A single mother wrote a letter to her daughter.

This is a letter from a single mother to her daughter. There are regrets and regrets in the letter, but more is a deep and inseparable maternal love! Below I have compiled a letter from a single mother to her daughter for your reference.

A single mother wrote a letter to her daughter.

Sandy, my son:

This is the second time that my mother 12 has written to you. My mother first wrote to you when my son was in the second grade of primary school. I hope my son can read this letter carefully. Every word here is what mom has wanted to say to you for a long time. I think, from now on, mom should treat you not only as a daughter, but also as a friend. I need you as the most important friend in my mother's life.

My son came back from Panyu Xiangjiang Wildlife Park yesterday, and my mother's mood has been very heavy. She sent you away and went back to the company alone. My mother copied the photos taken in Xiangjiang Wildlife Park to the computer, and then she reopened them one by one. Watching, mom cried. Because, I saw the tears in my son's eyes, the face full of childishness, the sunshine that other children should have at this age, the innocent and heartless happiness, my child's eyes with a faint melancholy, even a reluctant smile, I can see the unhappiness in my son's heart, and my mother looks in her eyes and hurts in her heart. Suddenly, I began to suspect that he might be a mother. This decision is wrong and selfish. It means that in the sky where my children grew up, the love sky that should have been supported by mom and dad collapsed by half. The lack of love in half the sky is a lifelong regret for my son. Even if his father is dead, others can believe that if his father is alive, he will love himself very much. My son's father is alive, but he has never given my son fatherly love. No one can fill this gap. Mom, I'm sorry for choosing the wrong life partner, which has caused so much harm to your life.

My son, before that, my mother always felt that for more than ten years, my mother was alone in the battlefield of fate. Today, my mother realized for the first time that she was never alone. My son, you have been sharing this bitter fate with my mother. My relatives, because of you, strongly supported my mother to this day, and my mother should be proud of you.

However, in spite of this, my mother still has some legitimate demands on you, which I must put forward in my later life. Although my mother loves you very much, I am a little disappointed in some aspects of your performance. I hope my son will correct these shortcomings, make continuous progress and develop his own advantages. My son will still be my mother's best child and the last pride.

When I entered the zoo yesterday, do you know why my mother was suddenly so angry? My mother asked you to help me with mineral water, because my mother has to check the ticket and hold an umbrella in one hand, so you don't want to help her. At that time, my mother felt really sad. I think my child, within his ability, won't even lift a finger to help her, let alone help others in the future. This is a very disappointing move. If you grow up in the future, you must be a selfish person who doesn't care about others' feelings. Then your mother is a failure to be a mother. You don't know, mom bought you the most expensive ticket here before you went back in the summer vacation to make you have fun, and she wants you to have fun, too. Two weeks ago, my mother began to plan to take you out. Because of the thunderstorm, I knew you were coming. My mother got up at 6 o'clock and lined up at the gate of the zoo to buy tickets. She bought a ticket for more than two hours before you arrived. Mom's mobile phone just broke down and she was in a hurry. Mom's disappointment is not that you didn't help her with mineral water, but that through this incident, I saw how selfish and indifferent my son was, which was terrible. I don't want my children to become such people in the future. My dear child, I don't want you to be a very selfish person. Do you know why? Because life is short, your mother will leave you one day, and you will lose her love for you one day. However, if your mother gives you a sunny and kind heart, you will have many real friends in your future life, and you will be loved by many people, who will love you instead of your mother. However, a very selfish person's world will become narrower and narrower, he will have no real friends, and he will not be loved by others. My child, in this world, my mother is just an ordinary woman. Unlike other children, as soon as they are born, their parents have paved a sunshine avenue for them to go. Mom can't give you anything except to guide you to have a healthy and sunny personality and an open-minded and gentle heart. My mother believes that such a character will become the most important thing in your future life. This kind of wealth will accompany my son all his life and eventually lead him to the other side of happiness.

Mother is a little tired after a day's work. She wants to sleep for a while and then finish writing this letter.

I slept in a daze for a while and soon woke up. My mother has been under great pressure at work recently and often suffers from insomnia, but she feels very tired after getting up.

My son, how time flies! You will be 12 years old in the blink of an eye. Everything seems to have happened just yesterday, but my son has just grown up and gradually exudes the elegance of a girl. I remember my son just fell to the ground. After more than four hours of agony, my mother gave birth to you. At that time, the doctor was holding a black mass, and you said it in front of me. I didn't feel too surprised. The meatballs look wrinkled and a little ugly. Only when my grandmother asked me to breast-feed you for the first time did I really realize that I was a mother, that I really became a mother, and that I had children of my own. From that moment on, a primitive maternal love woke up in my heart. Before I got married, I imagined countless times what my child would be like in the future and what kind of life and environment I would give her. I want to give her a poetic but intellectual name, but when one day you finally came into my life, my mother felt that she was not ready for anything, and even that home was crumbling.

My son, your father and I finally separated because of personality differences and values. At that time, my son knew nothing. I remember the day when your father and I divorced. My son is less than two years old. You didn't know I was going to divorce your father. You happily followed us to the street, thinking it was going to the market. At that time, my mother thought, maybe my son is so young that it is good for me to be separated from your father. But now that I think about it, it is a pity anyway.

Son, mom has been too busy at work these years to take care of you. Before the age of 7, grandma and grandpa were taking care of you, working outside every day, and mom missed you very much. At that time, my mother called home from work every day just to listen to her son's immature voice. Every time I hear my son call me. Mom? I feel tired after working all day. Your childish voice is much more feminine, which makes my mother's hard heart suddenly soft. My mother felt very happy and satisfied. Until now, every time I hear my son calling her on the phone, my mother's heart is moving. I can't tell you how touched I am, because it's too far from my old home, and sometimes it takes my mother a year to see my son. I feel sad every time I think about it. I want to stay with my son and watch him grow up and change day by day. In the eyes of a mother, the smallest change of a child is also the most surprising miracle in her life. This joy of witnessing life is beyond your comprehension unless you are a mother yourself. However, my mother's memory of your growth can only be fixed in the year before you were one year old. The day after you turned one, my mother came out to look for a job and left you. After that, I can only listen to my grandparents talking about all the details and changes in your life on the phone. Mom wants to see all this with her own eyes. These will be the most precious memories of your mother and your future life. Children and parents are also a kind of fate, which is the heaviest fate in life. It would be great if you could grow up with my son. This is a mother's most basic wish, but for her, it has become an extravagant hope. After you are 7 years old, your mother takes you to your aunt's house, because her aunt's house is closer to her mother. Mom can see my son at least once a week. Moreover, mom is worried that grandparents will spoil you too much, which will make you too weak in the future, so mom will take you out again. Can you understand mom's good intentions?

It has been four years since I came to my aunt's house. In these four years, I have seen many changes in my son. Mom's heart has also changed a lot. Mom knows that my aunt and uncle are also very kind to you. But it's not your home after all. You can get along well with the menstruation family at such a young age. I can see that my son is very sensible. The son never asks his mother and aunt for anything, nor does he argue with his younger brother for games. Every time I want to buy a gift for my son, my son says no. My mother is a little sour. My mother can feel it. The heartless femininity on my son's face also gradually disappeared. This is actually the happiest expression of a carefree child's childhood. Mom is very sad to see this. On weekends, in order to cultivate my son's interest in reading, I often take you to the library to read books. I found that my son likes reading, but one day, I asked you why you like reading. The answer you gave me was unexpected. You tell your mother that it's because you just came to menstruation's house and felt bored without friends, so you found some books to read. Slowly, you fell in love with reading. Mom thought it was her interest that brought you to the library, but she found that her daughter likes reading because of her inner loneliness. I think my son should be a carefree childhood at this age, but he has already experienced loneliness. This precocity is caused by my mother's failure to give you a happy family. A son should have his own thoughts, which I hope and I don't want. On the one hand, I hope that my son will never grow up carefree, on the other hand, I hope that my son can grow up quickly and stand with his mother and share the storms of life with her. Do you think her mother is ambivalent?

Growth always comes to us with irresistible force. Especially since this year, I have seen my son begin to glow with youthful brilliance. The beautiful acne of youth and growing height remind my son that adolescence is coming. Son, my mother has mixed feelings about your youth growth. Mom even started to get a little nervous. Daughter of this period, how can I get along with you? I think this is not only my daughter's adolescence, but also a new test for my mother. Son, it's my first time to be a mother, and I have no experience, just like the first time you face your growth and clumsy youth. You also have to forgive and understand mom, my child, can we grow up together? You began to have your own obvious and strong personality, and I began to be very afraid that you would go in the wrong direction and bump around. We may even become very antagonistic. Are we still mother and daughter? Will we be friends? That's what I'm worried about.

Last year, my mother felt deeply about two things. The first thing is that last summer, my mother often took you and your brother to the swimming pool on weekends. Do you know why my mother likes to take you swimming? The first is of course that swimming can exercise, and the second is the selfish secret in my mother's heart. My mother will tell you today, because in the swimming pool, I feel that my son needs me very much and is very happy, like a happy little mermaid. Every time he goes deeper, he pounces on me and grabs me. At that moment, I laughed at my son's fear of death. It was also that moment. I think my son needs his mother's protection very much. Usually, my son sometimes stays away from me. I can't even touch you, just like I feel independent. Mother enjoys the time and feeling with her son in the swimming pool.

The second thing is that when my mother was washing clothes, she sneaked to see what my daughter was watching, but she accidentally found tears falling from the corner of my son's eyes. Mother felt a little curious and surprised, so she quickly asked with a smile? Baby, what book have you read that moved you so much? Son, I'm sorry. Close the book quickly. My mother has already seen it. Is this the book? Yilin? The article in the magazine said,? Father's love is a mountain. The mother suddenly realized that the mountain of fatherly love in her son's heart had collapsed and was blank. Mom has a sad sigh in her heart. She hugs you tightly. She tells you, my son, people have all kinds of regrets in their lives, but everyone's regrets are different. It's a pity that you don't have a father's love, but you should know that at least one mother in the world loves you wholeheartedly. No matter what setbacks you encounter in your later life, your mother will always be your harbor. My aunt loves you, my uncle loves you, and so do my grandparents. You just lack fatherly love. Some people are orphans, and some people still lack arms and legs. They should live as strong as usual. My child, you should love yourself. You are as good as anyone. You're great. I want my children to know that although the road of life is not smooth, we still have to love life and always keep a grateful heart for life and the world. Be kind to everyone around you and be kind to yourself. Happiness is sometimes like perfume. You have to spill it on yourself before you can spread it to others.

Sandy, my son, my mother remembers every laugh and every tear when you were growing up. You don't know, every weekend I sleep next to you, and my mother feels so happy and practical. When I wake up in the middle of the night, my mother will turn on the light quietly. Sometimes, I will secretly watch my son sleep by moonlight outside the window. My son is so cute when he sleeps. My mother has to watch it for a long time. She feels very quiet and has a rich heart. It's like appreciating your own works of art. Mom will even think, what friends will her son meet in the future, and will she meet a man who loves her as much as her mother and cherishes my son? Look, how ridiculous mom is. . .

After writing this, my mother suddenly felt old. Why did she become so shivering before she was 40? Said the front, forgot the back. Yes, my mother is really old, because my daughter has grown up. In the near future, my daughter will love her as much as I love her. Because we really love someone, we will become more and more shivering, afraid of your cold, your heat, your injury, your pain, your falling, your never falling, your ignorance, your inability to fly, your flying too high, your crying, your laughing, everything. It's all because I love someone too much. I remember that sometimes I see you wearing too little in winter and force you to wear more. You seem to say impatiently to your mother. Mom, why do I feel that you are more and more like grandma? Always afraid of cold and heat? Yes, I'm more and more like grandma. Because, I love you as much as my grandmother loves my mother.

Sandy, my son, you will leave your mother and go to grandma's house to go to middle school. My mother's eyes will always be on you, no matter how far away. But I hope my daughter can fly by herself one day. My mother is just a wish. As long as my son grows up happily and lives healthily, my mother will be satisfied.

Sandy, my son, you will be the pride of your mother all her life. Because of you, my mother's life has become so rich. With these unprecedented softness and touch, and because this touch has become unprecedented patience and humility, I know how happy it is to have a person connected with my own flesh and blood in this world. Mom really wants to say from the heart, thank you, my dear baby, you are the most precious gift from God to mom.

Sandy, my son, whenever and wherever, in good times and bad, remember that mom loves you very much. Mom will always support you in my heart.

I hope my son will continue to make progress, and my mother is willing to work hard with you and grow up together! I also want to try to be a good mother. Just like I want my daughter to be a good daughter.

Baby! ! ! Let's cheer together, ok? Remember, we are both the closest relatives and the best friends!

A single mother wrote a letter to her daughter.

Son, I want to tell you from the first sentence that you, like everyone else, can't choose your origin, including your parents. So don't complain, accept what you have, and then consider how to live better.

I can't promise many things, such as giving you a complete family, giving you the best education, and even not promising not to kick you out of the house when you make me angry. Dear baby, the only thing I can guarantee is that I will love you forever.

But son, don't put unnecessary pressure on me with this love. I want you to know that you are you and I am me. As an equally independent individual, you belong to you from the moment you are born, not your parents. An umbilical cord connects the crystallization of life and nature, not the relationship between attachment and possession. As a mother, I create conditions and provide support for you, but everything in the future depends on you.

Son, I won't allow you to blame me. No matter what choice I make, I will try my best to be responsible for you in my way, not yours. I repeat, you have no right to choose your parents. I heard that in traditional customs, children from single-parent families will receive more unusual eyes or inappropriate sympathy. Sorry, kid, I don't believe it. I hope you don't mind. If you must be extreme or autistic or neurotic, that's not my problem. Like 10,000 lives in Qian Qian, you fly to the earth like dandelion seeds, some fall on the soil, and some fall in the crevices of stones. This is the law of nature, without exception.

Well, I'll tell you again, the secret lies in how you choose to think about life.

I am a very special mother, which is your blessing or curse. Neither outcome depends on me, but on yourself. Oh, my child, it is wise to respect and accept your mother and achieve yourself with her support.

On many issues, my views are different from others. For example, I'm not sure whether I will get married again, but you'd better be mentally prepared-if I get married again, I must be looking for a suitable object for myself, not for you? Did you go out? My father. ? Did you go out? In my opinion, it is a narrow and ridiculous request, not impossible, but requires the accumulation of fate and life. My principle is, just respect and love, just like I won't force your will. Imitate the tone in the sketch and say: this is a very sensitive question. ? I can't say how well I can handle it, but I will try my best, and everyone may get hurt in the process. This will give me a headache. If you help me, I will ask him for help.

Son, you lived in the countryside in your early years, not only because of my living conditions, but also because of the lack of that environment. I have always had a subjective view that the hidden rules of the city can be learned quickly, but the will rooted in the earth needs to be firmly close to the soil. This view is not necessarily all right, but at least it has been proved by itself. In any case, you will be very happy, because you can wander between the two living conditions at an early age, find out the differences, and then form a sense of self.

You will find that there is no perfect life and environment in this world. In rural areas, you will see poverty, narrowness, clumsiness and unawakened stupidity, while cities are full of selfishness, affectation, ignorance, wonderful indifference and clumsy arrogance. There has never been a paradise, whether at home or abroad. But if I can choose a spiritual habitat for you, then I pray that the creator will give you an understanding of literature, music, painting, architecture, poetry and other arts, and give you the ability to have a deep dialogue with nature.

Son, education is a very subjective matter. You can't expect me to train you in the way you like. I protect your nature to the greatest extent, but at the same time I believe that choice is very important for a person's success. Especially when you change from a girl to a girl, or from a little boy to a teenager, I have to tie you up so that you won't look crooked in this bizarre society, and you won't become a chopping block, let alone a pillar. So, what I'm about to tell you may not be reasonable, but you must pay attention to it and implement it. Don't challenge your mother, I will tell you firmly-I will never be afraid of your crying, your hunger or your running away from home.

You don't have to love reading, but don't read stupid books. Some words are useless except to make you stupid. I'll force you to assign reading tasks, and it's no use threatening me with suicide. I don't expect you to write, but literature will bring you valuable qualities.

Fast-food fashion magazines can be read occasionally, but don't read them as bibles. Watching entertainment programs on TV is not allowed to exceed 30 minutes. If I find that you have five holes in your ears and talk like a host without nutrition, I'll take you to grandma's house to kneel and rub the washboard at once.

Of course, you can fall in love freely, even many times, but don't be unrequited, let alone narcissistic, and force yourself to no way back, treating vanity as love and stupidity as chastity. I will never allow my children to cry in love and have no self-esteem. Always believe in the fact that no matter how beautiful and excellent you are, there are always people of the opposite sex who are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you meet a man you like, but if he really doesn't like you, don't be forced to turn around and leave. Always believe that you deserve the best man, but always learn to motivate yourself to become better and better.

Basically, I won't interfere with what career you choose, but you'd better engage in jobs that make you more valuable as you get older, such as lawyers and marketing. I don't object to art, but don't take the tragic and painful route. If you must be behind closed doors, please pack your bags and leave my house.

Sooner or later, you will face the problems of love and sex. I am not a conservative defender, but you are not an inclusive rag. The separation of love and sex is not a technical problem, but we still have to cherish our bodies, and not everyone is entitled to enjoy it. I tell you from the bitter experience of an old woman: after sleeping with a bad, ridiculous and stupid man, you have to spend 10 times of wisdom and courage to believe that you are not bad, ridiculous or stupid. At that time, I couldn't wait to say a spell to destroy each other's bodies to improve my innocent memory.

Whether it is a daughter or a son, you must concentrate after marriage. There will be more beautiful, rich and attractive people in this world anytime and anywhere. Don't make yourself look like a social butterfly or a conqueror. One-on-one relationship is not for moral tradition, but for enjoying more focused love and sex. Of course, concentration can't guarantee you smooth sailing, but at least don't lose on low-level mistakes.

Son, if you are really unhappy after marriage, I don't mind your divorce, but you'd better think clearly, don't be afraid of the unknown, don't be afraid of being too late. I tell you with the happy experience of an old woman: life is never too late, and God will never open the door to despair for those who make up their minds.

You can boldly criticize the chronic diseases of society, but don't complain, take action, even if it is insignificant. The world is not for you, but for everyone to realize the value of life. Of course, I know that any great life will eventually return to dust, and life is just a void. But I don't want you to be like an old monk at a young age, with a saint-like temperament, or fantasize about going fishing in Walden Lake like Thoreau all day, and then publicize your brand image to the audience and say: I am low-key, I am indifferent, and I have a heart-to-heart relationship with Thoreau.

Will I? Straight man? Laugh out loud, my child! Only high-profile people are qualified to keep a low profile, and the magnificent sea can present calm beauty. Thoreau is a thinker, but you are not. Pessoa is also a hermit, but somebody else took out a book "I'm afraid to record". Son, you can be ambitious, but don't deceive yourself. When I was your age, I made up my mind to earn 100 million yuan, or more, because I firmly believed in wealth and power. I have interviewed many entrepreneurs, and they have changed my view on money and business. There is no shortage of people in China who stand by and show the way. I hope you are an activist. Are you the most like Bill? Gates is as rich as an enemy, creating more wealth and benign value for society.

My child, when we can sit together and discuss this problem, I am old, holding a pen in my hand and writing something that will never be taken seriously. Ideal is the highland that I can't reach, and the fire is passed in your hands. I have many answers to tell you, but I hope you can find the questions yourself first. I always wait for you in the study, listening to your confusion and questions. I don't know when I fell asleep Your footsteps were light when I went out. Maybe you won't notice. I've been watching you gently behind my back.

A single mother wrote a letter to her daughter.

Whether it's thorns or roses ahead, baby, I will take you with me, because I am complete with you. Would you like to take a walk with me? In fact, you have been answering me, answering me happily.

You are the continuation of my life, the source of all my happiness, the driving force of my progress, all my hopes, and you control my happiness and pain. Without you, everything will be meaningless! Whether you are an angel or a naughty boy, whether your report card is all excellent or not, I still love you deeply, because-you are my dearest daughter, the most beautiful and kind flower-like daughter in my heart!

I once separated from you to pursue my so-called sky, thinking that we would still be loving mother and daughter anyway. I overestimated your viability. After only one year apart, I feel that I have experienced a century, and I can't even feel the arrival and departure of spring ... All the pain tells me what a wrong choice it is to be separated from you. At that time, I decided that I must stay with you no matter what! I want to find my other half. I have tasted the separation of flesh and blood, so in the future, no matter when or under what circumstances, I will not be separated from you and will not lose you.

When we used to stay in the dark room, you listened to songs, sang and danced happily after finishing your homework every day. The wall is covered with photos of your favorite stars, most of which are Jolin Tsai and your favorite brother Jay Chou. You drew a picture on the whole wooden door called Merry Christmas, and you wrote it? Welcome to visit. You like Snow White Barbie best. She dresses up every day and has a little bear doll. You said you would keep it all the time, because this bear was a gift from your sister when you separated. You cook happily on the electric stove, and occasionally make me angry because of fun. When I come home, you will call mom and give me a warm kiss ... In those days when our mother and daughter lived alone, baby, you were the highlight of my life. When I am unhappy, I am always amazed at your happiness and strength. The change of life does not make you lose, but makes you more sympathetic to other children who have no maternal love. Baby, you are a happy, sunny, brave, intelligent and caring child ... Later, we moved twice, and we were reluctant to share with you every time, because there was a shadow of your growth in the room ... I said we would always have a home, and we would never have to move again. You are so happy to grow up with me to 13 years old and grow into a healthy big child of 1.6 meters. I sometimes wonder, is this girl with long hair and tight jeans next to me my little baby, like that weather doll with milk sound and gas?

Baby, I'm leaving you for a while. Mom wants to give you a home that will never move again, but you don't want to leave right away. I have discussed this problem with you countless times, and I ask for your opinion. I don't know how to be the best. You told me happily that I would pick you up after you finished junior high school. You said it was the first time you met such a good teacher and classmate, and you may never meet them again. You also said that you like the culture of China and want to learn Chinese well at this stage. I'm afraid I can't adapt to the foreign environment in the past at once. Baby, are you tired of your mother? Do you think you have strong wings? I said I hope you will work hard in the direction of translation in the future, and it is best to do simultaneous translation to realize your mother's unfulfilled dream. You still answer to be a star and a super girl. I'm dizzy! I'm dizzy! I am really dizzy!