What psychology is it to like a person but can't help but take the initiative to contact? Should it be changed?

People who really love you can't wait to see you and hear your voice every minute. Unless there are other circumstances, there is no way to meet. Even if you don't say anything for ten and a half months, ta won't be surprised. The information of people who love you is seconds, so you can put yourself in others' shoes. If you like someone very much, will you not talk to her for a long time? Even if you are busy, you will take time out of your busy schedule. Even if it's just talk, you'll like it. A person can't be really busy for many days without looking at his mobile phone. It's all excuses, unreliable excuses.

The main reason why you can't resist not contacting a person is "he doesn't love you". Because he doesn't love you, you dare not disturb his life at will. Because he doesn't love you, you are not qualified to send a text message to tell you that you miss him. Because he doesn't love you, even if you send it, you won't get a response. So why bother about someone who doesn't love you? The world is not just about love and not love. The reason I miss you is that you are too free. Don't be stubborn, enrich yourself, cultivate a hobby of your own, make new friends, travel part-time, and do something that will keep you busy. You will find that the world is so big, he and you are too small, and missing is not worth mentioning.

Be yourself. Don't put all your thoughts on one person, there are many things you can do. You can live a full life and make yourself better and more confident. When you are really busy, you don't want to contact anyone so much. When reason overcomes your heart, that's when you can face it calmly. Anyway, don't torture yourself with decadence, don't paralyze yourself with alcohol, and don't fight unnecessarily. You should always remind yourself that when he is gone, so is his love. Sometimes we lose ourselves for one person. I gave you tenderness that I never had before, but I was disappointed in the end. True love can't be guaranteed until the end, let alone the love that is hesitant and tangled from the beginning? ! There is nothing to lose.