My husband has a bad temper and is a little extreme. Every day when he comes home from work, he will find a reason to lose his temper, quarrel and scold my nerves. All three children are still very yo

My husband has a bad temper and is a little extreme. Every day when he comes home from work, he will find a reason to lose his temper, quarrel and scold my nerves. All three children are still very young. What should I do? Faced with this situation, the following measures can be taken:

1. Seek professional help: I suggest you seek professional help from a marriage counselor or a psychotherapist. They can provide specific advice and support to help you and your husband better communicate and understand each other, and handle and improve family relations.

2. Communicate with your husband: While seeking professional help, you can try to communicate with your husband deeply, let him know your feelings and troubles, and try to understand why he behaves like this. Try to communicate rationally and calmly and avoid emotional quarrels.

3. Find ways to regulate emotions: Encourage husbands to find ways to regulate emotions, such as exercise, relaxation techniques and meditation. At the same time, you can also take these measures to help yourself maintain emotional stability and reduce stress.

4. Ensure the safety of yourself and your children: If your husband's violent behavior poses a threat to your children or your personal safety, you need to give priority to protecting yourself and your children. In case of emergency, you can seek help from the domestic violence assistance center or law enforcement agencies.

5. Learn to love and tolerate: Husband and wife need mutual care and support. Although your husband may show bad behavior, you can help him by expressing your love and concern. At the same time, you also need to learn to protect yourself, and don't over-assume and ignore your own needs and feelings.

Remember, it takes time and effort, patience and persistent efforts to improve family relations. Seeking professional help and support and actively communicating with her husband are the key to solving the problem.