How to refuse and seek reconciliation before, and how to answer?

Many people who love each other will break up because of some minor contradictions when they are together, but they are reluctant to part after they really break up. Generally speaking, many people may be soft-hearted in the face of their former friends. What is the correct answer at this time?

How to refuse to get back together with your ex?

1. Tell your ex that you don't love each other anymore.

What should I do if my ex wants to get back together? The present one asks you to get back together, and you think it is impossible for you to get back together, then you can tell your predecessor directly and firmly that you don't love each other anymore. However, not everyone is so direct and firm in the face of feelings.

But since you don't want to get back together with your ex, your only way is to refuse decisively. If you don't want to hurt the goodwill of the other person and embarrass him, you can just tell him that you don't love him, and hope that he will respect himself and stop harassing you. Feelings are like this, there is no way to force them, but let nature take its course.

2. Tell your ex that you don't deserve each other.

Your current employer wants to get back together with you, but your heart resists. You might as well tell the other person gently that you don't deserve him. Whether you really don't deserve each other or not, at least you really want to stay away from your ex at the moment. When you don't want to get back together with your ex, then you can choose to keep an appropriate distance from your ex. No matter how intimate the feelings are, they also need to maintain a proper sense of mystery and freshness.

Tell your ex that you already have a lover.

How does the ex want to get back together? If you are harassed by your ex and feel bored, then you can choose to tell your ex directly that you have a fixed lover and partner, and hope that the other party will respect yourself and stop ruining your existing feelings.

How to answer your predecessor's request for reconciliation?

It depends on how you broke up with your ex.

If it is a quarrel with the ex, the two are noisy and on and off. I will reply: Do you want to get back together with the nth chance? If so, then you still have m-n chances to get back together. It is common for every couple to simply break up. At this time, one party needs to be reasonable and reply in a humorous way, so that both parties are fine.

If my ex cheated and broke up, I would reply: Hehe. Betrayal is an intolerable mistake under any circumstances. If you break up with your ex because of betrayal, what is there to talk about? Since he (she) will cheat once, he (she) will cheat for the second time and the third time, endlessly. Don't believe such words as "I'm innocent", "I was forced" and "This is a misunderstanding".

If we break up because we have no feelings, I will reply: since we can't find the feeling of first love together, let's stay together and leave it alone. The most important thing for two people to be together is to have feelings. If you don't have feelings, then no matter how hard you try, there will be no good result. Think back to why you are together at this time, and maybe you will find that everything is so vague because you have no feelings. Those colorful memories have faded into black and white, and entanglement may only be more painful.

Should the ex directly refuse to get back together?

Yes, I suggest not to politely refuse, otherwise it will be easily misunderstood by my ex-girlfriend as that you are willing to get back together. Since you don't want to be with your ex, you should simply refuse and give her no hope.

Sometimes, euphemism hurts more than simplicity. Since we broke up, there must be a reason. Whether you are not in love or feel tired, you can tell her what you really think directly. It can be said that your problems still exist, even if you get back together, you will still quarrel and break up, and you don't want this.

What can I say if I want to get back together after breaking up?

1, we have been together for so long, and I really cherish everything I have experienced with you. Can we not be apart and let me always watch over you?

Before deciding to break up, I want to go to all the places with good memories with you for the last time. If you finally choose to leave, I will let go of your hand.

If you are happier without me, then I am willing to let you find your own happiness. But I will always wait for you in silence. I hope you don't forget the way back when you look back, okay?

This is the first day when we broke up, and I can't help thinking about you. Remember to eat when you work overtime, and don't use cold water in the shower at night. When I can't sleep, I can read by the bed and fall asleep soon ... Although we have broken up, I still can't help but care about you silently. I hope you can be happy forever.

I've been thinking about it these days, and suddenly I find myself doing a lot of wrong things. I shouldn't bully you with your love, and I shouldn't be willful just because I am a girl. I want to say sorry to you because I hurt you in the past. I hope you can forgive me and find your own happiness.