What can you do when the other side is indifferent and doesn't reply to the news during the Cold War?

During the cold war, transmitting information was skillful and needed appropriate action.

First, don't bombard the news. If the other party doesn't reply all the time, don't send too many messages, which is calculated as 1-2 messages per day. There is no need to send it all the time unless the other party replies. Sending too much information has no practical significance except to make the other party feel disgusted. And information bombing is also difficult for people to calm down and look at the content.

When I am angry, my boyfriend sends me messages, which I often read several times. After reading it, I still have time to think and calm down slowly. If he bombards me with information, I will be at a loss, and then I will ignore it directly because of impatience, or go back directly, and finally the contradiction will intensify.

So, if you have something to say at a time, don't exceed five, so that the other person can fully feel what you want to express.

Second, take action to remedy the cold war between my boyfriend and me. In fact, the real idea in my heart is to wait for him to try to coax me. Of course, it's easy to fool me. I need to see sincerity. This sincerity requires practical actions, and it is best to make yourself no longer embarrassed. When two people are together, they can hold each other's hands, or they can just roll around. Let the other person's attitude first, at least talk, and then make up for it.

Third, find out the causes of the cold war. People who engage in the cold war are usually either introverted or particularly disappointed. If you want the other person to forgive yourself completely, you should also find the main reason and take immediate action to change it.

I once had a cold war with my husband because he worked the night shift. He didn't come to pick me up, and he walked back from the factory in the suburbs alone in the middle of the night. He was so scared that he wanted to cry, but he was afraid that crying would attract others' attention, so he came back with courage. I didn't expect to find him playing games happily when I came back. He obviously worked overtime until 9 pm that day. Seeing him happy, I suddenly felt that I shouldn't pity him.

In short, the most important thing in the cold war is to find out the reasons and then solve them in a targeted manner. Otherwise, this time it will be solved, and the next time it will be the cold war.