Judging the hopeless performance after blind date, Zhihu

Nowadays, more and more single men and women choose to bid farewell to singles and go to marriage through blind date; Blind date is no longer a backward way of love, but the best choice for modern people to end their singles efficiently and quickly. If there is no chance after the blind date, there will be the following performance:

First, don't give each other contact information such as phone or WeChat after blind date. For example, if a blind date wants to play WeChat, they don't want to give it to each other. The excuse is that I just changed my mobile phone without a number, or I didn't install WeChat. Actually, I don't want to give contact information, and I don't want to waste any more time.

Second, send a message and respond coldly, or simply don't return. Contact each other after the blind date, and the response is very cold. Send a few messages to each other. The other person's answers are simple words such as "grace", "oh" and "yes", and there is no reply; If you don't reply more than three times, it's probably hopeless.

Third, never contact you actively. Every time you take the initiative to talk to the other person, the other person never takes the initiative to talk to you, but you always find a topic. The other person never asks you questions, and shows indifference to what you say, which often gives you a feeling that there is no topic to talk about.

Fourth, your circle of friends never gives you praise or comments. You have sent many carefully selected friends with pictures. The other party seems to have never seen it, and never praised it or commented on it, giving you a look that you and the other party have no intersection and are not interested.

Fifth, don't answer the phone, or answer the phone in a cold tone. Don't answer the phone, or rarely answer it, and the tone is cold when answering the phone.

Sixth, you can't make an appointment Ask someone out for dinner or a movie. The other person always says he is busy or busy. Anyway, he can't ask out.