In a long-distance relationship, does the person who cannot reply to messages in time love you?

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The biggest problem in long-distance relationships is distance. The distance in space slowly widens the distance between the heart and the soul, unable to get closer to each other, and finally part ways.

There are some signs before breaking up. The most obvious one is probably that you can't find him/her at any time at first, and he/she no longer replies to your messages immediately.

Later, he says he loves you, but you don’t believe him; later, he says he doesn’t love you, but you still don’t believe him.

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In fact, being able to accept a long-distance relationship requires a lot of courage, because love is what we want to be together.

So couples who are in a long-distance relationship must love each other very much, so they choose not to be together for the time being, but to love each other in the same place.

There is a saying that goes well: I don’t like long-distance relationships, but I like you.

So couples who choose long-distance relationships are deeply in love, but later their love loses to reality or details.

The biggest enemy in a long-distance relationship is not distance or love rival, but "I can't find him/her."

Because of the distance, the maintenance of long-distance relationships mainly relies on communication tools. Only by being able to find the other party at any time can you feel a real sense of security. Otherwise, you may feel uneasy throughout the day.

So many quarrels and breakups between couples who live in different places start from "he did not reply to my message in time".

Because someone has said: Now is the era where everyone has their mobile phones in their hands. There is no such thing as missing a message. Those who want to reply have already replied, and those who don’t want to reply will not reply no matter how long they wait. .

It is true that people who love you will not make you uneasy; but that does not mean that you do not love them if you do not reply to messages in time.

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There is only love and coughing that cannot be concealed in the world.

So one manifestation of love is tension. There may be many reasons why your lover does not reply to messages in time, but his nervousness towards you does not lie.

People who love you will not lie to you, nor will they prevaricate you; if you do not reply in time, there will definitely be an explanation and tell you what you were busy with just now, instead of simply pushing the word "busy" to you.

The instinctive emotion of love is called sharing, hoping to let the other person understand yourself, your life and other related emotions, so as to create a sense of intimacy and common topics.

A person who loves you will definitely want you to participate in his or her life. Only someone who doesn’t love you will reject you thousands of miles away.

The person who loves you must know that you will be worried if he does not reply in time; he does not want you to be anxious, so he explains to you carefully.

And the person who only knows one or two words and has no further words is really not worth waiting for.

Because you can imagine how you would reply to your distant lover when you are too busy to talk to him in detail.

If it’s love, you will definitely take the time to tell him what you are busy with, when you will finish working, when you will reply to him, when you can call him to talk in detail, and even add a love message to him. , I miss your expression.

These are all expressions of love. If the other party does not reply to you in this way, even one of them will not be accounted for, and the conclusion will be self-evident.

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It is said that in love, you cannot wake up the person who is pretending to sleep.

But everyone has their own things to be busy with every day, and not every message can be replied to in seconds.

If you spend 12 hours a day chatting and acting coquettishly, it will really affect your normal life and make people tired.

But if you have something to do and the other party doesn’t reply in time, I think it means that you really don’t love me anymore.

It is said that there is a principle in girls' emotions called the "parachute principle", that is, before the plane crashes, parachuting with a parachute is the last way to escape.

When a girl is depressed or encounters difficulties, a boy should be a first-aid parachute, and he must be right there; if he is not there at that time, he will not need to be there in the future, because the plane has crashed.

It’s understandable if you don’t reply with a boring expression. If you know that you are in a bad mood or encounter difficulties, but you still don’t respond, or it takes a few days to think of asking, then you really don’t want such a person. .

People who truly love you will want to give you the best protection; some people may not like to chat all the time, but they will never turn a blind eye to your sadness and pain.

This is a responsibility, but also an instinct. If you love someone, if you know that they are sad or encounter difficulties, you will definitely feel anxious, nervous, and worried. No matter how busy you are, you will definitely help them, coax them, and find solutions for them as soon as you are done. .

Isn’t it obvious enough that those people who clearly know everything, but pretend not to notice, feel free to scroll through Moments, and post comments about how much they don’t care about you?

So it is not accurate to judge whether your lover far away loves you only by whether you reply to messages in time; but the attitude between the lines will not lie.

Summary: The person being loved must feel it, because there are many ways to express love, and there is always one that you can feel.