How to text the girl you like

Table of Contents Method 1: A strong start 1. Be novel. 2. Be able to ask questions. 3. Pay attention to your grammar. 4. Don’t be too deliberate. Method 2: Continue to arouse her interest 1. Maintain charm. 2. Tease. 3. Show that you care about her. 4. Don’t be too impatient. Method 3: End happily 1. Seize the opportunity to end. 2. Leave a message. 3. If you get the phone number of the girl you like, you are really lucky, but what should you do next? If you're afraid to call her, get her attention by texting! When texting a girl you like, learn how to tease her just right. If you want to learn some tips on texting the girl you like, check out the tips below.

Method 1: A strong start

1. Be novel. Send a text message that is new and unique. Don't say hi or send a weird emoji. Send a text message that will make her laugh and be interested in you. Try to get her to think, "Wow, this guy is interesting, I want to keep in touch with him." Here are some suggestions: Use your wit to charm her. Tell her a point of view that makes her think that your way of thinking is unique.

Make her laugh. Make her think that you are a smart person, even through text messages.

Tell her something she didn’t know before. If you hear some surprising news and share it with her, she's bound to be stunned.

2. Be able to ask questions. Questions are conversation starters because asking questions makes the girl feel like you're waiting for a response. Your questions don’t make the girl feel like “how should I answer this?”, so the more direct and specific the questions, the better. Here are some good questions: Ask her how her day or week was. If you know she has a big event recently, ask her how it went.

Make sure the questions are easy to answer. Don’t ask questions like what you think the meaning of life is or what you are going to do for National Day.

Keep the questions simple. A short sentence can clearly express the problem.

Ask open-ended questions. Instead of asking, "What time did you get home from the concert last night?" ask, "How was the concert last night?" This gives the other person room to express themselves. If your question can be answered in one or two words, your conversation is over before it even begins.

3. Pay attention to your grammar. Although it may seem silly, you still need to pay attention to the wrong words and punctuation in your text messages. Although you don’t have to be as careful about every word as Lu Xun, you should at least let the girl know that you are taking her text messages very seriously. If necessary, use some paragraphing or omissions appropriately, but don't go too far and make the entire article full of semicolons and dashes, which will appear too formal. But remember, just like sending an email, read it thoroughly before sending it.

4. Don’t be too deliberate. When you first text a girl, don't be too pushy or she will notice right away and start hating you. Be yourself no matter what, don't do something that goes against your everyday look just because you think it will impress a girl. The worst thing that can happen is that if you dress up too deliberately, the girl will immediately expose you. Take it easy. Don't send a long text message or an emotionally charged text message. One sentence per text message is enough.

Don’t try to be funny. If you have a sense of humor, that's fine; but if you find yourself putting "hahaha" at the end of sentences to show you're joking, don't do it.

You know, the girl may be nervous when she receives your text message. This might make it easier for you to not force yourself to send a perfect text message.

Method 2: Continue to arouse her interest

1. Maintain charm. Make the girl you like feel like texting you is always fun so she thinks you can control the conversation when she meets you up. Your goal when texting a girl is to make her attracted to your personality and want to know more about you. If you really get this girl hooked, she will want to keep talking to you. Here are some suggestions: Find people with similar interests. Of course, you can't express your political stance or religious opinions in text messages, but you can find some common interests, such as a TV show or a band, so that you can find a common topic. .

Occasionally mention your interests, such as football or cooking, to catch her eye.

Let her know that you lead a busy and fulfilling life. Tell her when you hang out with friends and when band practice happens. She will be more interested in you if she knows you have a rich life.

Show your intelligence. If she says something funny, don't just say "Hahaha" and end the conversation, but tell her something funny again to let her know you can keep the conversation going.

2. Tease. Verbally teasing a girl will make her want to continue talking to you and give you some hints that you really want to know. But you have to be careful, just enough to let her know that you are very interested in her, but not too flirtatious, otherwise she will back off. Here are some tips for keeping the conversation going through teasing: Be naughty. Show your silly side by making stupid remarks at the right time. No woman will like someone who is too serious.

Make fun of her. If you know each other well enough, you can tease her a little and then wait for her to tease you back. But make sure she can read your tone and understand that you're joking.

You can use some emoticons when appropriate, such as ?;-), but don’t use them too often. But a well-placed emoji is a great way to tease.

3. Show your concern for her. There are some quick and easy ways to let a girl know you care without making it too obvious. Send a text message to a girl at the right time to let her know that you are thinking of her and that she is very important to you. Here are some ways to show you care through text messages: Let her know you value her opinion. Ask her for her opinion on something, such as a recent movie or a new restaurant.

Ask questions about her. But don't get too personal, and if it comes up during conversation, ask her what she wants or what she wants to do over the weekend.

Let her know that you remember your conversation. If she tells you that she has an important exam recently, sending her a message saying "good luck with the exam" the night before her exam will be very touching.

4. Don’t be too eager. You want to make sure that your good feelings go both ways and that you're not just bombarding the girl with text messages. You can show your interest in her, but don't be too eager, too needy, or too annoying, or you'll just be simply embarrassing yourself. Here are a few ways to make yourself appear less pushy: Send equal amounts of information back and forth. If you send her 10 texts and she only responds to one or two, stop it.

Don’t reply the moment you receive a reply. If she takes a day to get back to you, don't get back to her within five minutes of receiving the reply. This can make you appear too eager or even desperate.

Don’t use too many emoticons. While the right emoticons can be helpful for flirtation, don’t overuse them.

Don’t abuse punctuation. A line of 10 exclamation points will scare a girl.

Method 3: End happily

1. Seize the opportunity to end. If you want a girl to stay interested in you, end a chat at the right time, otherwise she will get tired of your text messages. If the girl looks tired, even if you still have a lot to say, stop yourself from ending the conversation and continue later. Here are some signs that you should end the conversation: If the girl is the last to speak in each round of conversation, then you should wait a moment and let the other person start a new topic.

If a girl only gives you a one-word reply, it means that she is either too busy or too lazy to pay attention to you.

If the girl takes hours or even days to reply to you every time, forget it.

2. Leave a message. Don't say it all at once so that you can continue the conversation next time. This is very simple. For example, you can say that you would like to see her after a while, or tell her that you have something to do in the evening, and then continue talking about it. Here are some suggestions: Let her know where you have been. Then she might take this as a hint that you want to go with her.

Tell her you hope she will be happy going forward.

Tell her you are always thinking of her in a clever way.

Send her "good morning" and "good night" at the right time.

3. If everything goes well, ask her out! If you feel like you're having a great conversation with the girl you like, and she feels the same way, ask her out! The worst possible outcome is that she rejects you, but that's no big deal, right? If you're confident in your relationship or you want to spend more time with her, ask her out! Here’s some advice on how to do it: It doesn’t have to be formal. You can tell her that you are going to a bar, restaurant, or concert with a few friends, and ask her or her friends if they would like to join you.

If you have been chatting for a long time and in depth, then you can just say, "I would like to chat with you face to face. How about having a meal or a drink together?"

Tips: If the girl doesn’t reply immediately, wait patiently and don’t rush. Don't immediately ask her what she is doing and why she doesn't reply.

Don’t text her all the time and expect her to reply. You know, she has her own friends and life too.

Don’t package the text messages you send her, just be yourself.