That's why boys don't return messages.

That's why boys don't return messages.

Boys who don't reply to news can't be generalized, and they need to look at the situation.

1 He doesn't like you.

There is nothing to say about this situation, that is, you are not attractive to him and he doesn't want to spend time chatting with you. If so, you can feel it not only in chatting, but also in other ways. Either make him more attractive or make a change.

2. His style is like this.

Some boys don't return messages when they are busy with their own affairs, which doesn't mean that things are more important than you, but this is what he is doing at the moment, and that's all.

However, if you still don't reply afterwards, or even if you do, you don't want to extend the topic and are eager to end the chat, then it is intentional. There are also boys who are just not enthusiastic about online chat, but they do well after meeting. Later, they learned that boys just don't pay so much attention to online chat tools.

If you can't correctly distinguish between "style is like this" and "I don't care about you", it's easy to misunderstand.

3. Mutual space issues

We all know that even a good relationship needs independent space. This statement is correct in itself, but it is also regarded by many boys as saying that they don't return the news. If you don't agree, you will be unreasonable, if you agree, you will feel something is wrong.

You can distinguish it by stage and degree.

1. Let's look at the stage of your relationship. If you have been together for a long time, you have passed the love period and the running-in period, and the tacit understanding between the two sides is high, then this is a mature relationship. This is the real independent space for each other. If you just talk for a long time without returning messages and talking about your own independent space, then this is a sentence.

2. There are different degrees of not returning information.

I don't return messages for a few hours occasionally, and I will make it clear to you afterwards, so this level is actually good. If you don't reply to the message for a few days or more, it's just words. The truth is that he doesn't like you that much. The reason for being with you is also very simple: riding a donkey to find a horse, I haven't found my next home yet.

4. Old driver

In love, some boys will play hard to get if they want to take the initiative. I read your message clearly, and I deliberately didn't reply to you for a long time. Of course, I won't tell you directly when I reply. I just didn't reply to you, but I was busy just now. Deliberately create a busy atmosphere

At this time, there must be a prelude to not returning the news. It may be asking for something from you, or it may be deliberately saying something negative to suppress you. If you don't agree, you will start not returning messages to you.

The purpose is to make you compromise by not returning the news, and then let you meet his requirements or agree with what he said to suppress you. You will feel: Yes, he is still with me after I am so bad, so listen to him.

After a long time, "not returning your message" becomes a switch for you to compromise. So if this is the case, if you think his request is unreasonable and his evaluation of you is not objective, then it means: I don't accept it!

Boys want you to compromise in this way. At this time, they can be indifferent, let him hang aside and do whatever they have to do.