Take your boyfriend home to meet his parents. My mother has been talking about the shortcomings of her boyfriend. Should I listen to her?

First of all, you have to find out why mom said such things. After all, everything has a reason, and she can't just say it.

Moreover, mother must think of you and not be malicious to you. After all, her parents are more experienced than us, and she has her own ideas about people. Getting married is not a trivial matter, so parents will be very worried about whether their daughter will be unhappy in the future, so they will try their best to help you.

We often say that "the authorities are fascinated", because you are the party, so you don't really see many things, and your judgment will be biased. It's not a bad thing to listen to parents' opinions. Or some shortcomings in your boyfriend, you can't see them for the time being, but your mother has already seen some clues. If the boyfriend really has the shortcomings in his mother's mouth, it's not a big shortcoming. Let him change it. Whether your boyfriend will change can also tell whether he really loves you.

Or, is there any misunderstanding between mother and boyfriend? If so, the misunderstanding should be solved immediately. If you think mom's evaluation of him is a little distorted, you might as well be a middleman and adjust their relationship. I believe that if your boyfriend loves you enough, he will actively cooperate with you and get your mother's affirmation. And for the sake of her daughter's happiness, when her mother saw that her boyfriend was willing to work hard for her daughter, she would eventually agree.

Of course, mom's words can be used as a reference, but the final judgment still depends on yourself. After all, you're the one who really went with him. If you really agree with him, then go with him!