My wife texted her ex-boyfriend in the middle of the night! I was very scared when I found out. I know she's having an affair. What should I do?

You can give her some space, suggesting that you actually know about it, but you just don't want to hurt her, and see if she feels guilty ... (Because if it's just a short message you see, it has nothing to do with whether she is having an affair, and you say it impulsively, it will hurt the feelings of the other party) In addition, look at her attitude towards the children and your attitude. If she loves this child and you very much, she will take the initiative to show her love to you because she is. If she does, if you really love her, just let go. Forgive all this for the sake of the children and your hard-won feelings. After all, no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, don't you think! I hope you are happy! Oil; Fuel charging; Make greater efforts