My girlfriend has been asking for money from herself. What should I do? Everybody give some advice.

Problem description:

My girlfriend and I are not in the same city. She graduated, but hasn't found a job yet. I'm still at school.

She is beautiful and smart, but she asks me to give her pocket money every month, usually 100-200 yuan, sometimes more. When she comes to see me, she will ask me to buy her clothes or other things. I am a student without financial ability, but she also told me that knowing that I am a student doesn't have much money, so she will save some money ~! Last month, I only gave her 650 yuan three times. The first time, she drank too much and lost her wallet. The second time, I met her for a year and gave her money to sell her own gifts. The third time, she went home. She doesn't have enough money to fly back.

At the beginning of last month, I asked her if she loved me. She told me, "I won't fall in love with another person so easily. I like you a little out of kindness." She told me that I gave her the impression that I was honest and would love others, and the biggest shortcoming was honesty.

She had a boyfriend. They have been in love for six years since junior high school, but they broke up peacefully because of the opposition of the man's parents. She has been wearing the silver bracelet that her boyfriend gave her, and I think she still loves him in her heart ~

I love her very much, but I don't want to be the person she remembers only when she has no money. What should I do?

I would like to add that as soon as she sent me a text message, I knew she wanted money from me ~ I love her very much, and I want to be her support, but I am still a student and have no financial ability at all.

Before my birthday, I told her that my birthday was coming, and she immediately said that I asked her for a gift and that she had no financial resources and could not give me anything. In fact, I don't want her to give me any gifts at all. I just want her to send me a message or call me on my birthday, and I'm satisfied ~

But sometimes, when I encounter setbacks, she will encourage me ~

Analysis:

Let me say something. Personally, I don't think there should be too much money between men and women during love. I don't think this is a good idea. When you are not completely sure whether you will be together for life, it is best not to spend money on boys, because it is not easy for anyone to get money now, let alone students. Students usually get money from their parents. If they have the ability, they will get some living expenses themselves. That's good. Both sides have no financial resources, so they should be more considerate of each other. I don't think the girlfriend of the landlord should be like this.

If we really love each other, I don't think there will be any contradiction on the issue of money. I don't think love is love once it is related to money. Maybe my statement is a little extreme, but I think it is. I can do a lot of things for my lover, and I don't care about money, because now we both have no money and want to work together.

It's the birthday of the landlord, so it's normal to say something to your girlfriend. My girlfriend shouldn't answer you like this. I think her answer like that shows that what she wants for her birthday is those things, not your love for her. She feels that if she loves her, she should be given something similar to material things.

Landlord, it's up to you. No one is perfect. Maybe she's wrong. There are many other advantages, so there is no need to care. But you have to explain your situation to her. It's best that she can stay, but she can't. ...................