, and uncle died young. That year, my aunt was knocked down by a car sweeping the floor and the other party called the police. The other party said that my aunt swept the floor onto the road. He didn't see the collision and there was no monitoring at the incident.

The responsibility lies with the driver, but he has no money. My aunt has been admitted to the intensive care unit, which costs tens of thousands a day. But the driver said he had no money, so he couldn't find the traffic police team to solve the problem every day.

Anyway, the other party just said that if you have no money, you can go to jail.

The first cousin went home because he was doing business in other places, and the second cousin rushed around the hospital every day to find a relationship to solve the traffic accident and get as much money as possible.

My aunt stayed for about two months and then went home. After her normal aunt was hit by a car, there was something wrong with her nerves, that is, she talked to herself alone, and then she accidentally didn't know where to go. My second cousin sewed the telephone number on my aunt's clothes, and people with good intentions often called us to pick up my aunt.

My cousin sells breakfast rice cakes. We get up at three or four every morning to make rice cakes and stir-fry dishes. I have to take care of my aunt. The traffic accident has not been solved, and it has been dragging his heart and worrying.

My cousin called us that day and said that the other party agreed to pay the arrears of money and medical expenses through the traffic police team.

Cousin is very happy that things have changed for the better, and she is very tired after more than half a year. My aunt is 70 years old, and my cousin's own conditions are not bad. She didn't make any unreasonable demands on the other side, but my cousin only asked for an early settlement. He ran back and forth to the traffic police team several times, and now he is really happy to solve it.

We are also happy for him. He invited us to dinner that night and was very happy. He also deliberately took a bottle of wine that was not easy to store and had a good drink.

At 4 o'clock in the morning, my husband and I received a phone call from my cousin, saying that her cousin had an accident, so let's hurry to help.

Cousin has been sent to the hospital.

My cousin has weak legs and can't stand up. She told us that my cousin got up at 3: 30 to prepare cooking, and then told her that she had a headache. At that time, my wife got up in the toilet, and then she heard a sound. My cousin fell to the ground.

Call 9 1 1 and then call us.

When we went to the hospital, we stayed outside the emergency room for eight hours. The doctor pronounced him dead, but the rescue was unsuccessful.

My eldest cousin came back from Beijing and my cousin came back from Xi 'an, but I didn't expect my aunt to die, but my cousin died. There is a superstition in our village that the old die, the young don't necessarily die, but they are doomed to die alone.

My silly aunt, as she probably knows, has been wandering the road looking for her children. After the funeral, my eldest cousin and cousin went back to other places, and my aunt was sent to a nursing home because no one took care of her.

My wife is alone with three children. Originally two daughters, they gave birth to a son and were fined 80 thousand. My wife has been crying, and all her relatives are crying, crying. It's hard for us to comfort. It has been five years now, and my wife has not remarried. With three children, she can't remarry. She is still doing breakfast business and calling her parents to help. Everyone says my wife is poor, but I can't help it. This is destiny.

None of us can predict such a thing. Who knows which comes first, the accident or tomorrow? Sometimes this is life, it is life. What no one can resist is fate.

A dead end, people of all ages.

I don't know which will arrive first, tomorrow or the accident. The neighbor's little girl, twelve years old, just started the first grade. She is smart and has two braids. She skips to and from school every day. The girls did well in their studies, with a score of 100 in Chinese and Mathematics. When she was in primary school, she often got full marks. Grandma told everyone that her granddaughter is very smart and will definitely be admitted to a good university in the future.

Accidents will happen.

The girl lives on the second floor. Every time she moves her bike, her father moves it down from the second floor. This morning, her parents left early because of something, and forgot the car. It's time for school, and the girl labored to move the car down by herself. In the middle moment, the girl was light and heavy, and her feet were empty. Even people rolled down the stairs with the elevator, and the car smashed the girl's temple. It wasn't long before she breathed. When someone found out, the girls were cold.

Dad stamped his feet and beat his chest, regretting it. He knew that he had to move the car first, and it was because of his carelessness that the child was killed.

Grandma fainted on the spot. When she woke up, she stroked her granddaughter's white face and shouted her granddaughter's name over and over again. The child died a terrible death. Why is God so blind? My granddaughter said no when she was a child.

The neighbors were moved to tears when they saw this bleak scene. A good seedling, a small flower, withered instantly.

Life is impermanent!

And one of my classmates, from junior high school to high school, we are all in the same class.

Just because he spent most of his time at work and career, his marriage was in crisis, and he separated first and then divorced. I have lived alone for more than ten years. Because nobody cares, it is easy to drink too much. Sometimes a plate of peanuts is a meal, and an egg is also an appetizer. I met him once six months ago. Seeing his pale face and sunken eyes, I sent him to the hospital for examination. He said he would have an interview in Beijing and go to the hospital when he came back.

But he was hospitalized soon after he came back. He is in a deep hepatic coma. I woke up once in the middle, drank some porridge, and my mind was still clear and I could speak. I think I can still be fine. When several of our classmates went to see him, he smiled and said that he was invited to drink with him when he was discharged from the hospital, and then he fell into a coma.

His younger brother worked in the provincial newspaper and invited experts from the provincial capital for consultation, but there was nothing he could do. Because of long-term drinking and improper diet, liver failure and necrosis are caused.

Soon, the news of his death came at the age of 52.

He has only one daughter, who has just found a job in Hangzhou after graduating with a master's degree and is not married yet.

Several of our classmates sent him on the last journey. When we saw his daughter crying and holding her father's portrait to the cemetery, we all felt freezing cold.

With a big career, more wealth, no people, everything is zero.

Cherish the present and take care of your body. This is the most precious thing. Overdraft your life and waste your strength and energy silently. I don't know which day you will sleep forever.

A good friend of mine is fifty years old. When there was an COVID-19 epidemic in Shijiazhuang in the twelfth lunar month last year, we were sealed in the yard of No.68 Sizhong Road. He is in the front yard and I am in the backyard. Because we couldn't leave the hospital, he asked the takeaway to deliver the food and food to the gate of the hospital. What impressed me most was that my friend bought several boxes of instant noodles at a time, as well as frozen small fish and salted duck eggs. I asked him, "You bought so much food and drink at once, are you still going to fight a protracted war?" ? Aren't you going back to your hometown in Jiangsu for the Spring Festival? He smiled and said, "I have this plan, but I can't go out anyway." This is a good time to sit, eat and sleep. " "Listen, I smiled.

Later, on the 26th of the twelfth lunar month, Shijiazhuang was unsealed, and we returned to Rugao, Jiangsu with our fellow villagers.

One day in March this year, when I was going back to Shijiazhuang, I asked my friend when to leave. He told me that his son is old and wants to decorate his home, so let me go first. So my wife and I drove to Shijiazhuang first.

I have just arrived in Shijiazhuang for two days. A friend in my hometown asked me if there was Zhu XX in Shijiazhuang. I said, "Yes." My friend then told me, "Zhu XX is gone." I can't believe it: "Impossible? Last night, our brothers were still playing landlords on their mobile phones. " So, I quickly called another friend and asked him to go to Zhu XX's house. As a result, Zhu XX really disappeared and died in a car accident.

Life is really impermanent. Sometimes lying in bed, I always think of my friends who get along with me day and night. Later, Rong Er came over and called me, "Brother, don't be too tired. When our two children are older and get married in a few years, we will go back to our hometown and then sit together and make a pot of tea. It's so beautiful ... "The voice is real. After a while, Hadron came: "Brother, I am free tomorrow. If you are free, let's go fishing in the river near Shijiazhuang ... "This is still an intimate tone. However, they left me forever. Just like yesterday.

As an old saying goes, I don't know if I can put on my shoes tonight. So, live in the present, cherish every day and take care of yourself.

Actually, it's not surprising. There is an old saying that you die when you live to be a hundred years old. It means that people die from birth to a hundred years old. I don't know that day! Facts have proved the truth of this sentence! So are animals!

Several young people in their forties died suddenly! This is related to heredity, and it is also caused by overwork, stress, safety accidents, or serious diseases!

Many people died suddenly and unexpectedly. My sister-in-law's brother only heard that he was unwell. He went to the hospital for an appointment. Before he had time to check, people said he had left. He is under 30 years old. He has been in his room. A few days later, colleagues found that he didn't go to work before looking for his residence. People have been gone for a few days. Alas, human life is really fragile. Cherish life and live a good life now.

My second brother just left suddenly, when he was only 4 1 year old. In fact, everyone has signs in advance. I didn't notice. Now people are under great pressure and feel unwell, so they need to be examined. Don't procrastinate, don't think you are young. Raising a disease is like raising a tiger. Stop properly and have a rest.

This female colleague belongs to her own building. At first, I didn't understand why she did it. But it wasn't until one day I saw a friend's message that I understood something:

Maybe what we see is not the truth. It's just a subconscious choice when she's sick. I'd rather believe that.

The departure of this colleague brought us a great shock. For a long time, we have been discussing a question: "Don't work too hard, life is your own. If you are si, your work will soon be topped." This world is not for you! "

Life is impermanent, so cherish it.

A colleague successfully enlisted in the army. The goods happened when the father and son rode their motorcycles home to get the materials. Both father and son were crushed to death under the wheels of a big truck. It is said that the bodies of father and son are scattered all over the place and pieced together.

Being able to join the army was originally a happy event, but it turned into a funeral. Surprise or accident, no one knows which will come first.

I accidentally heard the news that this female colleague's husband died. Because her husband died suddenly in the summer vacation and was in a foreign land, we were all at a loss when the news came.

Fortunately, they have been separated for a long time. Therefore, the death of her husband is more like a trip of no return. Daughter is married, paid and financially independent. So, we didn't see her apparent sadness and despair.

A few years later, she remarried. It's remarriage, not dating. This is also very good, life is short, and you can spend your old age with someone.

It is a very unfortunate thing that people suddenly lose their spouses in middle age. If you can start another relationship, you should be blessed, not morally kidnapped.

A few years later, he got married. Married a divorced woman. Besides, the two of them had a wedding, and we all went.

After the wedding reception, an elderly colleague told us: "This kind of wedding reception, both parties are married for the second time, will do. It's unfortunate that people don't have to leave. "

In fact, people still have to live for themselves, and other people's opinions are still not that important. People always have to look forward. There is nothing wrong with starting a new life. How to drive is also your choice. It is your own business to make public or keep a low profile.

We can often see the mother and daughter walking hand in hand in the afterglow of the evening sunset. That picture is particularly warm.

Mother and daughter are so close that they share a bed and an apple. But mom still lost to her daughter's decision! A turning point is the eternal separation between man and nature.

After her daughter left, she went to Lacrimosa every day and stayed in bed for more than half a year. The wounds on the body will heal slowly, but the wounds on the heart will never heal.

Going to si is always free. But the living should truly repeat the pain every day!

We heard a strange thing here at the beginning of the year. Before the end of the year, a group of people, relatives and friends had dinner in the hotel. During the dinner, a man suddenly fell ill and died on the spot.

From then on, his wife had to bear the responsibility of raising three children alone. My father-in-law is paralyzed in bed, and my mother-in-law can only take care of the patients. The depravity of men has bent the back of women!

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A young man in his 40 s said that if not, he would be gone. It's so sudden. How did he die so quickly? @ Jingjing Jingjing Jingjing Jingjing

In fact, if you count carefully, there are really many such things around you. People's living standards have improved, but many people's physical and mental health problems have become more and more serious. It's just that we don't feel so deeply about what hasn't happened around us.

Life is sometimes fragile and sometimes tenacious. Some people are desperate to live! Some people, so easily chose Guangsheng.

Life is impermanent, so everyone should work hard. Cherish the present and leave no regrets.

One of my classmates has a good family and is the baby of the family. At the age of twenty, he was struck by lightning at dawn. I didn't get up that day and was awakened by thunder. Later, it was said that my classmate was woken up by the neighbors at dawn to pick up the screws, and it rained just after leaving the village. A group of them went into the rice mill to take shelter from the rain. Suddenly, a light flashed into the house and hit three people. They died on the spot, and one of them was my classmate. I didn't dare to look, and I was heartbroken and scared. Neighbor said my classmate was taken away by Guanyin Bodhisattva. She is very kind and has a good family. She usually doesn't get up early or do farm work. That day was a ghost. Her death opened my eyes. My family is poor and does odd jobs. She is a treasure at home and I am a grass at home. Then if you live in happiness, you will die. As a poor man, what can I not let go of? I earn money every day of my life. I'll fight whoever tries to bully me, and I'll fight whoever is in trouble. Before I die, difficulties are nothing. I fight with heaven, and God will take care of me. I fight against life, and my fate will be rewritten by me. I fight with people, and the devil will bypass me. What is longevity? Lao Tzu said that people who die but don't die live long. Therefore, we should cherish every day we live, cherish the people around us, do good things without doing bad things, don't be cursed to death when we are alive, and strive to achieve the life of those who die but don't die.

1. A classmate died of bloody stool in a village in his early 30s.

My primary school classmate, who has worked in Guangzhou for many years, said nothing about his illness on weekdays. I don't know what's wrong with me I went back to my hometown and even rested for less than half a year before I died. It is said that bloody stool is terrible! Leaving a wife and two daughters.

2. Go out for money and go to Beijing. The sad father took back his soul.

He is also about 30 years old, and the child is only 2 or 3 years old. He died suddenly on the construction site. It is said that it happened during the night break. Anyway, there is no "work injury", just a symbolic subsidy (very little). He is the only child in the family, and his mother died long ago, leaving only his father, wife and children at home. Later, I recruited a door-to-door husband.

3. Without waiting for death, "walking by yourself" is powerless to "recognize planting"

He was in the late stage of gastric cancer and hanged himself without any treatment! Less than 40 years old, leaving a wife and a daughter. His wife was unmarried and adopted a son.

I have been away for many years, and these "stories around me" are all learned from my mother by phone.

In fact, the three stories have many similarities. Take a little, refine it, and it is "yes".

1. Are they all caused by part-time jobs?

In fact, even if they don't work, some people ignore or even squander their health (such as smoking, drinking, overworking, etc. ), it is accidental that you don't have an accident, and it is inevitable that you have an accident.

2. Health management

For example, I once worked in a coal mine. When I saw the information about lung cancer, I immediately went to the hospital for a CT scan. Although I only recently changed back to the rough diagnosis of 700 yuan "no obvious swelling was found", I don't think this money was wasted.

This is rare among ordinary workers.

We have a saying here that green leaves don't necessarily fall first, or yellow leaves fall first. The old saying means that there is no need for young people or old people to go first!

In 20 13, I delivered goods by car in an auto parts store, and a new auto parts store opened next door. I am an 88-year-old boy. I have two children at home, the older is more than two years old and the younger is a few months. Because it is a new shop, he needs to do a lot of things by himself. On one occasion, he drove himself to the county town below to expand his business. When he came back, he had a serious car accident and everyone was dying on the spot. We couldn't believe it after what happened! I went to the store to adjust the goods in the morning, and there was no one in the afternoon! Very unexpected!

I can't help it This is a fact. Life is in the breath! However, most of us are unwilling to face this reality, but choose to escape, not admit, and turn a blind eye. When I say this question, some people may say that you are too pessimistic and negative! But is this negative pessimism? This is the most real life!

Seeing a lot of people, spending money on loans, mortgage to buy a house, to be honest, I feel that these people really have brain problems! Because there are too many uncertainties in the future, you don't even know what will happen tomorrow. How can you predict what will happen in a few years or decades? And in order to satisfy their own desires, they dare to tie up their future firmly, which is regrettable, sad and pitiful! ! !

Life is fragile, things change! This is real life. Although we don't want to admit it, it is a fact.