What do you say if the innocent people don’t show up and follow the elements?

If you meet a relative or friend who cannot be there to attend some errands, you can still get the gift money from them. Li Jing can transfer money through WeChat or send it through friends.

But you must call or send WeChat. It can be said that you said that due to work reasons, you cannot be there in person to see the elderly person off. I can't accompany you in person, but I must accept my thoughts.

Under normal circumstances, if the gift is white and the person is not there, the other person will rarely accept the gift. This is not like happy events, happy events are allowed, and we here pay attention to simple things and cannot make up for it later.

Because white usually happens suddenly and requires a lot of help, such as carrying coffins and burying people. If something happens and you can't come, you won't be able to help. , so generally the host will not force anything. If the person is not there, even if it is a gift, few people will accept it.