What if a girl suddenly ignores you?

Men often encounter such a problem: in the process of chasing a woman, it seems that the relationship is getting better and better, and it will be successful soon, but the woman suddenly ignores the man. Or, in the process of love, women suddenly ignore men. In both cases, men will be puzzled. Many men don't think about how to solve this situation, but just think about it, which is very unfavorable for solving the problem. You should reflect on yourself first, and then analyze what went wrong. Let's talk about what we should do

1, what did you say?

As the saying goes, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. This situation is often encountered in love, especially for women. Sometimes being too sensitive will think too much. A man's words, a word, may cause a minefield in her heart, such as "fat", "ugly", "short" and "death" that most women are taboo. At this time, women's reaction is obvious, and most of them will suddenly get cold and then ignore men. Therefore, in the process of getting along with a woman, if she suddenly ignores you, the first thing you should reflect on is whether you said something wrong. You can recall what you talked with her. If this is the reason, you must apologize to her, so as to repair her heart injury and your relationship.

2. What did you do?

Many people say that women are "narrow-minded". In fact, women are born with "sensitivity", "fragility" and "suspicion", so it is not just a man who says something that may make women unhappy, but a man who does something or an action or behavior that may also make women unhappy. In love, a woman will have an obvious reaction when she is unhappy, and her choice to ignore men is the best evidence of her anger. Therefore, when a woman suddenly ignores you, if you reflect on what you said but there is no problem, it is necessary to reflect on your behavior. You dig nose excrement in public, neglect her in public, don't give in to her pace when shopping, lean beside her when holding an umbrella, don't hold her hand when walking and so on. All these may cause her to ignore you. If you do something wrong to make her ignore you, you should also apologize to her and promise her that you will change.

3. Whose problem is it?

If you don't find any problems after reflecting on the above two points, either you haven't reflected thoroughly enough, or it's not your problem, but a woman's problem. In this case, you have to lower your profile and communicate with women more. Even if she ignores you and makes you feel uncomfortable, you should restrain yourself, show an attitude of trying to solve the problem, apologize first, and then lead her to tell what it is. At this time, men need to work hard and must find ways to make women talk, otherwise the problem will never be solved. If you can keep trying to please her, the woman will talk soon, and the reason will be clear.

Step 4 handle it in a calm way

Remember, man, whatever you finally know is the reason why women ignore you, you should accept it frankly. If it's your problem, you must apologize again and promise it won't happen again. If it is her problem, for example, she is tired of being with you and wants to end your relationship in this way, then you can accept this reality frankly, try to stay if you want, and let her go if you don't want to.

No matter how perfect love is, there will be unexpected problems. The above-mentioned "women suddenly ignore you" is one of the raids. When men encounter this kind of problem, remember not to panic, first find the reason from themselves, then communicate and confirm, and finally deal with it calmly. This kind of problem seems to strike suddenly, but there must be a lot of casual foreshadowing before it, but you just didn't pay attention. Therefore, the best way to prevent this kind of problem is to treat it with heart at any time of love.